i am 35 weeks pregnant with my first. i have gained the standard 21 lbs. and am feeling pretty Ok considering. however, i have been battling the slings and arrows pregnant women often endure from friends, family and strangers for weeks, even months. "are you sure it isn't twins?" "there has to be one hiding behind the other, doctors aren't always right- you'll see when they pull out that second baby!", "your'e HUGE!" and my favorite is when a MAN, who will never know the difficulty of bringing life into the world- who has 4 children...telling me how hard it will be to lose "all the weight!" i am perfectly normal, content with my weight gain, my pregnancy and my life. why do people assume it's OK to insult us this way? i feel like if they think they can insult me, i have the right to retaliate and throw a punch. but then i would be wrong, huh??? what should i do???!!!!!
2007-08-07
02:24:00
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lilidepot
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