Singles & Dating - 10 December 2007

I've known this guy for 4 yrs. Him and I always had crushes on each other... but, I had a boyfriend (ps... crush lives about 230 miles away from me). I'm no longer with my boyfriend, and I just found out this guy (crush) has had an off/on girlfriend for the entire time we've known each other. He tells me he likes me a lot and even knows and likes my daughter (I had with my ex). These past couple months we've been talking/txtng a lot and have grown close to one another. I recently recieved a call from his FIANCE' (that's what she said) ... and she questioned our (crush and i's) relationship: asked me how i knew him... have we ever "hooked up", and just tons of questions. - i told him about the call i received, and what was said over the conversation- and asked if they were really engaged. He said no- that she's his girlfriend off and on for 4 yrs. -- they don't even live together=
so.. my question is... what should i do? or tell him? i like him-

2007-12-10 12:14:35 · 6 answers · asked by austin t 1

ive been dating my girlfriend for about 2 months we both like each other and have alot of fun when we're together. For some reason though in school she is a totally different person, she doesnt talk to me much and will flirt with other guys instead of me, i understand she is a flirty person but it gets kind of annoying, i wouldent expect her to be embarresed of me because in my ipinion im a good looking guy. Then i confronted her about this, and she said that she wants me to play more of hard to get to keep our relationship intresting? Im gettin rly tired with this beacuse i love being aruond her and talking to her, when its just us its fine but around people i have to play "hard to get" i dont understand she's my gf wouldent she want me to hold her and talk to her most of the time. I understand the line between too mushy and sweet

2007-12-10 12:13:04 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-10 12:09:56 · 12 answers · asked by dimond32 3

Ok so, I'm the only person out of all of my friends that has never had a boyfriend. Or anything close, for that matter. I know I'm not the prettiest girl in school, but I do have some traits that some girls say are nice. I have nice eyes and pretty hair. But I am not skinny, and I am really cautious (I have had 3 knee surgeries). Also, I am very sarcastic, and sensitive. What do you think could get guys to notice me, for reasons other than that I can help with homework? And really, if looks don't matter, why have guys said they don't like me because I am ugly? I'd absolutly love some advice! Or just your own thoughts on this.

2007-12-10 12:08:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i knoe these two guys they r soooooo cute and so nice i don't wanna hurt there feelings. i mean i like both of them the same amount but they both asked me out . i don't wanna pick favorites because i'm not that type of person. i need some help! and if i go out with them at the same time it'll be hard to do that cause we go to the same school !wat should i do????????
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-12-10 12:08:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Orlando Bloom or Zac Efron?

Orlando Bloom is the hottest man alive I think.... :)

2007-12-10 12:07:59 · 7 answers · asked by soccerbabe 2

i have liked this guy for about 5 months now and everyone says i should get over him. but i can't. does that mean that i might have a chance or am i just waisting my time? sometimes i think he gives me these little hints that he might like me but then i realize he treats almost every girl like that and i always get so confussed. and apparently he liked me the first couple of weeks we met. should i get over him or should i stick with this guy? SOS!!!

2007-12-10 12:07:37 · 10 answers · asked by katie 1

So there's this guy and I like him a lot.. I like him like him too but I don't know if he's into relationships. how should I ask him if he wants to bang or something? I think he likes me too.. advice??

2007-12-10 12:07:15 · 19 answers · asked by Josie S 2

Its kinda 2 simple questions in one....

do you like it when girls play hard to get? what can a girl do to come across as hard to get?

If a girl makes out with you on the second day of knowing you...what would be your impression of her?

2007-12-10 12:07:08 · 5 answers · asked by la_la_love 1

he wont talk to me

2007-12-10 12:07:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay, I really like this girl and she's about my age.(I'm 14 Freshmen). I'm kinda friends with her, I talk with her when I see her sometimes, (at like church retreats or something, and she doesnt go to my school). I want to ask her out, but I'm not sure if it is the right time to do it, cuz I'm not sure if she has a bf or not. I'm not sure how to ask her out, or start a good conversation going to strengthen our friendship. Also I know a lot of people say "be yourself" but I dont really get what that means. SOMEBODY HELP!!!!!!

2007-12-10 12:06:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, there is 11 year gap between me and my gf (I'm 23 and she is 34). She says she loves me and we have been together for 6 months. We are always pretty honest with each other and she said that she doesnt see herself sticking to this relationship because of the age difference. Shes just not comfortable with it but doesnt want to loose me anyway because she tried so hard not to fall for me but couldnt help it. It also was a problem when we first got together. Took me over two months to get with her initially because of the age difference issue. And now breaking up with me would break her heart as much as mine but, would probably still happen. What should I do? I said I will stay and make her love me so much she wont be able to leave (thats what she initially fell for, my ambition and determination). But, I am wondering if I should just leave and make the ineviable heart break a bit easier.
P.S I have no trouble with the relationship evolving into things much more than what they are

2007-12-10 12:06:37 · 16 answers · asked by Gord 2

I went on a first date and things were going perfectly. We had a nice dinner, saw the Golden Compass (it was okay), went for coffee at night and then we went back to my place where we were going to have sex. He started licking me down there and when I was orgasming, I farted in his mouth. We was pissed and he left and I haven't heard from him in a few days.

How can I get him to like me again?

2007-12-10 12:06:31 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my boyfriend talk about everything, our past, present and future..thats the kinda relationship we have. we have even discussed past sexual partners, and up untill recently its been fine..but yesterday he completley violated my trust...in front of my MOTHER he decided to tell her that in the past i slept with one of my co-worker...(who i had to get a restraining order against) when i decided to break things off. He even expressed how (dumb) that he thought my actions were, althought he himself has engaged in an work-relationship that ended badly too! i would have never put his intimate business out in front of his mother!! and when i told him how i felt: he said that i will get over it...i feel like i cant trust him anymore, out of all people, why my MOTHER. i will never forget the look on my moms face, how should i handle this i really love my boyfriend but this is really bothering me plzzzzzzz help!!!!!

2007-12-10 12:05:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-10 12:03:58 · 7 answers · asked by glassesguru 5

there is this girl in my math class. i sit next to her friend. when she talks to her friend, she always chooses the side of the desk near me and sticks her @ss out so its touching my desk. this happens on a daily basis now. what does this mean? is she trying to tell me something? do you think she is even aware she is doing this? i check her out but i am discreet

2007-12-10 12:03:41 · 6 answers · asked by Arthur M 1

I'm 15 and he is 22. We got together yesterday, well through the internet. He showed me his photo, and i showed him mine. He is a christian, and i'm a christian, so we have the same faith.. He is a little bit big size, and so am i. The thing is that he is a magician, who also cooks and bakes and write songs. But actually i like studying. Haha. So it's completely different worlds altogether. I've never ever tried physical contact before with the opposite sex, etc... I dont want to have sex with him though, wait till marriage first ;) But well i guess i can do the best i can... What do you think??

2007-12-10 12:02:08 · 16 answers · asked by MyOhMy 3

2007-12-10 12:01:20 · 15 answers · asked by ss 2

My boyfriend is...I hate to say it but UNABLE to get me to come. I don't know what it is but I've been able to without any problems with ex's. But, we've tried TWICE and still nothing...this is very frustrating...WE ALL HAVE NEEDS!

2007-12-10 12:01:03 · 3 answers · asked by Miranda M. 2

Hi guys. Let's say you're a happy, sexually active man, then for some reason you are without sex for over 2 months. Please describe the new sexless you. Be honest..would you be mean to other people because of frustration?

2007-12-10 11:59:46 · 4 answers · asked by karly 4

I'm sooo lost. Everytime someone asks me what i want to do when i get older i have NO clue. my bestfriend (that moved an hour away a while ago, we are still bff tho =). and like she seems to think that after school we're gonna move to BC to get this thing, and then go to California, and do some school there, and then we're gonna be fashion designer or w.e. Okay, so the question what type of career shoudl i persue? I want something that has to do with animals, and nature and forests and stuff. But i don't want to be a vet i can't stand to stick needles in animals. My dad has wanted to be a forest ranger but he couldn't because he couldn't stay away for 2 yrs. I want some sort of career that doesn' have me sittin' at a desk all day, but will allow me to go outside, and someday hopefully give me enough leeway so when i do decide to ahve kids, my work wont interfere with it (i know i'm thinking ahead alot, but hey i can't help it) i can't think of a career i would like to persue. help pl

2007-12-10 11:59:34 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I are finally going to have sex, and I was wondering how bad it hurts the first time. I'm pretty sure my hymen is broken, does that mean it will hurt less? I'm so scared, and I have no idea why. I really want to do this, and I'm ready emotionally, I'm just scared that it will hurt. Any suggestions or anything? How bad did it hurt you?

2007-12-10 11:59:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would like to surprise my boyfriend by doing something for him totally unexpected that is inexpensive for no reason at all besides the fact that I love him. He's pretty romantic so I'm sure he'll appreciate almost anything but I'm running low on ideas. Ladies and Men please help me!

2007-12-10 11:59:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

well ihave an ex about a year ago & we are pretty cool friends.he has a girlfriend.but i want him back after i broke up w/ him.i never wanted to break up with himbut my friend made me...

2007-12-10 11:59:02 · 5 answers · asked by Ms.Soviet 2

2007-12-10 11:57:51 · 5 answers · asked by Alexa 2

so i like the guy, i asked him out... and he said no!
because he stil liked this girl! (he doesnt now)

but then my friend talked 2 him, and told him he should have gave me a chance, like 4 a week! but he said NO I DONT WUNT TO HURT HER....... idk wut that means...?

ive been talking 2 him online, and he seems 2 be intrestid, or sump thing?!
idk, does he care about me?

2007-12-10 11:56:51 · 11 answers · asked by Shaye. 5

I have a really hard time controlling my c*m. I explode a mere 30 seconds or so after penetration. How can I make this last longer? I've heard stories of guys going for 2+ hours without exploding. How can I do that?

2007-12-10 11:56:18 · 18 answers · asked by Avatar of Hypnos 2

my best friend is a guy, and i have kinda liked him for quiet some time. the only problem is, he has the same name as my ex who i broke up with a month ago. i really loved my ex, and they have the same name. Derek. i call my best friend dj cause it was to awkward. now, im afraid to tell him because it will still be so awkward. i really like him though. i know he likes me too, but he's going to colege next year. im two years younger than him. how do i tell him this? should i just keep my mouth shut?

2007-12-10 11:55:09 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-10 11:55:06 · 26 answers · asked by katie 2

I asked one girl to tell her if I can date her. But, today she told me that the other girl had said no and she still like me as a friend. I like her anyway and she is perfect for me. What are some suggestions that I acn persuade her to be my gf.

2007-12-10 11:52:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous