Look - I am not a typical stupid guy trying to talk himself up, this is a legit question: My fiancee tells me that she has orgasms very easily, and sometimes she gets off up to 8 times during a session. Is this in any way normal? There have been times we will have a "quicky" maybe 3-5 minutes, and she says she got off two, or even three times. Here is the problem: I can never really tell when she does because she isnt overly vocal (not a "screamer") - I guess I am being paranoid a little, but is it possible that this isnt true and she's pandering to my ego? How long does it usually take a female to orgasm? Thanks for the help!!
2007-03-16 08:47:13 · 11 answers · asked by The Peav 4 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Perfectly normal... lucky girl to! She is probably really sensitive to orgasm. There is no "SET" time limit to having an orgasm... EVERY woman is different, therefore it may be longer time and fewer of them for some and shorter and more for others and so on. If she is having multiple orgasms and not making much fuss about it during.. it is possible that they are not as intense as one that has time to "build up", but are more of them and just as satisfying. I sometimes have a "harder" orgasm then other times, or less intense and several. Again every woman is different and it is a very normal thing.
Think of things this way.. if she IS lying about it who is getting cheated ? Not you. So she has no real reason to lie about it.
2007-03-16 09:11:59 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ PrincessLeia ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The time it takes really, truly can vary from person to person. It's quite possible she's being honest- every single woman is truly different. And it's definitely possible to have up to 8 orgasms or more.
The kind of sound she makes (or doesn't) may have to do with the power of the orgasm, or the type of orgasm (sometimes clitorals are not as body-encompassing as g-spot orgasms). Or, it may just be how she functions.
For the most part i'd say that you don't have much to worry about. If you and her have a honest, strong relationship, then your chances are pretty good that she isn't just stroking your ego. Everything she's told you is possible.
2007-03-16 08:55:07 · answer #2 · answered by neamhni 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She may have an exceptionally heightened sense of arousal, in which case, thank your lucky stars! Some women can't or don't orgasm during sex, no matter how hard their partners try to please.
It could be that she's slightly exaggerating the results, but heck, even one orgasm is a victory for most guys! Enjoy the fact that she loves sex and loves you enough to enjoy it that much.
2007-03-16 09:23:30 · answer #3 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't assume that every girl has the same amount of sensitivity. i don't recommend asking her how you should do it since she already has a hard enough time staying turned on. the best way to figure it out is to experiment. try to make her feel more comfortable in the surroundings and help her not feel so anxious. since she is obviously a virgin, one thing that would make her feel uncomfortable is if you are pressuring her and asking about when you can have sex and that is also a turn off. it would make her feel like that is all you care about and those thoughts happen to appear from nowhere and ruin the mood. i looked at this sex astrology book at the mall the other day and looked at my sign and it said things that were completely true. the store was "fuego" if your interested.
2016-03-29 01:58:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal? Well, it's normal for her. Every woman is different. Some can orgasm easily and repeatedly, others don't. It sounds like she is a very lucky girl. Try to just relax and enjoy. If she's not complaining you have nothing to be worried about
2007-03-16 09:10:15 · answer #5 · answered by Rayvin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is true that females can go many times, I would say that
after the first one though, the others are not as intense.
She's lucky cause alot of women have trouble having one.
2007-03-16 09:58:04 · answer #6 · answered by boxmaker40 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some women are very easily turned on and can orgasm rather quickly, but it is impossible for one to have 2 to 3 orgasms in a 3-5 minute session, it takes at least like 10-15
minutes normally, so i think she's lying to you man.
2007-03-16 08:56:56 · answer #7 · answered by candi b 4 · 1⤊ 4⤋
it depends on the person. but i could orgasm 3 times in ten minutes easily. dnt get paranoid, its a compliment. if you feel abit uneasy ask her if she could tell you n e thing she wants you to do and get her to tell you exactly how she wants it. she wont tell you what she wants unless you ask. x
2007-03-16 09:09:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's normal, i can get up to 10 in 2 hours, it's called multiple orgasm, so don't worry, u'r girl is not sick!!! she's very special!
2007-03-16 08:54:25 · answer #9 · answered by paulipauli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IFshe's telling the truth, she's a lucky girl.
2007-03-16 09:07:04 · answer #10 · answered by stephani.bayhylle@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋