Me and my fiancee have been together for five years, he is a very good person but sometimes a little cheap and machista. He treats me nicely most of the time but sometimes i wish he wasn't so cheap, he doesn't have a reason to be it cause he makes a lot of money and i am a very good girlfriend. We broke up two weeks ago and he has been calling me nonstop, saying he loves and asking for a chance, that he'll do everything in his power to change, cause he wants to be wih me and no one else. I love him, he sent me flowers to work yesterday and everything. Should I expect him to change?
2007-11-21 00:51:47 · 12 answers · asked by schedar21 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yea. give him another chance.
you've been through a lot, after all. i mean, you were together for five years so there's still a lot of you that's there with him. and you couldn't expect him to move on that easily, right?
so there. give him another chance. ;) good luck
2007-11-21 00:59:18 · answer #1 · answered by :) 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Men dont change after the age of 3
2007-11-21 01:20:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People change only if they want to. You can't force a person to change. But being cheap isn't bad. I'm not sure if you'd want to change that about him. It could work out for the best if he's a penny pincher, especially if you like to spend.
I helped my husband change because he wanted too. I was there to support him in changing his ways. But I never forced him to because then it wouldn't have worked, I believe.
2007-11-21 00:58:29 · answer #3 · answered by Pris S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A man only will change if he really wants to and it's rare when he does. It's a man thing. He will tell you anything you want to hear so he can get what he wants but in the long run he won't change
2007-11-21 01:03:48 · answer #4 · answered by John S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you gown that way for male interest, then you definately're a tramp for dressing that way once you 2 are "mutually". in case you're no longer that into the relationship, do no longer substitute. in case you have pledged your coronary heart to this guy, positioned on what you like whilst he's around and say you gown that way for him. Tone it down slightly whilst the two one in each and every of you're aside so he does not think of you are attempting to get extra male interest.
2016-10-17 14:51:10 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're saying it like men are dogs. Well, some are. But you got to give this guy a chance. Don't you think you were harsh? Who knows? He can turn out to be a great guy.
2007-11-21 00:54:51 · answer #6 · answered by I Pity You Fool!™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your only problem is that he is cheep? i bet he has a pretty nice savings account. that will be nice when he buys a house and you hardly have a payment... i doubt he will change but if thats your only problem with the relationship, i say get over it and if you cant, move on.
2007-11-21 00:58:31 · answer #7 · answered by Andrew M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WTF? Maybe he grew up more like me. POOR as sh*t. It sounds like you only care about his money and not him. I do not think you deserve either. That is what it sounds like.
He wont change. He was putting away savings, saving for your future together. Men want to be providers and their biggest fear is not having the resources to do it.
Thats just awful. I can not believe I read what you wrote.
2007-11-21 00:56:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt break up with someone because they are cheap. maybe they want money for when you guys retire. maybe he wants to buy you something special that you really like or maybe pay for your wedding. Who knows guys like to save money for when they need it not on every stupid little thing you /them see.
2007-11-21 00:57:24 · answer #9 · answered by Carly-Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people can change and sometimes for the better.
maybe give him a second chance.
2007-11-21 01:00:40 · answer #10 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋