In a relationship of about 15 months, last month my missus developed feelings for one of her friends, due mainly to his extreme feelings for her, and the fact he was always trying to see her. He told her he liked her, and kissed her. Long story short, I made her choose and she wants to stay with me, but still be friends with this guy.
She's overseas for two months, returns next month. I know its not cool, but I read some of her emails from this guy and he admits he still wants to go out with her, and he'll 'wait'. She has lied to me over some insignificant things as well, like telling me she's only called me from overseas, and he isn't interested in her anymore when I know from emails she has called him twice.. etc.
I feel that allowing them to be friends like this, slightly flirty, the same problem will just arise again, but is it fair for me to dictate who she can be friends with ? Of course not. Is it fair to break up with her because I feel she'll just hurt me again ?
2007-12-31
15:48:47
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