I am engaged to the most incredible man, he is sweet and kind and generous to a fault. His mother is ill, and takes advantage of his kindness to an unbelieveable degree.
She has diabetes, crones, osteoperosis, and several other things... She has trouble walking, but is not incapable of doing so, but she expects him to wait on her hand and foot. She has a colonoscopy (sp?) bag, which is used after surgery when your colon is removed... basically its a poop bag, that has to be changed like a child's diaper regularly...
For whatever reason, she has been having 'bag' trouble lately... and is dumping them all over herself and her room, and expecting him to clean it up... he is overwhelmed and i'm worried he is going to snap, mentally/emotionally... how can a mother not care that she is LITERALLY crapping on her child?? i HATE watching him sufffer like this, but i don't know what to do... how do i help him stay sane until we can solve the bigger problem?
2007-03-16
08:43:41
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