Singles & Dating - 31 December 2007

my girlfriend of two years wants to marry me and she head over hills in love me so she saids.she is jealous,inscure and hate me to be online cause she think im seaching for a new love intrest and we together all the time and work together on the same job and shift .I can't get any me time plus my family like her more then anyone i ever been with what should i do.the only affection i get from her is cuddling & she cater to my not so important needs and i have to beg for loving(sex) and she hate kissing......
so my question is why should i even bother but she bugs me on marriage all the dang time but i can't get my way with her.So what the hell she want me for???? we surpose to marry on March the 8th 2008

2007-12-31 04:32:06 · 12 answers · asked by A New Married Man 1

Ok I have not dated in many years and I need some help here.

Last night I went on a date and it "seemed" to go well. We seemed to have a lot in common, I made her laugh and we stayed and talked all the way until the restaurant kicked us out. (Closing time) Seemed like we would have talked a lot longer given the chance.

Then I asked her out again, told her where (some place fun!) and asked her when? She said she had to check her schedual and get back to me. Now this part I kinda take as a "no" or a "maybe"?

So I emailed her and said it was great meeting her and asked her to get back to me. What now? Just wait for a reply? What if I do not get an email back? Do I call? At what point is it best to give up and move on? Do women like pursistence?

I don't want to come across as a stalker and I don't want to waste my time on some one not interested.

I am confused! lol

2007-12-31 04:31:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you call your lover every few days? Why don't you call more? Do you think about them in between?

2007-12-31 04:30:54 · 13 answers · asked by Ice Princess 1

i love the smell of a dude!
its just so hott!
and after hanging with my bf i always smell like him
and i love it like no other
i have no idea wut he uses but omg girls it'll make your heart stop
alright soooo anyways....
i waas wondering if its a huge turn-off for guys if a girl smells like a dude?
i mean i no its not something i'm gonna like buy a bottle of and use it as perfume or anything....but still...idk just is it?
cuz like...guys [[atleast the ones i go out with]] think its hott when their girl wears their shirt
so why not smel like em?
idk this is a dumb question
but i still want an answer =] lol

2007-12-31 04:30:28 · 2 answers · asked by Dance Kayla, Dance! :) 1

I'm painfully shy when it comes to the opposite sex (I'm female). I always assume that the guy isn't interested so I basically blow them off. I have been told all my life that guys don't go after shy girls because they see it as a lack of confidence....I'm actually a very funny person when I feel comfortable and I get along with most people but my shyness seems to be getting in the way....

do men:

1.go for women with super friendly personalites?

2.really notice when a girl is shy ?

3.do they generally find this a turn off?

2007-12-31 04:28:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you saw my icon as a real person, would you date me for one day at least, and what would you do on that one day?

2007-12-31 04:27:07 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex-boyfriend contacted me for Christmas even though we agreed to no contact. He was the one who left me. I replied to him and then he told me he is going away with his friends for New Year. I got upset as I really don't need to know he is having fun on his own. We got into emotional discussion over texts and now his mobile has been switched off since yesterday. It's very unusual. I am so hurt. I sent him a text but it's still pending. Why has he done that?

2007-12-31 04:25:19 · 11 answers · asked by Elisa N 1

2007-12-31 04:23:41 · 6 answers · asked by tricky 3

ok, heres my case i really like this girl but i'm afreaid that her friends might reject me for her. do you guys think the her friends opinion or anybody's opinion matter?

2007-12-31 04:22:55 · 41 answers · asked by marky543210 2

2007-12-31 04:22:44 · 9 answers · asked by yohanes l 1

This guy at work asked me if he could have my cell # so that he could call me and we could "go out sometime and do something just for fun". What did he mean by this???? BTW, I'm 16, he's 19, but he though I was older than 16.

2007-12-31 04:18:59 · 46 answers · asked by ashley_p89 4

I keep on thinking about boys ALL DAY LONG! I have dreams that I have a boyfriend and that sometimes we kiss and cuddle. I haven't had a boyfriend for years and lately I really need my first kiss before I am 15 because I'm jealous of all my friends - they have all kissed someone!! =(
I really like a boy at school but I think he only sees my as a friend. He's gorgeous, sweet, caring and well...I have feelings for him. I want to hug him and kiss him but he isn't into me..='(

Is it normal for me to think like this?

2007-12-31 04:16:52 · 11 answers · asked by Teaaaa 1

I'll TRY to make this as short as possible. There's a boy in all my classes. We chat online for hours every night, text in class, he teases me ALOT & then smirks, makes fun of other boys I mention, blushes & we study together and flirt. Once when he thought I was mad @ him, he freaked & called & sucked up to me for hours after. He had a gf until recently, so neither of us crossed the line. His friends approached my friend saying how he tells them how we talk for hrs & study alone, so to them it means I MUST like him. Next day, when my friend asks him if he likes me, he paused a long time, asked if he gave the wrong impression and says he likes me as a friend. Then he kept asking her if I was mad he said we're friends...

Have I been seeing things wrong all along? Do guys act like this w/ girls they just think of as a friend?? Or is it cause of the recent breakup or something? Or is he leading me on?? I'm thinking of playing hard to get for a while...suggestions plz!!

2007-12-31 04:15:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Alright, This question propbaly has been asked already. But I wanna know again. I'm from India and going australia for like three months I just wanna know what's aussie girl's perspective about indian boy. Do they still look down upon us? or It has been changed? Only aussie girls are allowed to answer. :)

2007-12-31 04:12:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-31 04:11:57 · 22 answers · asked by runnerguy 2

My boyfriend and I role play alot and he's told me on more than one occasion how his 1st time was some what an accident like they were just kissing and bam it slid in (not trying to be graphic here) anyway, so one stupid day i decide I wanted to know how it happened so i said show me........ and he did, but he was saying everything that was going through his head his 1st time and he kept saying "she" and "her" and was totally fantasizing about her..... we've had issues with this girl before, in the beginning of our relationship all of his friends warned me that he was still in love with her and blah blah we're past that now. But after that night I haven't been wanting his affection and I can't give him any........ I feel used almost I feel disgusting. What should I do? Should I tell him how I feel even though I allowed it?

2007-12-31 04:11:47 · 32 answers · asked by Daizy C 1

I don't know what to do about this guy. I am 22 he is 25
We have been seeing each other for almost three weeks now and we've been on a couple drink dates, almost all of which began after 10pm which is kind of odd. After our third date he seems to have lost interest in going out and just wants to stay home and "watch movies" which I know is in hopes that he will get some. He just seems ultra focused on getting me in bed. When hes not hot after my body he we have a good time together. Part of me thinks that I should just do it and then we can move on. Another part of me bellieves that if he has hung around for three weeks we might not just be after sex. I mean he does call a lot. I just don't know. Is this normal? or should I ditch him?

2007-12-31 04:09:52 · 16 answers · asked by Jenny 1

Well i just moved to this new school anyway these girls were showing us around and this to boy comes up and we were talking and i though it was good looking but i just found out he has a girlfriend but we always look over at each other i dont know y???

2007-12-31 04:03:05 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

to Iraq on feb.8,2008 as a mother do I look back and say good bye? are should I give him a big hug and say I love you so much and I'm very proud of you son? wow right now I'm losing it I don't want him to go

2007-12-31 04:02:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok so im dating this guy that has a huge plyr background he dumpd a grl 4 me is it possbile that he changed? Should i be careful i really want to know if it is likely for him to put all the bad hes done behind him and start again, weve liked each other 4 3 yrs and hes always run because we have smthn spcl and hes scared of it but we always end up back together and im afraid taht i love him!! So HELP!!! what do i do do i trust him or just be careful or how do i change him and make him the "right kind of guy?" tx!!
drna111

2007-12-31 03:55:32 · 9 answers · asked by drna111 2

Girls like compliments right? But not from ugly guys right? ....So what should I do? I'm not the best looking?

2007-12-31 03:52:33 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

to get a bf's forgiveness?

2007-12-31 03:49:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Give me a good reason why I should choose you to take me out tonight...

2007-12-31 03:42:00 · 18 answers · asked by DIANE C 2

my bf came to pick me up at my job and he knew I had my period and I told him I wanted to be by myself and if he could take me home cus I have pain and suddenly he lost it, said I mess everything up , and he ended it! he looked at me ice cold and said its over, I feel shattered! only yesterday he told me how much he loves me, what should I do?

2007-12-31 03:42:00 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous

last night a lad added me on msn, i dont know who he is, although i did sit and speak to him for a good few hours. he then said he'd seen me around college and told me he had feelings for me and that he'd tracked down my msn addi on purpose. id quite like to meet him, somewhere like starbucks thats public. can anybody see the harm in this?
or do you think this may give him false hope because atm i dont know if i do like him or not?
thanks in advance

2007-12-31 03:38:36 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

in which conditions?

i have read a book about the life of a saint- woman..she was virgin, she was christian. a man fall in love with her..she defended her body. he couldn't at least get her by marrying her .so the man went to a wizard , wizard casted spells etc..but the girl couldn't be seduced.then the wizard went to satan asked him powers things etc..satan tried to put spell on her and tried to give her erotic feelings for that man(but not love or reasonable feelings)she feasted and prayed and got the attraction out of her body.the wizard gave up became christian and a martyr togheter with the girl. i want to say that satan send illness over the whole town because of the girl who resisted that man or boy ..and the people even advised her and forced her to marry him..but she refused ..and became martyr..

so what do you think..can satan nowadays send seduction over people?did it happen to you?

2007-12-31 03:36:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

physically fit,intelligent and a great guitarist musician.

2007-12-31 03:29:58 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was dating a guy called paul and yesterday i had to dump him because i couldnt lie to him anymore about the feelings i have for this other guy. The other guy is about 2 maybe 3 times my age, i only know his name and it sounds bazzar but its true, when i was dating my old boyfriend who works with this guy he was all over me like a rash, so i no he is into me but should i tell him im in love with him ?

2007-12-31 03:29:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like this guy I used to work with. Now he got transferred to another country..so we dont really see each other but chat now and then. Also he calls me sometimes and we have flirted too. He has just been promoted so doesnt have much free time (and this is true I know). I invited him to visit and he said he had to see his family for new yr but will come on his next vacation. do you think he is interested in me? On our last meeting we did kiss.

2007-12-31 03:29:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

we sit right next to eachother, we don't realy chat, but we laugh at eachothers jokes only when it is said to other people in general
he mirros my actions, e.g. when i click my pen he does, when i put my pen in my mouth he does, and i've seen this happen quite alot, but i don't think he realises that he's doing it.
we went to a party of a mutual friend, got drunk and danced togethar for about a minute
but we've gone back to not talking at all, just the way it was , as if nothing had happened.
i went to a girls school for 5 years and now i'm in college, but i have no confidence when it comes to talking to boys :S
how can i break free from this cycle of events..
and am i looking too much into it, maybe he doesnt like me at all?!

2007-12-31 03:28:08 · 2 answers · asked by it's me 2