Mental Health - December 2007

2007-12-31 06:44:30 · 1 answers · asked by jnthsbrn_montra 1

I feel physically sick every time I see his car and also a little frightened. If I do somthing a little wrong he goes moody and wont talk to me, but if some one comes over he acts normal. We are not going out and he is alot older than me,(im talking 50 years) when we went out for a meal with a large group of friends, I discovered my pop tasted different he admitted putting alchol in my drink, but only admitted when we were alone. He was also winking at me across the table. when I go and see a few friends for an hour or so without working he finds excuses to get angry and start on me. Im constantly looking over my shoulder and cant have fun, I have to ask him what I can do and when can I do it. he takes me places and buys me things, he acts like a grandfather but I think its not as innocent as I would like to believe. Ive also found out that when he talks of me he calls me 'my teenager'. word got out on how he treats me and he doesnt know why people are acting different

2007-12-31 06:13:18 · 3 answers · asked by Lilo K 3

2007-12-31 05:59:18 · 16 answers · asked by rusty s 1

My boyfriend has Post Traumatic Stress Disorder and its really hard to tell the difference when he is being a jerk because of that or just because he feels like it! Also I dont know what i can do to make his little spells better for him? Any ideas?

2007-12-31 05:24:07 · 5 answers · asked by Bobbie M 2

I asked my mother to call me this morning to make sure I was OK, but she didn’t. She says I’m not allowed to bother the rest of my family with my problems, because I keep doing it and it upsets them. I have no friends. Are there any numbers I can call before I do something stupid?

2007-12-31 04:16:36 · 29 answers · asked by Cybele 1

2007-12-31 03:03:44 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boss is older than me, she is 40 with 3 kids and still living with her parents and i am 25 married and have my own place. She happens to be very rude and controling and i belive thats her way of feeling powerful and in control since she doesnt have control over her own life. When she is at the office all the staff members are on their toes, scare to make a mistake and have her scream at you in front of the clients and other staff members. The staff morale is very low, its like you never do anything right. i am an emotional person with a very passive personality and i know that makes me her perfect target; i have tried to defend myself without arguing with her and was placed on suspension. This suspension was her way of telling me she was in control so i decided to step down and let her believe she is always right and have even apologize. I can no longer keep up with this, i feel unable to breath between the hours of 9- 5 and now its also affecting my pesonal life as well

2007-12-31 02:41:16 · 6 answers · asked by rosie02 1

like if u dont sleep well at night, whats ur attitude in the morning.
How much on average do u sleep?

2007-12-31 01:58:18 · 7 answers · asked by Habslife 2

i feel very deprive and only truly feel good when given to. i don't feel as good when accomplishing things on my own and earning things or doing things i can controll.

extreme feeling of dprivation and a huge urge to be given to emotionally and financially.

2007-12-31 00:46:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

All I did was play sudoku online, read yahoo answers, watch TV, watch movies, eat, drink wine and mixed drinks home alone, download music. Straight for 7 days! Should I feel guilty? I have a good job and all.. but I'm on vacation.

2007-12-30 22:44:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been having problems getting to sleep for a few years but has got worse in the last 2 years.
It takes me between 1 - 4 hours to get to sleep ever night.
Unless I am completly exhasusted.
Please help

2007-12-30 21:53:32 · 15 answers · asked by Max J 3

LIke i said previously

im 14 im on a whole lot of medication and i have a couple weeks - months to actually live.

and im not afraid of dying really, im honestly just afraid of what ill miss and not having enough time to figure out what i want to do.

but im not the problem..

its my best friend she is really scared for me and strongly believes ill be Fine and a miracle will happen. well i just found out today i wont be fine after all and like i said my time is cut down short. i feel like i am ruining her life and i hate it.


how can i tell her??


ill miss her alot and i hate to see her unhappy

so please help

or pray for her

she needs it more than me.

2007-12-30 21:51:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm the oldest of four in my family, and basically, the family loser. My parents are still supporting me, and I'm still trying to decide what to do with my life. My sister is in grad school and is doing everything right, and my parents are well-off professionals who have always been successful. It's hard to get everything in order, partly because of me, but also because I feel like they're used to me in this role now, and don't think I would be good at anything. I kind of agree with them, because I haven't really been very good at anything in the past. I feel inferior to everyone in my family, but also to people in general. Should I just stop whining, and improve myself so I don't feel like this? Also, since I'm 27 and have been like this as long as I can remember, do you think I'll have this complex forever? If so, I'm prepared to just accept it and move on (which I've kind of already done). Thanks.

2007-12-30 20:42:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Yea, i kno ur gonna say yes but think about it are they really that bad i mean they make u feel great and when ur sad they make things feel beter am i missing something? there not as bad as u think

2007-12-30 20:35:03 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

I suffer with Major Depression with Psychotic Tendencies, and well as Borderline Personality Disorder and Schizo Affective Disorder. I find it sometimes a positive thing as it makes me feel very free of mind and creative. My wonder, is whether others believe the same as I, that we have spirits around us who are lord over different aspects of the material world. I am drawn to the Woodland Realm. I believe in Lorien, a place of rest. I believe in the Valar and their queens. I hope I am not alone. Every object omits a frequency, and I find it logical that the beginnings of the universe have a musical origin. I Eru, Illuvatar, God, Allah, the great artitect, are all the same being. I have found some peace since I believe the philosophy of Tolkien. Have any of you also found peace in his wisdom?

2007-12-30 19:14:29 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's 1:55 AM here in Chicago on New years eve which means about 2 hours ago i turned 15 so yay me! now onto a more serious manner, It's been a worser problem the past 3 days. I got a laptop for christmas and i've been playing games till about 1 in the morning and almost all day with my friends playing games. I can fall asleep until 6 or 7 in the morning latly and then i wake up at 1 or 2. I have ADHD so i think that it really a cause lately and i dont take my medication except for tests because i do pretty well without it but i did take it just before break for finals. Are there any tricks for me to fall asleep faster and rest my restless mind?

2007-12-30 19:00:42 · 5 answers · asked by CoCo 2

I am bulimic, and all i can think about is binging, purging, fasting, excercising, calories, fat. Thats all I can think about, at school, at home, at dance, with friends. I can never focus on anything. I am suppose to be working on science fair but I am too busy watching videos about eating disorders or excercising or purging. I NEED HELP. ITS TAKING OVER MY LIFE! What can I do? I really dont want to tell my parents, my ex boyfriend knows and my best friends know. Do you think they can help me. I dont want to recover, but I want it to stop taking up such a huge part of my life.

2007-12-30 17:15:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I must have killed a lot of brain cells from staying up all night a couple times playing halo or something else video game related do these activities kill brain cells because some require thinking, and if so is there a way to make brain cells you loose lol? like reading or something

2007-12-30 15:32:17 · 6 answers · asked by CoCo 2

How can someone forget something they've been worrying/stressing about for about a month?

2007-12-30 14:07:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

this disease is eating his brain away hes 50 years old... it makes him forget how to talk and think... he also is making my mom break down to a sad mess... the docters have no clue how long it will take for him tho have no brain, it could be 5 years or 20 or 2 years. seems like 2 years cuz its gotten worse. help me

2007-12-30 13:48:41 · 46 answers · asked by Rachelly 1

When I am about to fall asleep at night I get terrieble frightened. I start to think I hear people breaking into my house, that someone is breaking into my bedroom. I start to hear things and see things that aren't there. Completely irrational things, like after I see one of those end of the words flesh eating zombie movies I think those zombies are breaking in my house, or are in my bedroom. I know I need to stop watching movies like that, but is this normal? Pretty much I fall asleep to the tv at night to avoid the quit and dark that these crazy fears develop from. Am I having panic attacks, Am I nuts.

2007-12-30 13:37:49 · 10 answers · asked by Uptown 2

I'm 20 years old. I've been depressed for years. It gets worse every now and then, making me feel suicidal. I don't have any friends or people to talk to, in real life or online. I feel hopeless and alone in the world. I'm shy and afraid of social situations. I feel like a failure because I can't get a job. I don't have any money to see a doctor or a therapist. I feel like I'm dead inside and I don't see a way out of this "life" I'm leading right now. At this point, I just want to end things. Has anyone felt like this, and is there anything I can do to get myself out of this?

2007-12-30 13:10:09 · 13 answers · asked by me 2

I'm so stressed. i feel like everything is just piling up more and more. I take classes at my high school and at college. I work a internship at a Day care and take classes on Saturday. Even now that I'm on a break I'm freaking out on how i can handle it all. Plus it doesn't help that my dad keeps telling everyone and their mother that I'm going to have a master's degree by he time I'm 21. Does any one have a way that i can keep my self from stressing and being over whelmed? Also any good ideas to keep myself from getting tired so i can keep going during the day?

2007-12-30 12:30:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am experiencing with my boyfriend who has Schizophrenia. He has already shown the symptoms when we were together, however he and his family members do not know/deny he has this illness. Probably means he will keep himself schizophrenic for the rest of his life. I would like to know what will happen, if leave him untreated? Now Trying hard to persuade him for visiting Pdoc is somehow useless. I do not want to waste my energy and feeling any more. Please tell me the consequence of this untreated mental illness. Thanks very much.

2007-12-30 11:58:50 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

about 4 years ago my 22 year old cousin molested me...I was 12...he touched me all over and fondled my privates...I am a girl...I really want to report it b/c I am always thinking about it & I have nightmares about it...but the problem is that he has a family now and I don't want to ruin his life and I just keep thinking that he just touched me(and also fingered me a little)...why does it affect me so much...also he has a 9 year old daughter and my other cousin is 12...so please I need your help...what should I do? Will I go to court? I live in virginia

2007-12-30 11:10:59 · 74 answers · asked by Anonymous

what can i do for him, i"ve been marrired for 40 yrs but i'm going out of my mind, please give me some advice.

2007-12-30 10:18:06 · 6 answers · asked by glasgow girl 6

2007-12-30 10:14:22 · 4 answers · asked by ♥Innocence♥ 1

2007-12-30 09:47:12 · 12 answers · asked by ? 3

i have ocd and i had some unintentional blasphemous thoughts and MAYBE sayings
im wondering if trying to blasphemy out loud, so i won't be obsessing, worrying or guilty about it when i say it in my mind, is considered to be an intentional one
i think i only said f**king or just the part of it because i tried it a few weeks ago to get the truth and when i did it, i didn't say jesus in my mind after the f word, but what if i did it, would it be intentional? i was also getting frustrated saying it in my mind a lot when i don't even want to do it
it comes up in my mind like a reflex like blinking or a fired bullet once i just think about it
i did it a few years ago
i didn't pray though and should i pray or not?
i can blasphemy again, it's like an impulse and im christian and have nothing against him

2007-12-30 09:35:56 · 15 answers · asked by tomato creme pie 1

I have head a top counsellor say that people with strong personalities are "resistant" to counselling.
I have a very strong personality.
I had counselling for a year, which was rubbish, and I ended up with schizophrenia in a psych ward soon afterwards.
Counselling was so useless for me, because just talking about...things...and myself does not help at all. And I don't think that counselling is the best way to prevent schizophrenia from developing further, by itself.
I told my counsellor at the time that I kept seeing things and hearing things, and she just blanked me off on it, saying that it was my imagination.

2007-12-30 08:30:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous