Singles & Dating - 10 December 2007

I broke up with my BF ages ago and he keeps texting me, phoning me and calling round. He keeps telling me he loves me but he's ok with us being over (I ended the relationship). I have a new BF and ex know's this. He not only text's/phones me he's calling my friends and telling them how much he loves me and asking them about my new BF, they told me they get fed up with him calling them all the time but haven't got the heart to tell him so... should I tell him to leave them alone or just let them sort it out? Should I tell him to leave me alone too?? My BF is getting annoyed with it all and has said he'll have a word, but I don't know if that would stop him. I feel like screaming sometimes!!!

2007-12-10 19:38:33 · 17 answers · asked by sleepybaby 1

hypothetically, there this girl you have been seeing not exclusively or anything but you act like your crazy about her one second then don't care the next. i think it's to protect himself because he cared when he didnt expect to but...

would it bother you if you seen her with another guy?
if so, what would you do?

2007-12-10 19:33:57 · 15 answers · asked by hellkitten 5

ok what are some cute romantic ideas you can do without money?

My bf asked me this and he lives in Nj

I said walk in the park and picnic or like cuddling watching movies with hot coco

2007-12-10 19:32:18 · 9 answers · asked by Rayray 5

My hubby wants me to go out with him in skirt without innerwears and more trasparant cloths. he do touch me in public places. Is this normal? Sometimes when he found me in innerwear, he made me to take out them in nearby restrooms.

2007-12-10 19:28:54 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been together for a year now and he want to wait till after out 2 years together, he is scared that his parents will not like the idea of us moving in together any sooner, how do I go about talking to him about doing it sooner, he says he believes that he can marry me, so I don't know.And he is quite a traditional guy, eventhough I think tradition flew out the window for the both of us when we started sleeping together. I want us to have a partnership before we decide to get married. I know he loves me but don't know how to talk to hom about this. Any ideas on how to convince him sooner is better than later, I would much rather know sooner than later if we would be able to live together.

2007-12-10 19:16:25 · 5 answers · asked by anonomous 2

2007-12-10 19:16:05 · 11 answers · asked by magy 1

2007-12-10 18:58:23 · 16 answers · asked by Farmer & Granny Crabtree 5

i know a girl that barely ever talks around new people and all these guys have crushes on her. she gets every guy she ever looks at. they all go crazy over her and i dont get it. shes not skinny but shes not chubby either, shes like average size and shes a goody-goody. she doesnt drink or smoke or party. shes not fun. she tells people she wants to go bungee jumping and sky diving and ride roller coasters. shes so weird and crazy. why would anyone like her? im skinny, i have blonde hair, blue eyes and im tall. shes short, has brown hair and green eyes. im so much prettier. why are they all going after her and not me? its making me mad, i think maybe the guys are just to shy to let me know they like me to.

I know someone has to agree with me. Its just stupid girls saying shes not ugly. Come on guys, who agrees with me? I want her to know shes not hot.

2007-12-10 18:54:12 · 33 answers · asked by Bumble Bee 1

GUYS ONLY what would you do if were delivering pizza and when you rang the bell the woman who opened the door was topless

2007-12-10 18:10:11 · 12 answers · asked by LeeAnn 1

don't get my wrong -- I love my bf with all my heart and soul -- but how do you know when you're relationship has hit a dead end?
i'm in my first relationship.. so im not exactly sure.

2007-12-10 18:08:32 · 30 answers · asked by christypooh87 2

She claimed it was just naiveness and some anger. A guy who had chased her for a year before she and I ever met had still been trying to get with her while we where together. She initially hid our relationship saying she was busy everytime he asked her out (she acutally did this even when single when blowing guys off its true). But my concern is that she became his cheerleader, while we where together and one day he told her he is ready to hang out when she is and she went off on this rant and at the end of it said she is not sure how much longer we would be together. She was also burning him CD's (though she never met up). I asked her if he was on her myspace friends list and she said no but he was. I can't picture her liking this guy, he is ugly has no game or money and she is the christian no sex before marriage type. She says she was just venting. I don't know what the truth is. I broke up with her. She did a lot to try to work it out. But I feel relieved for now...

2007-12-10 18:01:06 · 2 answers · asked by Jamal J 1

would you ever consider dating a girl who put out on the first night? or do you assume that she's a slut ? (even though you guys are being just as slutty, but i won't get into that...)

2007-12-10 17:55:51 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous

This was about a month a half ago. She gave me her number, we talked, she came over...i asked for a kiss, she said NO....Now, when I see her, she asks if I still have her number???? She told me that she has been with younger guys, so I don't understand whats wrong. She did say she likes a guy too talke control. what do you think????

2007-12-10 17:53:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

happens in many cases, sooner or later ( goes for girls and guys of the same age), your opinion???

2007-12-10 17:39:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

guys only if you were delivering pizza and you rang the bell and a NAKED woman opened the door what would you do

2007-12-10 17:38:41 · 29 answers · asked by Jessica M 1

2007-12-10 17:30:53 · 18 answers · asked by totallybored55 2

Ok, I will just give you the details and then want to know what your opinions are.

* Met a guy online, have been talking for about 5 months, 'together' for 2 months
* I'm a virgin, he isn't
* We want to meet so badly but I told him I need to wait until the end of next year (when I have finished school) We'll be about 18 when we meet.
* He's been hurt badly in the past, been cheated on but he has never cheated
* He's willing to wait a year for me, and more if I needed
* He respects me, and really loves me.
* I love him with all my heart and he is the first person I have truly loved.
* My family knows of him and his of me.
* He has suggested moving here in a few years once he has worked and saved enough money.

So what do you all think? Personally, I can see us being together for a long time. I mean, if we haven't met and can feel so strongly for one another, it can only get better on meeting. Just interested to hear some of your thoughts/opinions? =)

2007-12-10 17:29:48 · 5 answers · asked by Curious Me 3

I frankly couldn't care less about this hype about getting a gf. They cause unrelenting drama, steal your $, and zap your time. And then break up w/you and go out with the next guy.

Even if you marry them, they will just divorce you in ten years or so and take everything. Including your kids. And your house. And you have to pay them for it.

Why are some guys so eager to have their life ruined?

2007-12-10 17:28:10 · 9 answers · asked by asdf 1

Is there too much of an age difference? Are 30-somethings too OLD or MATURE to date 20-somethings?

What if one person's in his/her late 20's and the other's in his/her early 30's? Is that inappropriate?

2007-12-10 17:23:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do girls acutally enjoy getting hickies? If they do why then are some of them embarrassed to have them and try to hide them?

2007-12-10 17:19:56 · 12 answers · asked by Jonathon D 2

She is 35 and I am 22. We both got to know eachother a couple of months ago, while we were painting a family friends apartment....after the painting, she gave me her number and told me to call. I did. She came over and we had good conversation, then it shifted to the PAST younger guys she has been with... she told me that she has been with a 20 year old and a 21 year old... Should I take this as a sign that she LIKES ME? Or does she want to see want I will do? please I need help.
I already got rejected the second time she came over because I ASKED for a kiss....I'm an idoit for that one. WHEN I SEE HER NOW SHE ALWAYS ASKS IF I STILL HAVE HER NUMBER?

2007-12-10 17:19:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

If i was some random guy coming up to you and wanted to ask you out on a date... and i said "If your beauty was a light we wouldnt need a sun" would you consider it, or just walk off?

2007-12-10 17:16:32 · 27 answers · asked by Split Second Suicide 3

something i noticed whilst schooling and college, dont understand it!

2007-12-10 17:15:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-10 17:14:39 · 7 answers · asked by claire_chinx 1

Im really worried about him. but i wasnt happy. things were not working out. and i moved on without even wanting to. it just happened. he pushed me away. he was unsure about us because he got "freaked out" about the next step. im dating someone else now. i held on for 6 months. now he wants to be with me. and marry me. and hes telling me he wants to be that guy for me now. and hes so sorry. i told him its too late. and that i wont look back. im happy with the guy im dating. it feels right. but i feel horrible that im hurting my ex. he calls me crying. we were best friends before we dated. i really care about him. i think its best if we move on. but he is scaring me. he says he doesnt want to live. he cant picture his life without me. he beggs and beggs. but i can only say no and explain so many times. i also dont want to jeapordize my new relationship by talking to my ex too much. im afraid if i stop talking to him completly he will attempt to kill himself. what do i do?

2007-12-10 17:10:36 · 6 answers · asked by amtech33 2

ive been wondering things about age . . .for example is it wrong for a 50 year old man to flirt with a 20 year old woman? but what if the woman is creeped out? but than if u reverse it where the 20 year old flirts with the 40 year old would it be any different?

2007-12-10 17:05:04 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I messaged a group of guys that share a myspace, when one finally responded this was his, response:
- Hey, this is Matt and I dont check our site much cuz the boys either do it or someone else but I will answer some for ya.-
I didn't ask for anyone in particular to answer the questions, and if it matters semi-local band. No I don't know them.

2007-12-10 17:04:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I have a guy best friend. He IM's me everyday. I will ask him questions and he will reply, "Yeah, I dont care" Like today I asked what gifts I should get my friend Max, because he got everyone else a gift. I was just wondering what ideas he had, since hes a guy; and he replies, "Yeah I don't care" He will do this on simple questions, like if I ask him if he listened to a song I liked. I mean we are 20.
Answers are great!
Why can't he just act like he cared, and kept that to himself!!!?!?!?

2007-12-10 17:01:38 · 24 answers · asked by Chipps 1

this is because hes bestfriends with her sister. he still ikes my girlfriend and cant get over her and he hangs out with her sister probably just so he can see her. my girlfriend says its alwas akward and doenst like talking to him but cant help it cause hes always there and is a family friend.

this really buggs me and i dont wanna deal with it. it makes me pissed/ stressed. what should i tell her? im really considering dumping her over this.

2007-12-10 17:01:08 · 5 answers · asked by dudde 1

does age matter? because i dont think it does is old an opinion? or a fact?

2007-12-10 16:54:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous