my boyfriend has intimacy issues. He is 24. He comes from a family in that his parents are still living together yet they should be divorced. His parents sleep in different beds. He once told me that he thinks he has intimacy issues. He is not a touchy feely guy, whever i talk with him about intimate stuff, he needs to sit away or the other end of the bed or couch. He smokes pot (only once in a while) but claims he gets better orgasms through that. Well deep down i feel that he wants intimacy but dosn't know what to do. He sometimes cuddles with me, he did say he loved me once , but only when drunk. Last night, he smoke pot, but only very little. That night he showed affection toward me like no other time, it was very nice. Is it possible this man loves me, but just can't admit it as he has such issues dealing with feelings. Ive been datin g him 6 months, im also 24. Although he is loud and wild with his friends, he is opposite with me. Any opinions?
2006-07-17
10:22:46
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hersheybar99
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Mental Health