Pregnancy & Parenting - 10 November 2007

im 14 and my bf is 17, we have been together for 2 years..and he has told me MANY times that he wants me to have his baby, like now tho...he really wants a baby...he has the money to take care of a baby, and i seriously dont think he would leave me and if he did...i have my family who i know would help me...but we really want a baby, i know we shouldnt but we really want to...what should i do?

2007-11-10 06:05:03 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Adolescent

My mom and I need help. My brother has been VERY whiney these past couple of days!!! Today, ALL morning he's been crying! We've fed him, let him crawl around, changed him, put him to sleep, HE DOESN'T STOP CRYING!!!! It's been like this for 5 hours!! We need to know what's wrong!!! He's usually not like this but today is very crazy.

And after we were about to head off to go eat somewhere, he cries even HARDER and LOUDER, and he pukes all over himself.

I HATE seeing him cry, it makes me sad. I just don't know how to help it, so anyone please let me in on ANY advice? I want to raise this kid just right.

2007-11-10 05:56:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Newborn & Baby

That you should rub vix vapour rub on the soles of the baby's feet at night and put their socks on.

I have never heard of this please tell me if it is right or wrong

thank you

kitti

2007-11-10 05:53:42 · 12 answers · asked by misskitti7® 7 in Newborn & Baby

I brought my 12 year old daughter to the doctor. They had her wear a gown with only underwear and a bra underneath. When it was time for the private exam she said to stand. Then she remvoed my daughters underwear and examined her standing. Then the doctor said she wanted to look at her laying down. She also pulled her shirt down to look and feel her breats. Is this normally how doctors do this?

2007-11-10 05:49:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Adolescent

2007-11-10 05:37:53 · 4 answers · asked by L.M.Y 1 in Adolescent

my mom's b-day is 2day what do I get her that is cheap my bro got her a fancy candle and bath confetti

2007-11-10 05:34:23 · 3 answers · asked by Atomic Dolphin 2 in Adolescent

my daughter put vasaline in her hair. any ideas on how to get it out??? Help!

2007-11-10 05:27:30 · 13 answers · asked by ✿❃❀❁✾ Stef ♐ ✿❃❀❁✾ 7 in Toddler & Preschooler

ok my son is 3 months and he has a lil rash like above his lil wee wee and around u know the lil area below his below im not sure if its from the diapers or what is this something that i should get checked out or am i just being a worried first time mom

2007-11-10 05:25:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Newborn & Baby

I have swollen breast, bigger and darker nipples,and sore nipples but for only 2 or 3 days I have had itchy nipples and breast. But I heard your nipples don't start getting bigger until the second trimester? Then what's wrong with my nipples then? and also only on one occasion I vomited and had a big head ache and it was before I got out of bed in the morning. and felt fine and hour later.but I have had just a little nausea not to much to bother me but it was followed by weakness. About a week after I had sex I did have cramping not too much to bother me. I'm also very tired all the time. I get enough sleep at night and was never this way before. I did miss my period.but starting today I'm having spotting(very, very light, on a pantie liner)I been feeling like I need to go to bed more early. The tiredness is a new thing to me I been like that for like 5 days now but my breast been like that for about 2 weeks and a half. I have been very moody lately, I'm even getting on my own nerves!

2007-11-10 05:24:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy

I'm barely into my second trimester. My friends are all your typical guys. (That's not a slam, I love them all to death, but they're all a "mans man") My Dad and his GF live about three hours away. So does my Mother, and we just got back into speaking terms. My sister lives 8 hours away. My BF's mom is very distant emotionally, and I don't think she's going to be very happy when she finds out her son and I have procreated. I really don't have any girlfriends, as I've always been more of a tomboy. I can't really count on a guy throwing a baby shower, right? So, should I throw my own? I'm not trying to be greedy or anything. But this is my first child, and I'm very excited. I also have very little money to spend on this baby as it is, and I refuse to put things on a credit card, since I just got out of that death trap.

2007-11-10 05:20:30 · 7 answers · asked by Heidi B 2 in Pregnancy

(I'm using my daughter's account).
I'm sorry about my post last night ( It's in her account if you would like to read it). Marrisa ( my daughter) & I talked about it, & I realized how harsh I was being. She just had surgery ( She's 15 btw) 7 day's ago, & I realized that she needed to have some of her friend's over so she can have there support. I just re-read the post, & WOW did I sound like a Grinch. So I'm sorry about that post yesterday. (Some of her friends are over here right now).
I do have a question though. What kind of movies do 15 & 16 year old guys, & girls like? I'm about to go get my daughter & her friends some movies, but I'm not sure what kind of movies to get them? I already asked them & they said they didn't care just not little kids movies lol. There's my daughter plus a guy ( Brandon) & a girl ( Jessie).

2007-11-10 05:14:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Parenting

Ok dont think im crazy but im really grossed out by having my baby naturaly - im soo scared that my vagina will never look the same - im scared of the Pain - i really want a c section but i know you cant pick what you want - my sister had one - and she didnt have any trouble - i know it takes longer to heal but can anyone help feel better - im just 12 weeks and have lots of time to get over this but anyone who has had a baby can you tell me do you return to normal down there,,, does everything stay stretched out a lil or what - i knw the books tell you things but i want to hear it from real people - thanks soo much for your help

2007-11-10 05:08:24 · 20 answers · asked by lilrebelchick 2 in Pregnancy

Picture a redhead girl. (Not someone you know.) What do you imagine her name being? Please don't do my name unless that's really what you think. Thanks in adv!

2007-11-10 04:55:17 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Baby Names

Is it true that if you make anal sex with no protection you can get AIDS very easy?

2007-11-10 04:45:19 · 3 answers · asked by bammy 2 in Adolescent

I am only 6 weeks along and have already gained some weight! My understanding is that it is water weight and is normal. A friend of mine told me that I'll start showing faster too because this is my second baby. True?

2007-11-10 04:42:32 · 19 answers · asked by Keep on Truckin' 4 in Pregnancy

AHH I'm preggers again ya'll. This is not good. So like I already explain my butt problem... if that's not enough I'm preggers again with my 14th child. I don't know if I can go through this again. I mean it's really hard to have to take care of my childs ya'll when I'm so busy with recording music and stuff. Plus, the court already ordered that I have to have one of them fancy court monitors w/ me when I have my children w/ me as it is.

Help ya'll! What should I do? I mean I'm not worried about money ya'll cause I got lots of that. Back in May the whole world found out that I made like 743,675 per month and then since the latest release of my album it's like.. way more but anyways.. what am I to do? Do you think my ex (His name starts with a K) is gunna like.. want to keep it for me or something ya'll? What am I to do!

Ugh so hard being a pop start these days.

2007-11-10 04:32:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy

okay i had sex in july with my boyfriend of 3 years it had to be past the 10th then i got a new boyfriend and had sex august 8th or 9th. my last menstrual cycle was july 9th my doc says my due date is april 14, 2008 i took a pregnancy test august 13th which came out negative oh yeah i never started my period august 9th my periods mess up periodically. i took another pregnancy test august 20 that came out positive. if i had been pregnant with my last boyfriend wouldnt being pregnant shown up on the first one?? im confused what do you all think? who do you thinks the daddy?another thing is i went to a clinic after getting 4 positive hpt and it said negative.and like i said sometimes my cycles are messed up sometimes i go without a period its crazy. i just think that its the new boyfriend because with my bf of 3 years he didnt finish ( no where near) but with my new bf yeah he finished. i just dont want it to be my bf of 3 years! anyone else experience a similiar situation??

2007-11-10 04:27:38 · 13 answers · asked by whitley c 2 in Pregnancy

When I went for blood tests on Wednesday my levels were 274 I went again yesterday and when I got the paper for the results it said 89 with an up arrow..they said my levels are very low and I had signs of a miscarriage so what do the results mean?

2007-11-10 04:26:24 · 6 answers · asked by xostephndjox03 2 in Pregnancy

If you read some of my old post you will know that my now 17 year old committed a crime. The banks are NOT going to do anything because "she's" paying them back, but, I have taken away ALL her privileges: her phone, TV, computer, boyfriend (who also committed it with her), curfew and such. I told her that "jail" would be alot worst and this was nothing. At least she gets to shower everyday, in jail you get to shower once every 3 days! (LOL)
I think I'm being fair, but wouldn't mind other's opinions.
Oh, and I told her this will last until she's 18 (that's next year) LOL
thanks

2007-11-10 04:08:12 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Parenting

My two year old was doing great. She was having maybe one mistake a day while in underwear. But she got sick, like three times in a row. Crup like cold, fever for four days, then another cold. She hasn't been doing well since then. We're lucky if she goes pee once a day. Oddly enough she goes poop in the potty about every other time she goes. But peeing is a big problem.
So I've tried rewarding with an m&m. Initially it worked. But since halloween, she knows there's a big bowl of candy on the counter and just wants candy. I'm trying to incorperate that in, but she just goes and sits on the potty for 2 seconds, flies up and says all done and wants candy.
I've tried a potty doll. That almost works. I tell her that I think the doll has to go potty and she sreams no and runs to the potty rips her pants down and sits down. But she doesn't go.

2007-11-10 04:06:54 · 7 answers · asked by Joyful 3 in Toddler & Preschooler

2007-11-10 04:05:24 · 10 answers · asked by sarah n 2 in Toddler & Preschooler

i have heard htat children born thru in vitro process
have more health problems. is this true? Does anyone have any data to support or dispute this?

2007-11-10 03:56:37 · 2 answers · asked by Lott 1 in Trying to Conceive

This morning my home was very chotic! All of a sudden i heard my twins screaming at the top of their lungs. me and my husband ran to their room where we saw our littlest one Laney with her hand over her nose and Lilly with her hand over her knee! They were both bawling and they can't talk since their only 1 1/2. We don't know what happend and they haven't stopped and when we found them it was 20 mins. ago. we looked at them and they seemed fine and there was no blood so why are they still crying and they are shaking too.

2007-11-10 03:55:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Toddler & Preschooler

My son is getting on his hands and knees and rocking back and forth. He'll push with his hands and go backwards. Is he about to crawl???

He'll be 6 months old in two days. He already sits up on his own, rolls over. But yesterday he freaked me out by pulling himself up into a standing position. :-( My babies growing up.

Is he going to crawl really really soon? If so I'm going to have to finish baby proofing. That and could anyone suggest some baby gates and where to get them?

2007-11-10 03:52:45 · 6 answers · asked by Joyous Mommy ♥'s her ßoys 6 in Newborn & Baby

2007-11-10 03:49:56 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Baby Names

Do you know which site is correct? I have 28 day cycles.

Thank you

2007-11-10 03:48:50 · 5 answers · asked by Madisons' Mama 4 in Pregnancy

I'm 32 weeks pregnant with my first baby.Its a boy.which one of these name should I pick?

Noah
Charlie
Dylan
Leon
Jamie
Kyle

Or any other suggestions...

2007-11-10 03:48:05 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Baby Names

i'm 14 & babysitting for a 5 yr old. for six hours. what to do during that long period of time?

2007-11-10 03:42:49 · 8 answers · asked by hello 3 in Toddler & Preschooler

Some of you have been asking me to update...just wanted to let you know AF showed up. I am so sad right now. I really thought I had it this month. Well I guess we will try again in a couple of weeks. I am going to go curl up on the couch with a carton of chocolate/chocolate chip ice cream and be sad for a few minutes. Good luck to everyone else TTC! I am praying that everyone gets the BFPs they are looking for!

2007-11-10 03:40:04 · 13 answers · asked by Clay's Mama 5 in Trying to Conceive

We have done bowling and rollerskating the past 2 years. I do not have alot of money that I can spend, especially with her birthday being a week after xmas.

2007-11-10 03:39:37 · 16 answers · asked by Melanie B 1 in Grade-Schooler