my partner is 32 years old and is bipolar and is on quite significant medication. Epilim 2000mg, Efexor 225mg and Ability 15 mg. We have been together for 3 years. We live together also. When he is well he says he loves me and everything is great, but when he is unwell he visits brothels, is unfaithful, signs up on singles sites, chats up other women to meet for sex. Im devasted and extremely hurt and upset. It is eroding all my confidence as a women. I feel our sex life is great and he admits that also, so why does he keep doing this.
Will he ever change or do i have to cut my losses and move on. When he is well he is the most loving partner and its hard to know what is real anymore.
Do you think he is using his illness as an excuse or would he really have no idea why he does these things. When asked by the doctors and by me he says he doesnt know why he does it, he just does.
I dont know how much more i can live with.
2007-03-23
17:39:08
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