I am 20 years old and most people think that I already have several boyfriends bc they judge me by my outer appearance. Because I most people consider me attractive, I always have to deal with men coming onto me really hard. I am so frightened to be in a relationship bc i know i would eventually have to have sex and i don't want to lose my virginity. I would rather not lead a guy on, so i just show that i am uninterested bc they always want more. Are my fears illogical? Because of the way I look, most guys do not want to just have a "friendship" with me, and that hurts me so bad.
2007-12-31 16:12:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why cant i be like you???????????/
2007-12-31 16:15:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are normal !!! It's the guys you're meeting that aren't normal. But I'd be glad to be you're on-line friend if you'd allow me.
2008-01-01 00:32:08 · answer #2 · answered by Lavie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know if you find the right person and they respect you the whole sex thing will not be an issue...There is nothing wrong with you saving yourself and you would thing they would like it that you haven't given it away to everybody...You can have a great relationship with someone without having sex, you just need to find the right guy...
2008-01-01 00:23:31 · answer #3 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are normal. I think that a lot of young adults would like to be more like you, even if they would not admit it in public. Peer pressure!!! Stick to your ideals and you will someday find someone who wants to be a good friend and then more, your husband!
2008-01-01 00:22:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right 100%,yes.
2008-01-01 00:20:18 · answer #5 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are normal --- i think most people will have had the same feelings --- dont judge all guys as only being after sex --- if you do then you will miss out on someone that will be important in your life ---- if the guy is only after sex tell him to get lost and maybe you will find someone prepared to accept that and find the friendship part of a relationship --- and sorry virginity is WAY overrated --- best wishes
2008-01-01 00:18:43 · answer #6 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm... i feel kinda sympathetic for u.. i mean...
that whole section u wrote up there makes me think that u have high self esteem issues. i think u should stop trying to look so pretty.
2008-01-01 00:18:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol that miss up i got lot of girlss i don't worry about it
everyone like me
2008-01-01 00:18:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋