im a gurl,13-16,still a virgin...wens the right time to give it up?
2007-12-10 10:29:01 · 20 answers · asked by AnGI3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
virgin =]
when you feel as though you are ready.
everyone that i've talked to, has said that you know when you truely like someone enough to give it up.
wait a while though, you don't want to be too young. it's sick how many 9 year olds have already done it.
2007-12-10 10:32:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am 17 and im still a virgin
it is a lot of pressure out their for girls to give it up. but you shouldn't give in. i know it seems like everyone is doing it so why not and i know from my friends that once you do it you realize how many people are waiting and u wish u would have too. especially if it's not with someone u love.But even if u love someone that doesnt mean u are ready. if u have ever loved more than one person u know that what feels so right now can change even when you think it can't. Just do what u feel is right and dont let anyone make u feel like u should do it. Also you may not realize this but so many girls feel "uncool" or not like everyone else because they are virgins but if u seriously ask someone, they think that girls who wait are strong and they respect them for that.
by the way i am waiting for marraige too.
best of luck
2007-12-10 18:43:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm engaged and I am not a virgin.
I don't necessarily feel from my own opinion that you have to wait till marriage. I lost my virginity when I was 15 to someone I loved and was with for a long time. Eventually, we grew up and out of love with each other but we're still good friends. However, I would suggest you be careful and wait to make sure that you're not being used for sex.
Never lose it to someone you don't love. If you can save it for marriage do so, but if you feel you're in love and you trust the guy and have been with him for some time, and you feel like you're ready then go for it.
2007-12-10 18:34:57 · answer #3 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
The right time is when you want to have sex, not when you want to lose your virginity. Worrying about virginity gives you too much anxiety, it's not something that matters. When you're ready for sex, you will know. I would suggest you wait until you are at least 16 or 17, though. That's the age of consent in most states, also known as the time when it is legal for you to actually have sex.
2007-12-10 18:36:04 · answer #4 · answered by Eiliat 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
18 yrs old 4 me. the right time is when u think its the right time, but beware... i'll tell u a story. my friend and i both got bfs at the same time, and we both had sex with them about 2-3 weeks later. that is a stupid decision, but we were both blinded by the excitement of feeling so close to someone, that we just went for it. well i was lucky, cuz my bf is wonderful, and actually cares about me, where as my friends bf was actually more interested in sex than an actual relationship, and after he was done with her, he broke her heart. that could have just as easily been me, just like it could be you, so do yourself a favor and wait for someone that u know is special.
2007-12-10 18:38:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no right time to give it up. When you feel comfortable and ready, than its time. BUT! don't be doing it before you turn 18. Having sex gives you lots of responsibilities and consequences. You gotta be mature to have sex.
I lost it when I was 19 with someone I truly love.
2007-12-10 18:33:12 · answer #6 · answered by Alora 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't give it up just yet i would wait until you trust the guy and have been with him for a while and when you feel ready. that was my mistake putting my trust in my guy. just take in the consequences of what will happen. you could get pregnant get an std be exposed through pictures or video or nasty rumors.....good luck
2007-12-10 18:35:36 · answer #7 · answered by KAT 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dan D has the right idea, you should listen to him....
16 still a virgin, goin strong :)
2007-12-10 18:35:35 · answer #8 · answered by jaci 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
once you feel you are ready and you love the person, then go for it. but remember the consequences: AIDS/ HIV, STDs (sexual trasmitted diseases), and possible pregnancy. dont be forced into having sex, and dont think just because other people you know are having sex means you should too. be safe, and make the right choice. i hoped this helped
2007-12-10 19:03:07 · answer #9 · answered by lacrosse lover<3 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
when ur married. Unless u arent catholic and dont care. Then i'd have to say...when u get married. If a guy loves u and wants that then he should be willing to wait! btw, i AM a virgin.
2007-12-10 18:32:37 · answer #10 · answered by Becca 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋