i mean i think that he flirts with me and stuff but he is mean to othe people and i do not want to go out with him if he is going to me mean to me. but i think i like himm?????
2007-11-21 00:38:11 · 8 answers · asked by tamcaron 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him that yer not ready for a serious relationship
2007-11-21 00:47:28 · answer #1 · answered by ★HigHTƹcH★ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've seen how he treats other people so do you think he'll be any different to you? At first he may start out being nice and doing all that fun "stuff" just so he won't initially come off as a jerk and spoil any chances he may have with you. But once things get going where you two become familiar with each other, he could end up treating you like all the rest. It might be wise to be careful with someone like him who openly displays having a mean streak and who you aren't quite sure if you like. In time you're apt to find out how you really do feel about him which may end up not how you were hoping for.
2007-11-21 01:16:04 · answer #2 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's very good that you are using your head to think out the situation. well, you really can't tell if he's going to be mean to you. Here's the thing, if you go out with him, and even if he's already your bf, you can always break-up. And don't go shy on breaking-up. Don't be afraid to push him away. Because that is the reason why couples, before getting married were bfs and gfs. Because the whole bf-gf thing is a sort of "trial" stage, where you get to be together and enjoy each other's company with the possibility of splitting up just in case you suddenly feel that he's not for you anymore. I mean, don't be prejudiced against him that he might be mean to you, but also, more importantly, assess the situation. Do you think he WILL be mean to you? Is he worth it? Hey, if you like a guy, you don't ask questions. If you like him, you like him. If you have doubts about your feelings (not about the quality of the guy), well then, i believe we have a problem..
2007-11-21 00:48:29 · answer #3 · answered by nj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really likes you and really cares then he would show no type of disrespect to you. Sometimes a boi shows different sides to him to impress people around him. But in this world you shouldnt have to please no one.I dont know this boi so I cant really say that he wont be mean to you. But if you like him as much as you say you do then when you are in the relationship with him and his attitude started to get shady and he becomes extremely mean towards you then you should put your foot down and let him know that he will not treat you like that.So at least give him a chance.
2007-11-21 00:45:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're so right to trust your instincts. Go out with him by all means, but at the first sign of him being nasty in your presence (to you or anyone else) just get up and walk out. He'll get the message.
2007-11-21 00:46:39 · answer #5 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. u cant not know whether u SHUD like him... if the feeling is there its there its not a choice question.. if he likes u too i dont think he be mean to u. and if uu like him. i tihnk u shud give this relationship a try.. cuz u cud probably change him u know into a better and nicer man =)
2007-11-21 00:43:14 · answer #6 · answered by A A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you like him but you should also consider how he acts towards other people. im sure many people will react when you enter into a relationship with him considering how he has been mean to them.
2007-11-21 00:43:02 · answer #7 · answered by :) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you like mean guys, listen to your heart.
2007-11-21 00:43:49 · answer #8 · answered by Clayton S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋