I do gymnastics and cheerleading. Does that mean my hymen is stretched more and wont hurt as much the first time I have sex? What can I do to strech my hymen so it wont hurt has much when I have sex for the first time? thanks!
2007-03-08 12:24:27 · 9 answers · asked by Michelle 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
the hymen has nothing to do with the pain of first having sex. the hymens just there, some females arnt even born with one. The pain is caused by the vaginal walls stretching to accomidate the penis. The hymen has no known anatomical function, and is not even completely destroyed until the female has given birth. If you do gymnastics then your hymen may have already torn and you just didnt know it. Hope this helps, but its still gonna hurt your first time, but its a small price to pay for everything that sex offers.
2007-03-08 13:54:10 · answer #1 · answered by Chara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never really know how much your hymen is stretched. But I can guarantee that you will still experience some pain during sex for your first time, but really don't worry about it so much. I was very tight my first time and I did go through pain, but it wasn't anything I couldn't handle. If it was that bad, people wouldn't be having sex. The very absolute best thing you can do (while this may seem weird) is to masturbate. If you have a boyfriend have him finger you a few times before anything else happens. But if you're not that comfortable with him doing that, then just do it yourself. It will help sooo much! Start out easy, and gradually it will get easier and easier. I hadn't done that when I lost my virginity, but after the first time I did. And the second time was sooooo much better! It was amazing.
***Another HUGE tip that I can give you for when you lose your virginity is to RELAX!! You don't think it's that important, but you have nooo idea! The first time it will be hard to relax, obviously, but try! Just close your eyes and focus on relaxing your body. My first time I wasn't relaxed at all, and I know that it was a huge part of the problem. The second time it still kind of hurt until I remembered to relax, and I closed my eyes and took a breath and just relaxed. All of the sudden it was waaaaaaaay better.
I hope this helps you!!
I know it helped me!!
2007-03-08 21:06:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of how much your hymen is stretched its still going to hurt since you are a virgin. Usually it stretches when you ride a bike or something of that nature.
2007-03-08 21:29:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go horseback riding, ride a bike on a bumpy road, use tampons during your period :-P but be aware that it won't make anything easier. I rode horses for 8 years, and i remember coming home and seeing a little bit of blood in my underwear even sometimes..and still, the first time i had sex, i went through agonizing pain. just get your significant other to be patient, gentle, and give you lots of foreplay..it wont be so bad.
2007-03-08 20:31:09 · answer #4 · answered by xoxo_sexy_biatch_xoxo 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
usally the first time it would hurt
2007-03-08 21:21:09 · answer #5 · answered by speedy >>> 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont kid yourself.. Its gunna hurt.
2007-03-08 22:01:31 · answer #6 · answered by Emily T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gymnastics can tear it and it would be already be torn when you have your first sexual intercourse, I assume.
2007-03-08 20:32:14 · answer #7 · answered by mbestevez 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Nope it will still hurt REALLY bad..
2007-03-08 20:31:27 · answer #8 · answered by OceanBreeze 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
There is nothing you can do!
2007-03-08 20:37:04 · answer #9 · answered by Wendy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋