okay i had sex in july with my boyfriend of 3 years it had to be past the 10th then i got a new boyfriend and had sex august 8th or 9th. my last menstrual cycle was july 9th my doc says my due date is april 14, 2008 i took a pregnancy test august 13th which came out negative oh yeah i never started my period august 9th my periods mess up periodically. i took another pregnancy test august 20 that came out positive. if i had been pregnant with my last boyfriend wouldnt being pregnant shown up on the first one?? im confused what do you all think? who do you thinks the daddy?another thing is i went to a clinic after getting 4 positive hpt and it said negative.and like i said sometimes my cycles are messed up sometimes i go without a period its crazy. i just think that its the new boyfriend because with my bf of 3 years he didnt finish ( no where near) but with my new bf yeah he finished. i just dont want it to be my bf of 3 years! anyone else experience a similiar situation??
2007-11-10
04:27:38
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another thing i am not a hoe i have only been with those two guys ever. and after the sex with my bf of 3 years we broke up the next day and 4 days later i started dating the new bf i know i shouldnt have to explain myself but some people are just so rude! thanks in advance for all the help!!
2007-11-10
04:29:00 ·
update #1
im 17 weeks and 5 days pregnant! oh and me and the bf of 3 years had been having problems and trying to work it out for like 8 months so it was time to end it but this ? is about who the dad would be not who i should be with
2007-11-10
04:33:32 ·
update #2
i have been to my ob 2 times and heard the heartbeat 2 times i go for an u/s dec. 4
2007-11-10
04:36:28 ·
update #3
oh yeah i have known my new boyfriend since i was 6 we went to school together and he has always been my best friend so he is not no random guy!
2007-11-10
04:37:15 ·
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i was on bc took them perfectly and used a condom but it broke i firgured i would still be safe guess not!
2007-11-10
04:41:12 ·
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im happy to be having a baby its the beautiful thing you can experience and i am financially equipped to take care of a baby so everything is fine
2007-11-10
04:41:56 ·
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If you are due April 14th, then you got pregnant around August 4th - remember the first 2 weeks that the Dr counts you aren't really pregnant - they count the 2 weeks of preconception as already being pregnant. It is not unreasonable to think that the due date could be off by a few days, making August 8th the correct date you got pregnant. However, that could also work the other way - so if you had sex with your ex around the 30th of July, it could be his. If you had sex with him for the last time around July 20th - than it wouldn't be his baby. Good luck!
2007-11-10 04:35:16
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answered by happiestgirl0825 4
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there's no way to know for certain without a paternity test, especially considering that your cycles are irregular at times. a calculation based on average cycles, would put your conception date at somewhere around the third week in july. but keep in mind the way that date is calculated (and at your doctors) is based on your lmp, using an average cycle of 28 days with ovulation occurring on day 14; this gives a due date with a 2 week +/- margin of error. now if you have an irregular cycle, or even just a longer cycle, this date can be off by as much as 3+ weeks.
the fact that your early hpt's came back negative is not abnormal. every woman produces hcg (the hormone hpt's test for) at different rates and amounts, especially early on. these also vary throughout the day, that's why to get the most accurate result you should test your first morning urine, it's the most concentrated. plus sensitivity varies form test to test, so depending on what brand you used and what brand the clinic used, you could easily come up with different results. and, unless you were using condoms every time with your ex-boyfriend, there's no way to say for certain that he didn't get any ejaculate in you. even though he may not have "finished", he could have easily leaked a wee bit, and all it takes is a drop or two.
as your pregnancy progresses doctors are sometimes able to narrow down your dates a wee bit more, and may even adjust your due date. but again, the only way to know for certain is to have a paternity test. its' easy and non-invasive; just involves a quick cheek swab of both your baby and your boyfriend. you can have one while pregnant, but it's much more invasive, and carries with it a risk of miscarriage.
hope that helps a bit. good luck!
2007-11-10 12:56:02
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answered by pgnirishgrl77 2
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If your cycles are irregular (which I think is what you indicated) you really could have ovulated any time in there. It really could be either, just because your old boyfriend didn't "finish" doesn't mean he couldn't be the father---there is typically sperm found in pre-ejaculate which occurs during arousal. The best thing I can tell you is to do a paternity test, that's the only way to know for sure. You can speculate now and you can speculate when you have your child and try to determine who he/she looks like but you can only know if you have results to show who your baby's father is. However, I wouldn't suggest doing this untill you know that you're comfortable (and both guys!) however the results may come out. Good luck, hope things work out for you.
2007-11-10 12:37:56
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answered by justpeachee22 5
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Honestly it could be either guys baby. You don't exactly remember when you last had sex with you ex, but you know it was after your period in July which means it could very well be his. You conceived somewhere around July 23, 2007 so if you didn't have sex with your new boyfriend until August, then I assume your ex is your baby's father. You can always have a DNA test done after the baby is born to make sure. Good luck.
2007-11-10 12:35:19
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answered by qυєєи of му cαsтlє ♥ 7
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i can understand the fact that you and your bf(3yrs) just decided to split and their was nothing wrong with that! My thing is that you were in a state of trying to not deal with y'all relationship that you moved on and had UN-protected sex with to guys!!! Now the only real way to find out is to get a D.N.A test to prove who the father is! I have the same kind of periods and to tell you the truth even while i am pregnant i still have a light period! I took five pregnancy tests and all came back negative)))) I was already 11wks at that time! I went to the e.r room because i thought that maybe i had something else going on and found out that that was what was going on! Each persons body is different! From the information that you gave i kind of think that you were already pregnant after sleeping with your ex in July! Oh and sweetie just because he didn't finish doesn't mean that he didn't complete that process so dont let him tell you anything different! Its a 5o% chance that either one could be the father! Now with this information i want you to express to both of them what is going on and ask to have a d.n.a sample done when you go to the hospital and trust me its best to know because anything can happen and you would really want to know! Good luck!
2007-11-10 12:53:15
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answered by lovingme 3
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If you are due on 4/14/08, then the aprx. conception date is 7/23/07. That's only if you're due date is accurate.
If you got pregnant around July 23, you probably wouldn't have a postitive pg test around aug 8th or 9th.
2007-11-10 12:41:19
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answered by irishkittie79 4
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Ok, it's a lot. Without judging you, first check out this cite. You can plug in your period date and it will tell you when you first got pregnant.
You probably already know this, but when you exit a relationship, you need to use a condom. It's really important not to enter a new relationship unprotected like that. Be smart with yourself and your partner. It's too much stuff out there honey, not to protect yourself and your partner.
2007-11-10 12:33:30
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answered by driven_tolove 2
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Statistically using due date calcualtors if your due date is April 14th then you conceived right around July 23rd! How are you estimating your due date? Did they perform an ultra sound already? If so, they are very accurate especially done earlier in the pregnancy.
http://healthlink.mcw.edu/article/923526833.html
2007-11-10 12:34:03
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answered by jennyms 2
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I'm confused too...but I think you should go back to the doc for a definitive answer. Get some reliable birth control, or just stop having sex for a while.
2007-11-10 12:31:40
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answered by WordNerd 3
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i was 6 weeks pregnant when i finaly got a positive test result... some woman go for months with getting neg. when really they are prego... so it could be your ex's... but then again it could be your new boyfriend... which both ways it could be bad... and how old are you?? just wondering. but ummm and so your pregnant for sure?! cause your question is sorta confusing.... but good luck. and USE a CONDOM!! or get put on birth control please! unlesss it was planned or wanted.... then congrats and good luck.
2007-11-10 12:33:41
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answered by Anonymous
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