I always fall for a guy & then he ends up falling for one of my friends... it's happened all the time since high school. I've been told i have a great personality, i'm heaps of fun, i'm quite pretty, guys love me as a friend & i'm great to hang out with. But for some reason I'm never the one they want to go out with. I'm not a tomboy, I'm not an annoying chiwowa girl (you know- yap yap yap but no substance). I have a decent full time job, i'm relatively intelligent (apart from the fact that i can't remember how to spell chiwowa). I have a great sense of humour (ego!). I'm easy going- no pressure- take life as it comes and live it kind of girl. I'm not desperate or focused on marriage or any of that stuff right now. I just would like to know why it's never me that gets "picked". is there something inherently wrong with me that i'm not aware of?
2007-12-10 09:44:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is nothing inherently wrong with you (beyond the fact that you even entertained the notion that there WAS something wrong with you). Even fantastically sexy, intelligent, funny and delightful people occasionally fall victim to bad luck and poor timing.You seem pretty intriguing (based on your writing), so I have to assume that's the case with you.
We have to play the cards we're dealt until a better hand comes along...and trust me, it will. Someone like you will not remain a well-kept secret forever! Until then...
Happy Holidays
2007-12-10 09:53:47 · answer #1 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chihuahua.
So why aren't you "The One"? Hmmmm. You keep getting passed over for promotion to GF status. Maybe you need to be more naughty, more "bad" or something. Look available. Dress more revealingly. Get a tat and display it proudly. I'm just wondering if you dress and present yourself a bit conservatively (sorry if I'm wrong on that point). I do like your poetry though... cool stuff, a little like some song lyrics. Form a rock group - "Lena and the Destroyers".
2007-12-10 09:50:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have a lot going for you. Eventually one of these boys will realize that. Dont worry there is nothing wrong with you. It sounds like some of these guys are a little fickle.
2007-12-10 09:51:47 · answer #3 · answered by jwbovftn9d 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't change for know one ,you seem to be a great person .you can't change people either . when the time come you will know ,just keep being yourself a do what you want ,not what some one Else wants.only time can tell, be yourself .
2007-12-10 09:54:55 · answer #4 · answered by Ron B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is nothing wrong with you
the right guy just hasn't shown up yet
stay true to yourself
a guy must like you for who you are, not expect you to change.
2007-12-10 09:48:36 · answer #5 · answered by :] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just need to be patient
2007-12-10 09:48:01 · answer #6 · answered by I'm Chris Hansen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋