Almost two years ago I broke off an engagement because I was having doubts that the guy I was with truly loved me. I felt like he was just with me so as not to be alone, and that if it wasn't me it could easily be the next girl to walk by. I moved out of his house but continued our relationship - two months later I found out he was sleeping with a coworker who was married and had little kids. I was devastated, and immediately ended things for good. Now he is engaged to this other woman and my heart is still broken to this day. I don't know why, but I still love him and think about him everyday. I don't think I'd ever go back to him, but I do still love him. So there I am, stuck loving someone I know I can never be with. I have found another man who I adore, so why do I still have these feelings for my miserable ex? And how at last can I move on? To make matters worse I terribly miss my ex's family as I was very close to them and haven't had any contact for almost 2 years.
2007-12-10 10:26:30 · 5 answers · asked by angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hahah, the little 6th grader.
you can never really get over youre first love.
but you do need to realize that you're realtionshiip with this cheater is over. right now you're with a loving man who treats you much better, i hope. dont love a man that hurt you, love the man that you adore.
hope i helped! :)
2007-12-10 10:36:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well i was in a similar situation and my resolution to it was; i stayed close to him although knowing he had moved on and stuff. Just be friends with him, call the family and jus chat normal like u did. But dont let him know how u feel cuz he'd use it against you. Atleast keep a friendship with them cuz other than that u'd nevr get over him.if its jus to say hi how u doin!!!!!!!!!!!!! Good Luck!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-12-10 18:36:58 · answer #2 · answered by slimredz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
0h i feel you, well you need to stabalise yourself, when you feel that whenever you think of him without the well of emotions, you are ready to make up your mind and make sensible decisions. But from me, you need to let go, letting go is hard, you had strong feelings for him then, but if he played with you wen you were so into him, think back of times wen you were together, was there times wen he would say things or do things you were hardly aware of but indicated unfaithfulnes, coz i strongly believe there was........you need to let go and let go, let the past bury itself and don't let it bury you.
2007-12-10 18:43:47 · answer #3 · answered by liku 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You keep having a problem defining the difference between who you thought he was and who he really was. MOVE AHEAD!!
2007-12-10 18:37:13 · answer #4 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow,he cheated on you for a Co-Worker.OUCH
I kinda feal you.I went out with my gf (in 3 grade) and I HATE her to death,but some times I have fealings for her.I done know why
2007-12-10 18:33:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋