Singles & Dating - 10 December 2007

I have been in a relationship now for 6 yrs its a long story and no one knew about my relationship with this person however i found out 6 months ago that he was cheating on me with this girl. I had enough solid evidence to prove it and when i asked him and told him my proof he just made excuses and blamed me for not paying attention to him and always nagging him..... i did nag him but it was because he was doing things i didnt like and when he didnt change the behaviour after we talked about it i would nag... doesnt give him reason to cheat... he should have just been honest. anyways being me i decided to forgive him as long as he cuts of all ties with this person..... i asked him to do it in front of me but he said he wanted to do it his way... i believed him and thought he had stopped seeing her. as it turns out he is still with her and i am not tired of this... i have decided to break off with him and have told him. he is upset and tells me he loves me and that he is not cheating...

2007-12-10 11:02:06 · 7 answers · asked by star 1

OK..would you ever date a girl because of her personality? I mean shes ok lookin...you just usually tend to go for girls who look great but then break your heart....if you had been in this situation (more than once) would you go out with someone who you said a 10 personality to her face but was just ok lookin...

2007-12-10 11:01:48 · 16 answers · asked by I♥NickSimmons 1

how often?
where?
do you cry in front of friends/family, or by yourself?

im just trying to see if the stereotype is true =]

2007-12-10 10:58:35 · 7 answers · asked by Kenna Coconut™ Actorasauress Rex 5

2007-12-10 10:52:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 17 so you at least have to be under 18.

2007-12-10 10:48:15 · 18 answers · asked by raven 1

I just need help and i dont want no stupid talk like just suck it up and w/e just try to help!! also he wants to fu*k outside buh i never done that!! HELP!!

2007-12-10 10:46:02 · 1 answers · asked by Bad Jawn ! 3

with a bad back no money, no prospects , a little willy, useless in bed, adicted to porn movies.
But on the plus side I'm spotless underneath and I go to church every
Sunday

2007-12-10 10:44:11 · 10 answers · asked by mickeok 1

Well guys i bought a new lingerie outfit for my bf and i had it sent to his house i told him not to open it and we have been apart for 3 weeks what would be a new fun idea to incorporate with this new look of mine to really get him squirming. Its pink see through and lacy if that helps :-)

2007-12-10 10:43:14 · 22 answers · asked by Stephanie 2

2007-12-10 10:40:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was playin gspin the bottle and i kissed one girla dn she said i was kind of a bad kisser, i think it was becaus ei have chapped lips alllll the time. what else could it be if it isn't that?

2007-12-10 10:36:16 · 30 answers · asked by CoCo 2

I am almost 30 and have not yet officially started to date. I have gone on a total of two dates in my entire life. They took place when I was 23 and at the time I felt it was way too early to get into that stuff. What is weird now is that I have become so involved in my career and working on a masters degree that I totally forgot about the "finding love" aspect of life. Seriously, I had an awakening of a sort and said to myself, "Oh yeah, I forgot about maybe someday getting a girlfriend and experiencing my first kiss." I have been told it will be difficult to get into the game so late and even harder because I still live at home by choice. LOL, should I even bother to seek a relationship or should I just pursue more important things like a career etc.?

2007-12-10 10:33:45 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend and i dont really have time fro each other. should i have sex with him in the school's bathroom, while cutting class with him?

2007-12-10 10:32:37 · 77 answers · asked by Anonymous

im a gurl,13-16,still a virgin...wens the right time to give it up?

2007-12-10 10:29:01 · 20 answers · asked by AnGI3 1

Before we were dating, she was helping me out with my financial troubles, then we becaome friends. Her and I have been dating for 3 months now. I really love her and she loves me. I've been through a bad marriage before, and she has helped me out through a lot of my personal struggles.

2007-12-10 10:27:16 · 57 answers · asked by Michelle 1

Almost two years ago I broke off an engagement because I was having doubts that the guy I was with truly loved me. I felt like he was just with me so as not to be alone, and that if it wasn't me it could easily be the next girl to walk by. I moved out of his house but continued our relationship - two months later I found out he was sleeping with a coworker who was married and had little kids. I was devastated, and immediately ended things for good. Now he is engaged to this other woman and my heart is still broken to this day. I don't know why, but I still love him and think about him everyday. I don't think I'd ever go back to him, but I do still love him. So there I am, stuck loving someone I know I can never be with. I have found another man who I adore, so why do I still have these feelings for my miserable ex? And how at last can I move on? To make matters worse I terribly miss my ex's family as I was very close to them and haven't had any contact for almost 2 years.

2007-12-10 10:26:30 · 5 answers · asked by angel 2

Is mens size 10 or over the right size for anyone? (That's UK 9 or Euro 43.) Some girls make the grade. If you qualify, or know someone who does, what is their size in US mens and womens, and how tall are they?

2007-12-10 10:26:21 · 7 answers · asked by footsizer 4

HE ISN'T FUNNY!!! HE JUST TOTALLY ******* FLIRTING WITH MY BEST FRIEND OMG IM SO SAD AND MAD HES LIKE WERE THROUGH ON AIM AND IM LIKE WHAT AND HES LIKE YEP AND DANIELLE IS SO HOT I AM SO SAD WHY DID HE DO THIS!!! I MEAN THEN HE SAID HE WAS JUST KIDDING EXCEPT HE SAID JK I DONT THINK IT WAS FUNNY AT ALL.

2007-12-10 10:26:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

There's this guy that I have mad feelings for, but he doesn't feel the same way. I am going through a lot right now and it would be nice to have him around, but he barely even wants to talk to me anymore. I don't know what I've done to make him feel this way. He's a really nice guy( the whole reason I fell for him in the first place) but I don't think he cares like he used to. We were really good friends. I talked to him today to see if he wanted to go out,but Him and his boys might go out tonight if they don't then we could. I know were only friends, but it's not enough for me right now. I've thought about calling him back to tell him don't even waste his time trying to fit me in his schedule because I don't want to go out. To tell him that I care about him way too much to be just friends. I'm sick of feeling like I have to practically beg you to go out with me. I want to tell him not to call me again. Even though I really like him I'm tired of feeling hurt, but I'm scared. I don't know what to do right now I want him in my life so bad but if this is all it's going to be I don't know if it's worth it. I don't want to regret it. Can someone please help me......should I let him go? what shall I do? What shall I say to him?

2007-12-10 10:21:01 · 17 answers · asked by tc22 3

2007-12-10 10:17:18 · 48 answers · asked by nick 1

Hello. My boyfriend & I have been going out for a couple of months now... he was kind of a little nerd. But, you know, I liked it. Not so popular... but since I am one of the more popular girls in school, Henry has become more popular also. The problem is... now he's a jock. He's the same sweet Henry I used to know and love... when it's just the two of us. Around other girls and guys, he's kind of jerk-isk. I want to tell him without hurting his feelings... what should I do?
-Saerah Ashlie-

2007-12-10 10:10:35 · 36 answers · asked by ♥Saerah Ashlie♥ 1

I don't get to flustered but if I know a cute girl likes me, it makes me cautious about how I act around her the next time I'm hanging out because I feel like she is paying closer attention.


even If I've hung out with her on numerous occasions, I am still a bit more self conscious about what I say and my body language as to...like, not mess things up.

2007-12-10 10:09:18 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mother was having an affair with a married man

I like him a whole lot, and I was really looking forward to him being my step dad (he didn't know I knew about their relationship)

But now things are over between them, and I am the heartbroken one here

I do not want to date, I do not want her to date or marry other people, I just want what would have been my stepdaddy back!

2007-12-10 10:06:55 · 4 answers · asked by Thursday 1

2007-12-10 10:03:46 · 3 answers · asked by gettapan 1

My mom won't let me do Yahoo answers (I'm sneaking on!!) Or youtube, or google!!

She says that Yahoo Answers is inappropriate! What can I do???

2007-12-10 10:00:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i relly like this chick
but i think she just sees me as afriend
i hate wen this happens
wat do i do
im takin to her the movies next week
i swear da god shes the only person that makes me smile
nd i make er laugh alot
i scurred of being dumped in the friend zone

2007-12-10 09:55:48 · 32 answers · asked by Jazz 2

my ex broke up with me cus i was cheating by asking another guy if i could be his gf after me and him were on a break. since then he said he hated me and wants too be friends only. wat does that mean? how can u hate someone and wants too me there friend? thats confusing....

2007-12-10 09:53:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-10 09:52:20 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex broke up with me 4 months ago. She still calls me evry 2-3 weeks. She calls and says she misses me and our relationship, etc.She has been seeing someone else and she has told me more than once that she doesnt like him that much and that they dont have the same connection that we have.A month ago I stopped taking her calls and havent answered her texts.She saw me 2 weeks ago with another girl and she called me at work 2 days later and told me several things about how she misses me and how special I am and then she started crying and told me she wanted to see me, and that she is thinking of leaving the guy she is with, etc. She never acts on her statements, so I told her that I am moving on and that I think it would be best for her not to call me again EVER. When I said that she hung up on me.I do want to be with her but she tells me she misses me but doesnt ever come back to me.did I do the right thing? Why do girls like this play these games? What do y'all get out of it?

2007-12-10 09:50:47 · 36 answers · asked by zarro 1

Frank and I have dated in the past, we were suppose to get married. We did the whole ring and hall shopping but stress got to me so i decided to break-up with him. He was devastated, couldn't leave his house for weeks. The reason I broke up with him was a little to do with not appreciating eachother. After seeing how upset he was after the break-up I realized how mush he really did care about me. We decided to give it another chance but a few months after that he decided it was not working. He cought me trying to chat with guys on-line. I was idiot. I made mistakes but he couldn't be with me anymore. After 2 months apart, he came back saying that he missed me. He wanted to see how things will go, if they will fall into place and we can try again. It's been a few months and he says he is still not ready to commit. He says we had it all planned out the first time around and look what happened. The matter is he still cannot define us as a couple. Should I see how it plays out? HELP!

2007-12-10 09:46:20 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I always fall for a guy & then he ends up falling for one of my friends... it's happened all the time since high school. I've been told i have a great personality, i'm heaps of fun, i'm quite pretty, guys love me as a friend & i'm great to hang out with. But for some reason I'm never the one they want to go out with. I'm not a tomboy, I'm not an annoying chiwowa girl (you know- yap yap yap but no substance). I have a decent full time job, i'm relatively intelligent (apart from the fact that i can't remember how to spell chiwowa). I have a great sense of humour (ego!). I'm easy going- no pressure- take life as it comes and live it kind of girl. I'm not desperate or focused on marriage or any of that stuff right now. I just would like to know why it's never me that gets "picked". is there something inherently wrong with me that i'm not aware of?

2007-12-10 09:44:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous