She claimed it was just naiveness and some anger. A guy who had chased her for a year before she and I ever met had still been trying to get with her while we where together. She initially hid our relationship saying she was busy everytime he asked her out (she acutally did this even when single when blowing guys off its true). But my concern is that she became his cheerleader, while we where together and one day he told her he is ready to hang out when she is and she went off on this rant and at the end of it said she is not sure how much longer we would be together. She was also burning him CD's (though she never met up). I asked her if he was on her myspace friends list and she said no but he was. I can't picture her liking this guy, he is ugly has no game or money and she is the christian no sex before marriage type. She says she was just venting. I don't know what the truth is. I broke up with her. She did a lot to try to work it out. But I feel relieved for now...
2007-12-10 18:01:06 · 2 answers · asked by Jamal J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
bottom line it does not look to me that she had any bad intentions, just stupidity on her part. But I am tired of baby sitting her and the trust is gone. She has done a lot to try to make it up. I have given her reasons to leave me too but she forgave me (other reasons). She said I need to learn to forgive love always does. Did I do the right thing? I feel mostly relieved. Not really sad. Might in the future though.
2007-12-10 18:03:13 · update #1