Im 9 months pregnant and people are driving me nuts telling me what to do wit my baby, my mom is one of them, I appreciate so much everybody's advices but literally telling what to do is just too much, I imagine when the baby is born, she's taking a week off work to be with me, im exited I know i will need her but she has to let me make my own mistake and learn after all she wont be here everyday and i'll have to deal with this. I told her this in a very good way, I have one semester left to get my phycology degree so I know how to talk to people but she got upset and told me Im ungratfull now she only calls my husband and doesnt talk to me. But I dont regret telling her that, she does that with everything when she visits, tells me how to do things in my own house or what to use to cook and not to eat certain things or how to drive, she thinks im still a baby
She does the same thing with my sister and her two kids and always critize her parenting. My sister always told me it was bad but I didnt really know untill now. She tells her what to feed them and how to dress them. I guess she acts like that because she didnt raise us we grew up with my grandmother but I know I will freak out when she does it to me, Im very independent and dont like pople telling me what to do, but at the same time I dont want her to feel bad
2006-12-14
02:44:47
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