...just for the sake of having a boyfriend. i mean, like, it makes them seem desperate. especially if you see this really pretty girl with a average joe or totally ugly guy
it's like having a boyfriend is a necessariy. and it's really not a necessariy. the world is not going to end. you should go out with a person you intially LIKE and are compatible with. not just some guy that you use to hold your bags while you shop in the mall
i wait. if he's not hot or cute. there's no chance. period. and if i don't like him we sure as hell won't be going out.
I DO NOT GO ON PITY DATES
2007-12-31 16:27:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe she likes the ugly guy's personality or isn't ugly in her eyes and isn't shallow like you yourself admit to be.
2007-12-31 16:30:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
its not all about looks its about personality and everything on the inside girls who are desperate go out with guys they arent attracted to
2008-01-01 00:36:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i don't really know how to answer this because every guy i've gone out with is because we've had some kind of connection
2008-01-01 00:35:51 · answer #3 · answered by Sexychick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you are only willing to date hot/cute guys? That's so much less shallow than going out with a guy just for the sake of having a boyfriend. And apparently average joes or totally ugly guys don't deserve to have girlfriends?
Nothing like a load of ignorance to start the New Year off. Grow up.
2008-01-01 00:35:35 · answer #4 · answered by Kitten Toes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I agree with you on the girls who go out with a guy just to have a boyfriend and how if you don't like a guy you shouldn't go out with him. But the whole "average joe or totally ugly guy" and the "i wait. if he's not hot or cute. there's no chance. period" I don't agree with. Looks aren't everything, I mean, of course girls aren't gonna be looking for a guy who's unattractive. But everyone's view of what's attractive and whats not is different. Maybe to some of those girls with "ugly" or "average joe" boyfriends don't see them as that and see that the inside makes them so much more attractive and all then their outside. I mean, there are some pretty good looking guys out there who are cool but some of them look good then the way their attitude is about things is awful and makes them so unbearable.
Happy New Year!!!
2008-01-01 00:35:31 · answer #5 · answered by sweetdollツ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mabe there is somone who loves you?
2008-01-01 00:34:23 · answer #6 · answered by hjol-61 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur shallow as ever, ull end up going out with turtles.
beauty can be seen in both appearace & the heart
but what u call true 'love' comes from the mind and heart, if u only want body, fuckbuddy is wat u want
2008-01-01 00:33:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree that you don't have to have a boyfriend to be happy but you say that pretty girls who are with ugly guys are desperate? that doesn't make sense at all. i am married and my husband definitely isn't as attractive as i am but i love him because he is a great man and he makes me laugh. we have fun together. that isn't an indication of being desperate but of my not being shallow and caring what other people think of me or of us. so i am left with the conclusion that you are very shallow.
2008-01-01 00:33:19 · answer #8 · answered by somebody's a mom!! 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should stop judging people because they aren't going out with someone you consider hot. thats stupid. could it really be that they love the person for who they are, not what they look like? oh NO that's not possible is it? think again.
2008-01-01 00:32:59 · answer #9 · answered by oohOSU14 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you'll say that you'll only go out with a guy who's hot or cute for now. Then after you've been emotionally abused, neglected, used, possibly date raped, you'll consider dating a guy who doesn't look like an Abercrombie model based on who he is and not his looks.
Maybe that super-beautiful girl with the average-looking guy discovered that he's a better person than anyone she's ever met.
Also... the more you date the more you figure out what you want.
2008-01-01 00:32:52 · answer #10 · answered by Mysterious Racer P 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they're just lonely. Lots of people, not just women, go out with people for the sake of just being with someone. It doesn't mean they're desperate. A lot of people don't like the idea of being alone.
2008-01-01 00:32:27 · answer #11 · answered by Neo Siren 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋