In most states you have to be 18 to be married without a parents consent. Talk to her, but know that she might not listen. Whatever you do, always be her friend. Explain to her why you feel the way you do...but always be her friend. That is the most important thing for her.
2006-11-28 14:21:14
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answered by Jack Lewis 2
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You are right. She is to young. Why don't you ask her if she is pregnant. Explain to her that she must wait at least another 2 years. If she stll insists, then support her. Tell her that she is to young to get married by law if you are in the England without your parents permission. Time will tell if she has made the right decision. Also, buy her Take A Break magazine, so she knows what she is letting herself in for, as they quite often have stories about people who married young and lived to regret it.
2006-12-01 01:09:35
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answered by gr_bateman 4
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Don't know which country you are in, but if you are in the UK, she can't get married until she is 18, unless it is with her parents' permission. 16 is far too young to even make such a life changing decision, let alone proceed with it. The trouble with being 16 is that teenagers think they know it all, and there is no telling them. If she thinks this will make her grow up, it won't. But soon after marriage I can see that kids will follow and she won't cope easily with that - that's when she'll want her life back and things are bound to go wrong. Ask her if she really understands that marriage is for LIFE! How old is the bloke???
2006-11-29 07:03:48
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answered by ribena 4
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She could be pregnant then again she also could just love him she's not too young she's almost an adult it's her life and she will make mistakes I think you just need to be there for her if she wants to marry him support her but let her know what she is getting into. It's a good think you love her but you have to let her live her own life you can't always protect her.
2006-11-28 17:43:44
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answered by Anonymous
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Hi, I'm the girl that 'Rhonda53' mentioned above. I married at 16 (I was very mature) My husband was 19, we were expecting a baby (not planned) and as Rhonda said we are still going strong 6 years later. We are very happy, have 2 wonderful children, my husband has a good job and we basically have a very good life. I can accept that we are the exception to the rule, but your friend may be too. She may end up very happy and she may not, but its her decision to make.
2006-11-29 07:13:24
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answered by Anonymous
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You perplexed me. So is she pregnant or no longer. If she is get a job and do what you acquire to do. If she's no longer why would you even waist a while scripting this once you're able to be out doing regular sixteen 3 hundred and sixty 5 days old events.
2016-10-04 12:09:39
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answered by schugmann 4
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You need to support her and be there for her. If you push her too far away now you might lose her friendship. There is nothing to suggest that the realtionship won't work out (people used to get married that young all the time!), but if it does, make sure you are available for your friend and don't say 'I told you so!'
2006-11-28 20:11:25
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answered by MrsC 4
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You have every right to be worried about her in my opinion she's way to young to be getting married. Try to find out exactly why she wants to get married if she's pregnant she doesn't need to get married but receive the right help to deal with her pregnancy. Have you tried talking to guy she's getting married to he may be pressurising her in to making a commitment to him. It could be lots of things but you should really sit down and talk with her, she could be making the biggest mistake of her life.
2006-12-02 06:02:27
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answered by Anonymous
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just be there for her when she needs you the more u disagree with her decision (and lets face it it is hers to make and she will need her parents consent at such a young age) the more she will want to go ahead with it!!
my sister got married a few days after her 16th birthday and she was pregnant but against all my expectations they have been married for nearly 6 yrs now and are still going strong
yeah they have there ups and downs but its working
2006-11-29 06:25:30
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answered by ronny mac 1
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You cant get married in most states unless your over the age of 18. And you can't really change someone's mind that easily if it has to do something with love.
If shes pregnant....thennn idkk lol
sorry = ]
2006-11-28 14:25:25
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answered by Meow 2
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