ok i relly like this chick
but i think she just sees me as afriend
i hate wen this happens
wat do i do
im takin to her the movies next week
i swear da god shes the only person that makes me smile
nd i make er laugh alot
i scurred of being dumped in the friend zone
2007-12-10 09:55:48 · 32 answers · asked by Jazz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would just talk to her. Tell her how you feel. I've been in that situation and the worst thing is not knowing. Even if she says she's not interested at least you can prepare yourself to move on. The best thing you can do is open up your mouth and just tell her. There's a good chance she's thinking the same thing.
BTW, I'm 50/50 in this situation. Once it didn't work out but we are still friends to this day and once it worked and I married her!
2007-12-10 10:00:03 · answer #1 · answered by The Drew 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the only thing you could do is talk to her yes she might tell you that she thinks of you as just a friend and then you'll have an awkward moment then you can move on and be friends with her because in the love movies the girls always end up with the best friend like brown sugar or love dont cost a thing
2007-12-10 10:01:20 · answer #2 · answered by sweetietweetie152 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how you feel. I am amazed at the amount of guys who skirt this issue. If you are destined for the friend zone then it won't matter if it's tomorrow, next week, next month, or two years from now. I prefer the truth and you would probably be surprised at the amount of women out there who would like it too if they had someone just be honest!!!!
2007-12-10 10:01:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just tell her how you feel. Not doing anything will have you end up in the friend zone. Don't over do it, of course, but you have to let her know that you are interested and that you like her more than just a friend.
Good luck!
2007-12-10 10:00:51 · answer #4 · answered by niiro13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay here's what you do
first ask if shes single and if she is
try to um like find something she looks in guys like
she likes the flirty type or the serious or the funny type or whatever and like try to be the guy she wants her next boyfriend
to be like or you can stick up for her when someones messing with her
or there's always other way like tell her how you feel about her (which hardly ever works) but who knows she might like that
trust me I have been in these situation and I have like thousands of girls who like me and wanna go out with me!!!!!
2007-12-10 10:10:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, well.
go to the movie first of all :]
if she laughs at literally EVERYTHING you say, thats a REALLY big sign that she likes you.
like when most girls like guys, they find the most random and stupid things hilarious XD
also, when your standing together (maybe in line for popcorn or wahtever) check to see which way her shoulder is pointing. i read this body language thing where girls usually point their shoulders to the things they want. and you know, if she likes you, it counts as she wants you ;]
ahah. also, if she looks over at you ALOT thats a good sign :]
also, if she makes good eye contact and just seems liek she can't get enough of you, i would defenetly do something about it :]
just tell her how you feel :D
2007-12-10 10:03:52 · answer #6 · answered by sally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least you have brains... my friend has this guy that likes her.. but she dosn't like him back.. in that way... so he takes the WRONG ROAD and goes all emo, crys about it... sends her emails to try and fix the mess he has made.. calls her ALL THE TIME which annoys the piss out of her because i was there when he was calling he profusely.. don't follow this example... take it easy, don't pressure her into anything and certainly don't make her feel bad about it, because then she WILL hate you.
Good Luck dude, you'll land this chick. confidence is key.
2007-12-10 10:03:30 · answer #7 · answered by Lukey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Step 1: Re-take first grade English
2007-12-10 09:59:12 · answer #8 · answered by Matt Shank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in the same thing with a girl and i have been dumped int he friend zone its ok it works out in the end just try to take a shot ask her out if she says no tell her u still want to be friends!
2007-12-10 09:59:47 · answer #9 · answered by kate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aw...thats just too cute! I think you should tell her how you feel. If she makes you laugh and smile, she sounds like an important person in your life. Also, you will never know how she really feels about you until you try so go for it!
2007-12-10 10:00:18 · answer #10 · answered by morgzmaj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋