Mental Health - December 2007

what should i do i found 6 packs of ciggarates or what ever that devil word is in her room and yesterday she was like mom my lungs hurts!!!!!and im to scared to tell my mom it will ruin my sisters life!!!!! my sister wants to be a doctor.......how could she keep other people healthy if shes not healthy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! idk what to do i m scared and im only 11

2007-12-02 06:51:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Since a few weeks I'm really confused, sometimes I don't know what I'm saying/writing or I stutter. And I'm getting unhandy too...
In 3 weeks I already broke 5 drinking glasses and cups.

What is this? Am I nuts?

2007-12-02 05:59:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

HEY PEEPS!! IM TRYIN TO FIND SOME INFORMATION ABOUT ''MENTAL HEALTH TRUST'' IN THE U.K.

thx much

2007-12-02 05:43:10 · 6 answers · asked by MissTrOubl£:Mak£r 2

okay so , i am in a situation at home , and i don't know if you would consider it abuse . my mom always puts me in situations that make me depressed . she constantly bugs me because i weigh almost as much as my sister who is 4 years older than me . my sister used to be on drugs and she was never even grounded . after i go to the doctor and get weighed she puts my results in a open space where friends and family can easily see them . when my mom is crying herself to sleep my father is screaming at my sister so i am the one who has to "comfort" her . my dad constantly calls me a "smart a**" and says that i am fat . my mom talks crap about me to family, friends , and co-workers . i cut myself with all of this which i know i should not do , but she tells me that she is going to kick me out and send me away . she has never physically beat me , but has caused me all of this harm inside . is this abuse ?

2007-12-02 04:34:34 · 15 answers · asked by hollisterlove54 1

I find always talking to myself quietly even sometimes with lip movements.What sort of guy am i.I find myself talking to myself about my past,my future i mean everything.
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2007-12-02 04:26:30 · 23 answers · asked by Singularity 3

All my lfie I hav suffered from ADD, and it has been effecting me from being able to learn/retaining information, finding and keeping a full time job, making friends, etc. Is there a ADD online resource that people can turn to.

2007-12-02 03:54:31 · 2 answers · asked by Dav83&8d 2

when my dad goes to work my mom will beat me. Or when we are alone and hes gone somewhere she will start hurting me and being mean to me. When hes around shes never mean to me. He leaves the house and she will take belts or hit me in the head where the hair part is or hold me down and put her hands over my mouth so i cant breath then let go at the last minute. I told my dad, i went crying into his room and told him she hurts me and he said i will talk to her, dont worry but then i got beat later for it when he left again. Why does my mom only hurt me when my dad isnt around?

2007-12-02 03:24:43 · 9 answers · asked by nik 1

i have stuff going on in my head, coz of stuff from right when i was born almost 16 years ago. i know i need to ask for h elp, my 20 something yr old cousin juz was diagnosed with depression but i dont think im strong enough to go to the doctor and i cant tell my parents coz they r partly the reason i feel i need some help. so my questtion is, who, and how do i ask for counselling?

2007-12-02 01:08:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Whenever my childs father and I have a disagreement even just a small one where I am hardly upset... he has a hard time controlling his self telling me that if I knew some of the things that were going through his head I would want to get away from him and telling me that he wants to kill me..he has told his brother that there have been times where he has to leave and get away from home because he was afraid of what he might do to me..... he has never really hit me ... but he has gotten physical ... pushing and such... but any other time he and I's relationship is wonderful ...just perfect... but I feel like even if I have a little disagreement I fear to even talk to him ... Do you think that this is a serious problem? what do I do? I don't want to leave him... but if he could be a threat to me or our daughter in the future I don't want to put us in harms way either?

2007-12-02 01:00:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mum was diagnosed with a terminal brain cancer in March and she is now getting worst.
It has been a very tough time for the family since the diagnosis and it has not helped the way her sister (my aunt) has been acting since then. The Doctors said she had less than a year to live but that they would do all the treatments they could to give her as much quality of life as they could. My mum is a fighter and she was determined to fight this uncurable illness against all the odds. All the family backed her up but my aunt. She decided that my mum was already dead and that we had to start talking about changing names in certain property they both inherited and in bank accounts they both had in favour of my aunt, etc. The problem is that she said all this in front of my mum and made her cry. Since then she has treated her without much respect and just worries about money issues. This has created tension in the family and that's not what my mum needs. Why would somebody act so selfishly?

2007-12-01 23:37:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am very familiar with OCD, but I wonder...what parameters constitute an addiction, which fail to include OCD...

2007-12-01 23:02:02 · 7 answers · asked by LUCKY3 6

Juts wondering my father died but he was a peaceful quiet man until i was 11, everyday he screamed on the top of his lungs at me, my sis, my Mom, using curse words unconrtrollably.. it got so bad my mom changed the locks on him.. i didnt see him for 4 years after that when he had a heart attack, after that he wasnt the same, old and seemed sedated..
my Mom says the doctors didnt know why he screamed like that.. He did have cancer previously that went into remission, she thinks the cancer meds may have affected his brain but she never got a real answer.
I still have no clue what happened, it really had a horrible impact on my child.
Anyone know what type of menital illness it could be?

2007-12-01 21:42:16 · 6 answers · asked by lux s 1

does it really work,
is there an age that it wouldn't work at,
can it be done safely,
& what's it like to be a sort of demi-god?
(more power, more responsibility? :P)

2007-12-01 20:59:44 · 3 answers · asked by bandaidsrcool 2

Over the past 5 years I've my husband has been verbally, physically and mentally abusive. I have defended it and even isolated myself to please him. I pay most of the bills, work full time and raise 4 kids. I am analyzed, criticized, lectured, and accused in my spare time. I started telling people about it, and he got worse. Now he claims I am a liar, child abuser, husband abuser and "tweeker white trash". When I started to stand up for myself he started to point the finger at me. He was arrested for DV and now claims if I "push his buttons" I will lose our son as well as my other 3 kids. He has told his PO and counselors that I am crazy, a liar, and that he believes I am bipolar or on drugs. What do I do with this? He tells people I neglect and abuse the kids, says I emotionally abuse him because I am withdrawn and I don't talk much to him. My kids don't always act perfect so he says I am a terrible Mom. What are my rights here? I think I am being set up to fail!

2007-12-01 20:51:22 · 7 answers · asked by noshenanigans77 1

I am 21, senior in college, and I am not going to drink anymore. All of my close group of friends drink. I can go to bars and not drink, but what else can I do instead of that? (Not anything that necessarily includes my friends, but what can I do)

2007-12-01 20:28:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Am I just becoming out of control? When people first meet me everyone walks away with the "comedian" impression. I made them laugh the whole time. But than I feel I'm never as funny as my first time, or as "cool". I'm still funny, just not as funny. Than I shut out people who seem like they dont care for other people. They're self-centered so to speak. Also I'm married.... my poor husband. I havent been burnt too bad by men; never caught one cheating on me, but always have assumed they would. No ex has ever dared laid a hand on me. I'd just dump most of them after a cpl mo after boredom. Kept a cpl but it was always the possesive type. My husband is not a jealous man, hasnt ever cheated on a g/f he was the one always gettin screwed over, he's funny and tries really hard to make me happy. But daily i think HE'S CHEATING ON ME when there is not one hint he might be. I feel like I'm going to drive him away. I loose my temper constantly over sometimes little things... what is my deal?

2007-12-01 20:21:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a deadly phobia of needles. When it comes time that I need a blood test they cannot physically hold me down and be able to get a vein in time because I turn crazy.

Does anyone have any advice how to get over this?

2007-12-01 20:03:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have several grey hairs because I have went through a lot of stressful situations in my life the past year..stressful relationship, family stress, job, just bad things happening all the time. People have say that I have changed physically so much. I know worry about things a lot. What can I do to relieve my stress and stop worrying so much. It 's killing me!!

2007-12-01 20:01:12 · 11 answers · asked by Hearty 2

i had a bad day with some really bad news and i cant sleep help!

2007-12-01 19:35:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

More mentally stronger, becuase what doesnt kill you makes you stronger. So if that bad times comes again, you dont get as mad and as sad?


Thank you all for helping
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2007-12-01 18:40:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I understand they have no control, but if they utter something...do they know they have said it?

2007-12-01 18:16:01 · 10 answers · asked by PRinCEss_PLeaSE 2

2007-12-01 18:08:11 · 15 answers · asked by bauchdaniel 1

He's a musician and I trust him a lot... But I just don't trust other people. I know I'll be thinking about those rediculous girls throwing themselves at him and it REALLY irritates me... And the other thing is that I'll know I'll miss the hell out of him! He's only doing shows right now, but his band's about to get signed to a record label. I'm so worried that this will make our relationship fall apart since we will barely see each other =[

How do I cope with this?? How have you other women coped with this same type of situation? I know it's his dream and I fully support it, but I don't want to see our relationship go through a black hole...

2007-12-01 17:36:31 · 12 answers · asked by laurynhorror 1

I had a good friend in school who killed himself 6 years ago. I'm not deep in depression or anything, but I literally think about him every day. When it happened, I was pregnant, and nobody wanted to upset me,so I never heard any details about what happened, and I just wonder about it all the time. Sometimes I want to ask my other friends what happened, how did he do it, and did he leave a note, and all that stuff... but it's been six years and maybe it's better not to bring that up with them. And maybe I will hear something that will give me more sadness than closure.

Has a friend's suicide affected you for such a long time? Do you think it's better to just ask, or not to bring it up with friends who have moved on?

2007-12-01 17:14:56 · 10 answers · asked by Lamborama 5

help, i'm home alone, & kinda scared, i don't know why, i might be imagining it but i hear noises... it's kinda late & i know i'm too old to be scared but i am
someone comfort me pleaseeee!

2007-12-01 17:09:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

He is on my mind everyday - last night he came to me in my dream. What can I do? I just want to cry - all the time. I feel like a part of my heart has been ripped out. I have got to get past this - at least enough to carry on with my life. I need your advice.

2007-12-01 16:59:14 · 11 answers · asked by Gina T 1

i've been cutting myself for about 5 years now and i cant stop... i know i shouldnt do it but it's the only thing i can do that makes me stop thinking about what's going on... i feel so peaceful when i do it... i have family problems and i know most people my age do... i was molested twice and it's all i think about... i worried about someone finding out and making me stop but i dont want to... no one knows about it or why i do it.... please help me.... i want to kill myself so bad but i dont want to hurt the ones around me... if it wasnt for them i wouldnt be here right now

2007-12-01 16:36:56 · 12 answers · asked by tiny tina 2

I was born with my moms gift.Sorry to say she drank herself to death. I am a certified ballroom instructor, I worked off Rodeo DR. for 12 years specializing in color and cuts becaused I am a licenced cosmotoligist. I paint,sculpt,draw,I'm great with photography,clothes design. I'm unfocused ,bipolar,depressed, and anxious.If I do one thing for too long I get destuctive.

2007-12-01 16:32:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need a lot of remembrance.
For school and for daily life. Like studying for tests and other stuff.

2007-12-01 16:24:28 · 24 answers · asked by Fiirion G 2

When you see religious leaders on TV talking about politics do they speak for you? I am a Christian, but I am wondering if there are any other Christians out there feel their point of view is being co-opted by someone who is a leader of a mega church that you are not involved with? If you are ok with religious leaders pandering for politcal clout, how do you not know that they aren't just grand standing for thier own purposes and power?

2007-12-01 15:56:36 · 9 answers · asked by BoogyBoo 5