Singles & Dating - 21 November 2007

Hi
i'm a 17 years old boy and i've never kissed a girl..and it's kinda embarassing...like...the other day i was with some girl friends and they started talking about their first kiss(i was so embarassed! i'm so glad they didn't ask me about my first kiss) ww only one of them knows i've never kissed anyone..why do you think i still haven't kissed a girl?? it's bothering me wwww

2007-11-21 01:15:19 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-21 01:14:11 · 25 answers · asked by Nail.xxx 1

Im a17yr old girl. I have never had a boyfriend and more than 10 guys have asked i rili dnt no wot 2 do.pls help me how do i know d rite person 2 choose??

2007-11-21 01:14:02 · 9 answers · asked by 22 1

2007-11-21 01:10:13 · 18 answers · asked by Jay-Ar 2

My boyfriend and I haven't really been having problems, but he said he felt like I was pulling away and haven't been as close with him as usual...well he has never done anything that I'm aware of to betray me, but we were out a few days ago and we met up with 4 of his friends....well we were sitting at the bar and a few seats down there were a few girls, his friends were in between us and the girls...well he was very drunk and didn't realize I could hear and he said to his friend, keep my girl busy, then turns back around and starts talking to the girl on the other side of his friends, all I heard him say was "what are you drinking.." after that he turned and realized I saw the whole thing, he was drunk so he was bad at covering it up and said he was just asking what she was drinking.
Well now he says he knows what he did was wrong and he just felt that I was pulling away from him recently, and that maybe we can start fresh and its the first time something like this happened...

2007-11-21 00:59:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

have you ever liked a guy and wanted to tell him but never got the courage to do so?

I did, i had the hugest crush on this guy and i was almost 100% sure he felt the same... and i still am... but since none of us both never had the guts to tell eachother how we felt.. (and trust me we had countless "moments"... that we could of) we missed the chance of ever knowing... do i regret not telling him yes, and im going to but im also scared of putting myself in a vulnerable situation where the person who i care about the most may end up hurting me.. and there is always that chance... and then again if you dont risk you get swalloed up by life... i go by that motto... so... whats you guys advise on this? how should i say it? ... have you ever been in a simiular situation?...

and no one could really say no because we all liked a guy, whether we approched him or not we have all wanted at some point in our lives to tell him... so ya i know there are gonna be the girls who say well usually a guy asks me out.. and ya that happens to me alot... but usually its because they ...

2007-11-21 00:58:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

If I use an effective, natural bleaching cream for a year or two, could I lighten enough shades to look like a tanned white?

I doubt it'd be dangerous if I picked one with natural ingredients instead of drugs like hydroquinine and coupled it with a moisturizing cream to counter the drying roughing effects.

This is what I look like. I'm actually darker because of all the light in the picture.

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=REBSS8B&key=BSP

I'm going to do it whether you approve or not, so try to help. :)

2007-11-21 00:56:39 · 10 answers · asked by VV 1

should I ask him out? do guys like when a girl asks them out?

There is this guy in my acting workshop that I really like. and last week he was acting like he likes me too, like putiing his arm around my shoulder and squeezing me, leaning aginst me and sitting very close. I want to get to know him better, but I'm not sure if I should make the first move or wait for him to do it. any opinions? also he is about 9, almost 10 years older than me.

2007-11-21 00:55:26 · 10 answers · asked by lovelyladypoet 3

sometimes a girl's face is considered cute, rather than pretty, and vice versa. so which one do you prefer?

2007-11-21 00:51:48 · 12 answers · asked by heartiful 3

Me and my fiancee have been together for five years, he is a very good person but sometimes a little cheap and machista. He treats me nicely most of the time but sometimes i wish he wasn't so cheap, he doesn't have a reason to be it cause he makes a lot of money and i am a very good girlfriend. We broke up two weeks ago and he has been calling me nonstop, saying he loves and asking for a chance, that he'll do everything in his power to change, cause he wants to be wih me and no one else. I love him, he sent me flowers to work yesterday and everything. Should I expect him to change?

2007-11-21 00:51:47 · 12 answers · asked by schedar21 2

i want to like him but i also don't but yuh idk what doi you

2007-11-21 00:48:44 · 3 answers · asked by tamcaron 1

Ok, me and her have been friends for about 3 years. Like really good friends though, we always help each other with there relationships problems. I dont know if i ask her out, and she says no that could be bad for our freindship. What should i do ask her, or just keep being friends??

2007-11-21 00:48:10 · 10 answers · asked by A-dog 1

What is the best way to tell a guy you like him? Guys: how do YOU like a girl to tell you she likes you?

Do you like it when she says it to your face, writes a note, gets a friend to tell you, etc.....

Thanks! :D

2007-11-21 00:45:07 · 4 answers · asked by Jen P 1

i was seeing someone for a while but we were very good friends before this happened. he decided hed rather have me as a friend forever than to keep things going cos he said he knows it would go wrong and we'd end up hating each other. This was in July, recently he has told me he would like to try things again but is too scared it wouldn't work. I'm trying to persuade him to give it a go because I really like him and we have been friends for years so in my eyes, whatever happens I really don't see us ever hating each other....do you think he will ever come round to the idea?

2007-11-21 00:43:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay here goes, She has never met either one of us in person. She was involved with him three months before she met me. She was in love with him and then he wanted her to find a man to play with them both. I am the man that she found. SInce then her and I have talked for seven months and have become very close. The other man who is married also, has not been doing so well with her and they are only talking on IM and text for the last few months. She really cares for me alot. I really care for her alot. She and I are very open sexually and want to experience alot, but be safe. He wants to be apart of a threesome with us. So both the mens roles have changed. She used to be very much inlove with him and did anything he wanted, she would do anything he asked. Okay so now he is asking to be involved with both of us and I dont know what to do. I know she has feelings still for him and gets really turned on by him, she says it will only be sexual fun with him. Do I let this threesome happen

2007-11-21 00:43:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

...because they got your number off of a bathroom wall?

How'd it work out? Still together?

2007-11-21 00:43:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance and I are having fights for a month now. He's in UK, I'm in Japan. I love him, but I have a work I really adore, and I must quit the job if I'll be with him.
Only thing I'm asking now is to please wait till next August, when I can finish my project now. He says that's too long, and he feels I'm choosing work over him, which is not what I'm doing. I just want him to know my passion for this oppertunity, but because he's a contracter, I think he doesn't understand. He says he can't wait, and will be now or never...I was shocked.
My best friend EX really wants to get back with me, and I honestly know we share the shame value in everything in life. Now I think I might ment to be with this guy rather than my fiance.
But I do have strong feeling for my fiance...I'm in a total reck.
How can I aproach my fiance now? Should I just forget about all of my passion for him? I don't know what to do...

2007-11-21 00:42:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dont think i love him but i dont want to hurt him? What should i do...to tell him in a nice way?

2007-11-21 00:38:14 · 11 answers · asked by no name 3

i mean i think that he flirts with me and stuff but he is mean to othe people and i do not want to go out with him if he is going to me mean to me. but i think i like himm?????

2007-11-21 00:38:11 · 8 answers · asked by tamcaron 1

2007-11-21 00:38:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is a girl on a dating site who lives in the same town as me and it looks like someone who worked at mc donalds were I work. When I told a manager who knows her he said it could well be her. he said shes on face book and im a member of face book. sould I talk to her on face book or not?or just drop it and forget about it? and stop being silly and daft? and do more usefull things than sending people messages on face book? and grow up? and stop being childish and pafetic? and be more sensable? and act my age and stop being a kid? and stop being so stupid as to sending messages on facebook? and get a life?

2007-11-21 00:25:10 · 6 answers · asked by Phillip K 1

shes leaving the country in two weeks. we have never met. i asked her to meet, she says right now she cant (as her mom is not allowing her even to step out alone). but before leaving the country she surely will. i am confused. i caught her flirting with other guys twice. she says "i luv u" to them, offers kisses (all this jst on the record, off the record it might be 10 times more). we have been speaking since a year on telephone, almost over nights. when she convinces me that she loves only me, i feel like getting convinced, but what about the proofs i got in real of her character. i cant love two women in one life(there has never been anyone i loved be4, if its her then shes gonna be first one). if i agree to her love then its gonna be forever, but what if she is just flirting around with me too like she is doing with others...and since a year why she didnt even met me once...though she says she loves me more than anything on earth, more than her dad. she is 16, i am 20.

2007-11-21 00:24:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I saw my crush whom just happens to be a college professor the other day for the 1st time in like five months. When I saw him he kept staring at me and blushing. It was like he was in a trance when he staring. He was acting all flustered and stuff and yet he was with some other girl. It looked like he didn't care he was with her because I was there. In the end she left him and he was standing in front of me and staring at me/checking me out. His face was also red. The I saw my crush again 1 month later and he was blushing a heck of a lot. He also smiled at me and he raised his eyebrow. Plus his eyes got wide and he face got beat red when he realized it was me and then his eyes looked a little blurry after that when he saw me. He also had some gleam in his eyes. Then he was just looking at me a lot and he was stuttering and flustered. What does this mean? My friend said he was also amused and pleased to see me. So anyways he had me

2007-11-21 00:23:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi! I really, really like this guy who's 39, that I have a professional relationship with. I am almost 26. I asked him out by saying I wanted to get to know him better, and that I think we could be really good friends, and he agreed to go out with me for coffee. Of course, I am excited and nervous to be seeing him outside the office. I've been pretty good at flirting with him subtly, and I'm pretty sure he's flirted with me a couple times in the office. But I really want to be more than friends with this man. On our date, should I just be honest and let him know I like him as more than a friend or would that be way too bold of me? I've also been considering, if the oportunity presents itself on our date, to give him a quick kiss (on the mouth, of course) so instead of saying I like him, I would be showing him... Or do I stay on the "just friends" path and let him make the first move? Thanks for all your help!!!

2007-11-21 00:22:01 · 4 answers · asked by ? 5

this girls said this to me in a text.
'i think ur a very nice looking guy...pretty smile :) '
what exactly does she mean by it?

2007-11-21 00:19:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Did/do the risks worry you? How do you feel about it now? Did it hit the spot? Has your partner find out? Is it still going on?

2007-11-21 00:11:42 · 12 answers · asked by nickywalesgal 2