My RSVP's are due back next weekend. I've gotten all but 2 back from my side of the invite list. My fiance', who had way more people due to have a huge family, had only gotten 3 back. That puts 60 people up in the air.
My fiance' was talking to his parents tonight about this & mentioned he'd have to call people after the due date so we can get a number. They find this rude. Also, they've spoken to some family members & who said they see no point why we need them because we should "know they are coming." They are a close family & think because they basically always attend family events we should assume they are coming. Of course there are problems because we can't guess how many. For example, his sister & her son are coming, but her husband doesn't always come to events, so he is up in the air. That's when an RSVP is helpful to me.
I guess my question is do you think it's unreasonable to expect RSVP's in a close family? They are offended & I'm confused about why really.
2007-02-11
12:00:10
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