what can i do for him, i"ve been marrired for 40 yrs but i'm going out of my mind, please give me some advice.
2007-12-30 10:18:06 · 6 answers · asked by glasgow girl 6 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I assume that he's getting good medical care?
Bipolar is very treatable for most people (with the right med's). As you probably also know, as Parkinson's progresses, the medication and treatment plan have to change.
Let's assume that everything possible is being done to help your husband. I think that all you can effectively deal with would be your depression. you may have "situational depression." That is perfectly understandable, given the situation. If you haven't done so, please see your doctor about getting some medication and/or therapy for yourself.
Thank you for standing by your husband in this time. I'm sure it means a lot to him, probably more than you will ever know.
By the way, I have Bipolar 1 and I am also in the early stages of Parkinson's disorder. Your question really touched my heart. My best wishes for both of you!
2007-12-30 10:51:25 · answer #1 · answered by doug k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very sorry. But ur husband needs u. Probrobly now more than ever. You are such a good person to stay with him thorugh everything, and I know he appriciates every second of it. BUT it sounds like u need a vacation. A good girls night out kind of thing!! Get someone to watch over ur hubby, then take a friend or two to Hawaii, or somewhere u have always wanted to go. Take a break. When you get back you will be more than happy to see him!! Good Luck!
2007-12-30 18:33:50 · answer #2 · answered by Sweetie_Pie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, hon. I'm so very sorry. My husband's father has Parkinson's disease. He's now at an assisted-living home. He's constantly falling (too stubborn to use his walker). If you have decent health insurance you really should look into getting your husband into a place where professionals can look after him. If you have children, you should reach out to them and tell them you need help. You may also want to find a support group (or even form one).
2007-12-30 18:28:50 · answer #3 · answered by mJc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I sympathize with you. I think you need to see a therapist yourself and your husband has to work with a psychiatrist and a neurologist. Many medications actually produce parkinsonian symptoms and you do not give much information for me to inform you, but you shouldn't be telling on Yahoo! Answers, which is why I suggest seeing a physician. Good luck.
I think it is very important that you try to change your perspective by seeking ways of coping with this situation, which is why I suggest that you see a therapist. He or she can help you manage your emotions and allow you voice your concerns. Peace be with you.
2007-12-30 18:28:57 · answer #4 · answered by cavassi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look up the organaztion NAMI online. They are very helpful and you can chat, ask questions, and get info from them. I've been married 23 years of which the last 10 years my husband has a mental illness. They helped me so much.
2007-12-30 22:20:00 · answer #5 · answered by timetravler 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I saw your question and had hoped someone had posted a good answer. My wife is Bi-Polar, and I know what you are going through. I hope someone has some good advice for you, so I can gain some help from it.
2007-12-30 18:29:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋