my friends keep being mean.they are emailing me rude things and making fun of me cause im not friends with them anymore. and i know this is bad,but i remembered my friend carlies email password. so i got into her email and she was gossiping about me and saying rude things. carlie was my best friend and she ditched me for rylee. but when i saw those emails i just wanted to tell her off,but yet it makes me miss her more. her and rylee were sending me mean things,but when i went into her email i couldnt find the emails the sent me. and the emails didnt sound much like carlie,more like rylee. im thinking that rylee sent me those emails and then deleted it or carlie did it herself and then deleted it. im not sure but i cannot stand it anymore. i need help before i blow on somebody. and im 12.
2006-11-28 12:48:14 · 7 answers · asked by heat1395 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
if she was ur best friend she wouldn't be sending u those emails or gossiping about u and u can make better friends
sooner or l8ter u guys maybe might be friends again it always happens its just drama!
2006-11-28 13:05:21 · answer #1 · answered by BrownIDbombshell<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that you should start with a new e-mail account.
I know it seems easy fo me to say this, but in a few years this won't mean a thing to you. Try to ignore these "friends" and find new ones. People can be so mean, but it mostly comes from their own insecurities. They're just trying to fit in, and they're finding it easier to do so by ganging up on you. It doesn't make it right, it makes them pathetic.
Perhaps Carlie will come to see the error of her ways, and realize that in fact you are the type of friend she wants. If she does, if you can forgive and forget, that would be great. If not, then let her know that her behavior hurt you and that you don't think you can be friends or trust her.
Please try not to worry about this too much. Please find other activities and people to distract you. Life is really so precious, it's important to enjoy the good things and to try not to dwell endlessly on the bad.
2006-11-28 22:36:09 · answer #2 · answered by Shars 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Best thing you can do is delete your current e-mail account and create a new one. That way you'll no longer receive e-mails from them. It's going to be hard in the beginning because of remembering how things used to be, but you really need to completely cut yourself off from them. Now is the most important time in your life to build up your self-esteem and learn to stand up for your self and let people know how you expect to be treated. My 12 yr. old daughter had a similar problem in 5th grade and when I told her she needed to tell her "friend" to stop calling her and how she expected to be treated, her "friend" didn't listen and lost my daughter as a friend. Weeks after the incident, my daughter said that this girl had been nasty with a few other girls and these other girls became friends with my daughter and the mean friend realized she used up all her options for friends and tried to apologize to my daughter when it was too late. It made my daughter feel so good to know she had the control to decide how she would be treated and now she's in 7th grade and has better friends because she doesn't allow people to treat her badly.
2006-11-28 21:43:23 · answer #3 · answered by AverageMom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know the whole email thing is messed up.. why dont u actually GO to her and ask her whats going on??
if she is the one sending you mean things maybe she misunderstood sumthing or shes just that way.. if she is then she has issues and you should just get new friends!
but seriously ask her face to face and start from the beginning.
2006-11-29 14:09:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You asked a question about Jesus.
Jesus said forgive and forget.
Love your enemy the most.
Love your neighbors as you love yourself.
No one is doing anything to ruin your life forever.
2006-11-28 23:23:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore them because no one deserves to be treaten badly, an if she is your friend she shouldnt be treating you like that, so you should find another friend that will treat you better.
2006-11-28 21:11:14 · answer #6 · answered by ~~Chiki~~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drama drama drama!!!
just move on, eventually
you guys will get over it!
just tell them to grow up!!!
2006-11-29 00:32:54 · answer #7 · answered by UH-MAN-DUH!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋