people have always said i was nice, girls would say im a chill guy and my mom would say your a good boy im 19 now and when i was younger my mom would say you gotta be more of an asshole with people, but its hard but now im starting to realize that i hate that stamp of being the nice guy and now im trying to change not neccesarily the nice part but other sides of it like being a people pleaser and dropping whatever im doing to go see a girl at the drop of a dime,how can i be a stronger person and do what i want to do and please myself instead of always pleasing everyone else, and ive noticed that i always try to avoid conflict by not standing up for myself when theres something i dont like and i have a hard time looking people in the eye i feel wierd and something compels me to look away, what can i do?
2007-11-21
10:48:00
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cap d
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