Ok I have not dated in many years and I need some help here.
Last night I went on a date and it "seemed" to go well. We seemed to have a lot in common, I made her laugh and we stayed and talked all the way until the restaurant kicked us out. (Closing time) Seemed like we would have talked a lot longer given the chance.
Then I asked her out again, told her where (some place fun!) and asked her when? She said she had to check her schedual and get back to me. Now this part I kinda take as a "no" or a "maybe"?
So I emailed her and said it was great meeting her and asked her to get back to me. What now? Just wait for a reply? What if I do not get an email back? Do I call? At what point is it best to give up and move on? Do women like pursistence?
I don't want to come across as a stalker and I don't want to waste my time on some one not interested.
I am confused! lol
2007-12-31 04:31:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't have e-mailed a request for a second date. That just seems improper. That maybe the reason you haven't received a response. Also it's not a waste of time if you find her attractive.
2007-12-31 04:59:42 · answer #1 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her about five days to get in touch. If after this time, you dont' hear from her, then contact her and ask her out on another date. If she doesn't seem receptive, then move on.
Trust me there are a ton of people out there to date...so you don't have to worry about that.
Good luck.
2007-12-31 12:41:07 · answer #2 · answered by Rogue 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to let her know that your interested and not obessesed. women like men that know what there doing and as though as that this guy has figured me out. try to read her, don't just listen to what she says, read into her body movements and tone of voice, she says more with those then words.
2007-12-31 12:39:02 · answer #3 · answered by kimber g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her time to reply... dont call or message her or do anything because that will come off as TOO strong, and you dont want that. i find that if i dont reply within three days then the guy leaves me alone..... if im interesteed then ill let you know right away, girls vary though, give it time and meanwhile dont stop dating =) have fun with it and good luck!
2007-12-31 12:36:47 · answer #4 · answered by fina87 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
id say by the end of the week if she hasnt responded u should give her a call and see whats up and then if its a no. Its time to go on another date with someone else.
2007-12-31 12:35:13 · answer #5 · answered by LadyD 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋