need advice from people 15-19?

Question

Ok got a question is it alright for some one to love somebody else even though she 15 and hes17 he doesn't want to have sex and he lives five states away so is it wrong that we have a plan to get married

Answer 1

I'm 19. It's ok to love someone with the age difference, and it's ok that he doesn't want to have sex. The whole living 5 states away would be kinda hard, seeing as though it's a long distance relationship, and that makes it hard to see each other.

As long as you both don't lose communication, you should be ok.

I'd wait to get married...live together first, and then see how it works out. Don't rush your life.

Answer 2

well, i'm 15, and i'm just speaking from my opinion here. i would say its an ok idea, despite the age difference, but the fact that you live 5 states away isn't all that good. usually if you want to have a long distance romance, you have to have to have a strong relationship with that person. i have a couple friends who are 15-16 and who have a boyfriend in college (19) and are very happy and in love. plus, in my own personal opinion, 15 is a little young to start making wedding plans, especially with somebody who's 17 years old and lives 5 states away. you should focus on finishing high school and college before thinking about getting married.

this is all just my opinion, i'm sure you'll get more answers to this. hope this helps!

Answer 3

I don't think it is wrong to love a person that is older, in your case the relationship is legal too, but marriage is such a big thing and I think it's unrealistic to think about it when there are 3 more years till you can actually engage in it. And you should also consider the fact it is easy to get along with a guy when you don't live in the same house with him everyday.
I think you should wait to spend more time as a real couple and see if you can both handle it, before you even consider marriage.
At 15 you should be thinking about how to get some fun until you enter "real life", when you'll have to work for every slice of bread. I'm terrified of time...I'm "working hard" to enjoy not having any responsibility but school to the maximum.

Answer 4

if you live that far away, then you shouldn't plan on getting married. You will barely even know each other. Give it time and see what happens. Living with someone will tell you a lot about if you two are compatable or not. Just wait it out.

Answer 5

Yes im your age and my boyfriend is 3 years older then me. I love him soo much, and i only get to see him once a week since we lead 2 different lives. Its perfectly normal:)
Good luck.

Answer 6

No! it's not like it's a giant difference... i mean it also depends on when you plan to get married, etc, but if you think you love each other it's absolutely not wrong!

Answer 7

I think its ok.......it could happen, but then again its a long distance relationship, it doesn't work....I had one for 2 years and we were in different countries.......so maybe you'll lucky.....so good luck!!

Answer 8

yes its okay.. u arent supposed 2 have sex before u get married anyway i think thats good.. if yall like each other.

Answer 9

I think that's very sweet and romantic, if you are both committed to it and don't plan on acting on anything until you are both of legal age.

Answer 10

no i dont think its wrong as long as you get married after you turn 18...plus i think you have to wait til then anyways...and as long as you dont do anything sexual until you are both 18...but other than that i think its fine