okay so ive liked this guy for
a while. we were best friends from 6th grade all the
up until now. [very close]. i always helped him with stuff and he would do the same for me. well he decided to take me to a concert. just as friends. well as the night continued on, we got closer. held hands , made out and stuff. it was weird but the most wonderful thing. it was like i was waiting for that to happen my entire life. anyway, he asked me to a prom and we went together. there, we had a lot of physical connections. note: we arent going out. the very next day, he is "talking" [like relationship wise] with one of my friends. and by the end of the week, he's going out with another one of my friends [not even the girl he was talking to then]. is this kid a man-whore? did i get played? whats wrong with me? am i not good enough or something? should i ever trust him again? [and what happens if i still think i love him]
help/ somebody to talk to is greatly apperciated.
thank you.
=S
2007-12-31 16:51:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you went as friends to those things, even if there was a little playing around...I wouldn't take this hard if i was you, its just how dude is...If you do anything else as friends, i wouldn't let him hold hands or kiss you...Just tell him kissing in a intimate thing meant for those in a relationship and not a friendship...Just chalk this one up as a lesson learned, no biggie...
2007-12-31 17:16:20 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well girl i can tell you that he only wanted one thing and i think oyu know what that is all guys want it. If he really loved you enough he would have stayed with you instead of moving on just to have a gf. thats what i think he is probably desperate and will take ANYONE. so just shake it off you know i really LOVED LOVED this guy and he ust went out with me to go out he dosent love his girlfriends he just goes out with them, i was the happiest person that morning and by 4th hour at school he already broke up with ME and Found another girl that he knows he can kiss and get things out of so i hope all your boy life is good bye
2008-01-01 01:01:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He decided he didn't want you, so as soon as the prom was over, you were history. Yeah, you got played.
Girls do this ALL the time, too. They're actually a lot worse at it, using a guy for a social date. People in general aren't too nice to one another.
If you're going to date......then you're going to have to put up with this sort of behavior occasionally. It happens.
Make sure you're not getting too sexual/physical in the meantime because then the stakes get a lot higher and that's when you can really get hurt.
Good luck. Be careful out there. It's a jungle.
2008-01-01 00:57:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People toss the love word around entirely too much. You didn't love someone you had been with a couple of times. You asked about 10 questions and each one indicates you know the answers. Yes, he used you, he didn't care, he moved on to new stuff, you can't trust him, he is a jerk.
2008-01-01 00:57:32 · answer #4 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he'll only know if you tell him. tell him you like him....what you expect if you dont tell him
2008-01-01 00:55:28 · answer #5 · answered by simzz559 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋