If I have no symptoms at the moment, am fairly sure there is no shedding and always use a condom for any sexual activity including oral, and take Valtrex as a preventive measure.
I also abstane completely during outbreaks.
I have read that under the above conditions it would be difficult for me to pass it on to a female.
And I have also read that with proper management, dicordant couples can coexist without coinfection if every precautions are taken.
In that case, would it be disshonest not to tell my new partner right away?
I feel that telling her at the beginning might scare her off for nothing, something that could develop in a long lasting relationship and maybe marriage?
Any one out there that the male has herpes but his girlfriend never caught it from him using precautions?
I feel very bad and scared about my future, this is bad timing as I am now 37 and am starting to think about starting a familly...;(
2007-04-17
21:29:38
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fantapattaya
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