I am in such a relationship pickle. I have a boyfriend, russian, only a year and a half older than me. We've dated for almost 7 months. We have a long distance relationship, about 2 hours apart... but we manage to see more of eachother than couples who live in the same town. My pickle is this: we just fight all the time. Not rough fighting, but constant disagreements about everything. We are both selfish and stubborn, but we love eachother so.
my struggles:
-sex. he guilt trips me when i dont want to have it. then changes the conversation to not getting enough affection. He says i dont "initiate" and i dont kiss him or show him love. sigh. i do.
-communication. he was born and raised in russia. he learned british english and speaks it very well. he just has some different understandings of words... and id say miscommunication is the biggest problem. Its not language tho... he makes wild assumptions. i fear telling him anything because he jumps to worser conclusions and i pay for it.
2007-03-08
11:55:12
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