Hi! I really, really like this guy who's 39, that I have a professional relationship with. I am almost 26. I asked him out by saying I wanted to get to know him better, and that I think we could be really good friends, and he agreed to go out with me for coffee. Of course, I am excited and nervous to be seeing him outside the office. I've been pretty good at flirting with him subtly, and I'm pretty sure he's flirted with me a couple times in the office. But I really want to be more than friends with this man. On our date, should I just be honest and let him know I like him as more than a friend or would that be way too bold of me? I've also been considering, if the oportunity presents itself on our date, to give him a quick kiss (on the mouth, of course) so instead of saying I like him, I would be showing him... Or do I stay on the "just friends" path and let him make the first move? Thanks for all your help!!!
2007-11-21 00:22:01 · 4 answers · asked by ? 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK..It's good that your both old enough to not have to play some of the games the teens do...First Wait and see how the date is going before you say anything definite.
If the date going well and you still want to really see him on a personal level, then by all means give him a kiss. men in are middle 30's and up have finally figured out by then that does not mean you want to jump into bed,It just means your interested..
2007-11-21 00:30:39 · answer #1 · answered by Bill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not 35+ but I think the best course of action is to tread lightly. You have a professional relationship with this person and, for that reason, you want to leave an out. If you're too direct, it will be uncomfortable. Just take it slowly, have fun and see where it goes. He's a grown man, he knows what's up.
2007-11-21 00:32:57 · answer #2 · answered by rachel m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi honey! He is experienced and I will suggest that you should tell him right away as it will be appropriate and not bold in our atmosphere.
Kissing on the mouth is something more bold than that of telling him the truth.
One thing that there is no alternative of experience so you will most likely to have a passionate lover full of expertise if he agrees.
Make your love know you love him or like more than those of frndz
2007-11-21 00:38:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think you should ask his wife. She'll know what your best approach should be.
2007-11-21 02:39:08 · answer #4 · answered by lunatic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋