Okay here goes, She has never met either one of us in person. She was involved with him three months before she met me. She was in love with him and then he wanted her to find a man to play with them both. I am the man that she found. SInce then her and I have talked for seven months and have become very close. The other man who is married also, has not been doing so well with her and they are only talking on IM and text for the last few months. She really cares for me alot. I really care for her alot. She and I are very open sexually and want to experience alot, but be safe. He wants to be apart of a threesome with us. So both the mens roles have changed. She used to be very much inlove with him and did anything he wanted, she would do anything he asked. Okay so now he is asking to be involved with both of us and I dont know what to do. I know she has feelings still for him and gets really turned on by him, she says it will only be sexual fun with him. Do I let this threesome happen
2007-11-21 00:43:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're married. So, no. He also married - you never said about her. This is an extremely complicated situation and if you go ahead with it, it is only going to mess with your head, like it is doing now. Please cut your ties and concentrate on your own marriage. If I have read this the wrong way and you're single, I apologise. If you are, get more involved in things going on around you and maybe you will meet someone genuine there. This gives me bad vibes. Don't do it.
2007-11-21 00:48:25 · answer #1 · answered by Cat burgler 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no! IF she insisted on having threesome with you it only means that she doesnt care about your feelings and that she prioritizes the other guy coz shell do everything the other guy wants even to put herself in a serious and disgusting situation/position. although youre open to sexual things, its ok, its normal, but if you love her, you will respect her. The other guy surely doesnt love her (maybe just infatuated) because you wont engage to those kind of things especially when theres a third party involved (and that is you). if you want her, keep her to yourself (sexually). maybe the other guy is a pervert or something thats why he wants to have a piece of you and her.
2007-11-21 01:01:43 · answer #2 · answered by ~tulips~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all no body from either side is in love. I called lust. You are married and the other man is married. Now you guys have talking for months are either of you willing to leave your spouse for this woman? Do your self and your family a favor and stop e-mailing this women, besides if she's willing to have sex with both of you that just tells me she is a whore..stay away from her..
2007-11-21 01:24:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell yes! Have some fun, a threesome is not about love, it's about having fun. It's about raw physical pleasure. Experience it all, you and she and he will have a great time. You don't have to worry about her leaving you for him, he's married, remember? Let yourself go, enjoy!
2007-11-21 00:51:54 · answer #4 · answered by Ben Dover 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you're not comfortable with this. You love her, but she can't be exclusive. I think you might be better off just walking away from this.
2007-11-21 00:51:24 · answer #5 · answered by Orla C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no you and her, end of the story.
2007-11-21 00:49:04 · answer #6 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think your retarded for havin to ask
2007-11-21 00:50:35 · answer #7 · answered by pimpsickle337 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋