I am on match.com and most guys responding to my profile looks soooooooo old and I am not one bit attracted to them. I want to be up front and honest and so what does one say.
2007-12-31 15:50:57 · 31 answers · asked by homesweethomediana@sbcglobal.net 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow Thank You all! On New Years Eve I did not think I would get this fast of a response. I have never been told I am not someone's type and so this is so hard for me to tell most guys I am not interested because of their looks. Most of these men are in their 50's me, 40 but they just look so aged, like a grandpa, no kidding. Age is not a factor for me, but looks are. I have to at least like how their face is. I think I will tell most they are not my type and hope they leave it at that and if they do not leave me alone, then I well speak my mind, like I usually do when presured.
2007-12-31 16:23:11 · update #1
If I wanted to be honest but not rude I would say something like "I am sorry, but you're really not my type." And then thank them for their interest.
I also like "I'm sorry, but I'm not interested." like some people are suggesting.
2007-12-31 15:54:29 · answer #1 · answered by nickikins 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be honest, but not brutal.
"Thank you for taking the time to respond, but I just do not feel that attraction which is vital to a relationship."
2007-12-31 16:01:03 · answer #2 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are on Match.com, i'm sure there is a portion of your profile where you can define what type of guy you are looking for. May I ask how old you are? If not, you might want to specify it or make it a little more obvious so you aren't getting date request from guys who are twice your age or who are old enough to be your father.
Also, if they are unrelentless in their support you may just have to tell them that you are not interested in dating a person of their age, or if you are just unattracted to man, tell him, "I'm sorry, but I'm just not attracted to you." Or something like that. There's nothing that you can really say that isn't going to hurt his feelings.
Good luck in your pursuits...
2007-12-31 15:55:39 · answer #3 · answered by ineedanswers 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
on match.com don't be shy. Don't be rude or cruel,just tell them that you are not interested. In real live one on one contact things can be a bit harder, I find.
2007-12-31 15:55:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
"im not interested works" for me ---- i would not be upset by it nor would i continue to try to get you interested
2007-12-31 15:54:19 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your ugly... your not right person..... bye loser!!!!!!!!!!
-rick
2007-12-31 15:54:08 · answer #6 · answered by â?£[YKCIR]â?£ 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
tell them thank you - but I am looking for osmeone else
2007-12-31 15:53:47 · answer #7 · answered by justathought 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its easier saying it over the computer than to a persons face , so you shouldn't have any trouble ...
say "I'm not attracted to you."
2007-12-31 15:53:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry, but you're not my type.
2007-12-31 15:53:28 · answer #9 · answered by just another girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nothing always works for me. silence is so golden
2007-12-31 15:53:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋