Singles & Dating - 21 November 2007

I am 34 and constantly have younger women who are in their early or mid 20's flirting with me. I have a good career, college degree and do very well in my job.
But when I was in my 20's women never looked at me.
Fortunately when I met my wife , she looked at me and we have been married for 8 years.
However, in the last year or so, I get hit on a lot and I get flirted with a lot by younger women. I also have lost 50 # in the last year and have hit the GYm more and I look good.
I feel like a new man.
But what is this fascination by women in their 20's with them obsessing over men in their 30's.

2007-11-21 15:03:51 · 38 answers · asked by polar bear 1

i need help with this girl who is being difficult-- today is my 18th birthday and this girl has made me feel very sad can someone please post their screen name if you want to try and help me out?

2007-11-21 15:03:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

What DO you like in a girl (anything from clothes to makeup;idk)
What DON'T you like?

2007-11-21 15:03:25 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I broke up with her telling her it wasnt fair for her because I knew she got upset I didnt have a lot of time to spend with her and that I wasnt sure I felt the same anymore but I wanted to remain friends if she could and maybe things would work out later. Initially she was fine, she was crying but not angry. The next 2 or 3 weeks she continued to get angry because couldnt understand how I loved her one day and not the next, how I seemed not to be affected by it all and kept lashing out/insulted a few times. I finally cut contact and said you do the same thing over and over, im not trying.She begged me not to break contact. I regret how I did it because I blamed her. I was her first love and first guy she slept with. She was also devastated when she found out 3 weeks post break up I hooked up with some other girl. I want to contact her and apologize. What do I do? I feel so bad. Was I a jerk?

2007-11-21 15:03:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to find another way of having women catch me naked. I have left the door unlocked in coed dressing rooms before just as a dare to myself. I need another way

2007-11-21 15:02:58 · 7 answers · asked by cuttlefishkarl 1

does anyone know any corporations that donate money to causes??

2007-11-21 15:01:44 · 9 answers · asked by Hannah 3

This guy I like was supposed to come to my house to hang out with me and mutual friends from work for a drink. He was all for it when we left work but he didn't show up. I told my friend that was my sign that he wasn't interested or he would have come.
The next work day he apologized for not coming & said he got home from work late (which I know is truthful) and said he made the mistake of going home and then crashed and had to work in the morning. He said he owed me twice now and said how about going out the next night instead (with the gang I assume- though he didn't specifically say that). I wasn't able to go the next night and nobody went out. Since then though he has mentioned a couple of times how he's sorry he missed it and has even teased me about a couple of things from the evening that he heard about.
Am I right to assume that his not coming is the "bigger" sign that he isn't interested or is his teasing me about it a good sign and I shouldn't give up? Whats my next move?

2007-11-21 15:00:52 · 3 answers · asked by jenny s 2

2007-11-21 14:58:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-21 14:56:14 · 13 answers · asked by Yayooxy 1

I said he doesnt need to know the exact # just that I KNOW I have no diseases. He argued that he does need to know because I could have slept with 50 guys and have stds.. I then told him that I could have slept with only 2 and caught 5 things. As long as i always used protection and have been tested and have nothing he doesnt need to know... right? Or wrong?

2007-11-21 14:55:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My guy is late thirties. We have been together for six months. I have tried to get him to tell me his history with past woman. He claims to have not been with anyone, with the exception of three woman this past year. He claims they are the only ones. I don't know if he only told me about them, because a freind told me about me about him having dated them or what.
How do you get a guy to tell you his history of past woman? He claims he was never gay. However, why does he say that he has never had a serious relationship before (outside of the other three, this past year, that two of which he claims, to only have kissed and nothing more).
He says that he never dated before that time.
How do I convince him to tell me his history? How do I know if he is being truthful?

2007-11-21 14:54:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

what makes you guys melt?

what feels the best to you?

2007-11-21 14:54:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just turned eighteen in October and I have been dating a guy since September. We have been through our trails; fought and still can't help but rekinder our differences in 5 minutes or less.

My family members have no idea how serious we are in our relationship. I'm not ever really around any of my family members anymore since I'm busy I go to college and work all the time, but I still keep my residency at home. I haven't yet bought my guy to see my parents or even meet him. Is that something you have to do? I just don't want my parents judging since he's not "real" city more country then anything and he is a full-time student at a university here. He doesn't have very much money, yet I could give a fly.. my parents are ceo's and a supertintent of my local school system in my area.
I'm bringing him to Thanksgiving and driving 45 minutes to see my cousin. I'm driving my boyfriend since he doesn't have very much money and his car won't last. Should I tell my parents I am serious?

2007-11-21 14:53:58 · 3 answers · asked by Helen 1

heard some guys say that that's not a lot. i personally thought it was a decent number..

2007-11-21 14:52:12 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-21 14:51:20 · 1 answers · asked by ames 3

Ok some girl that i kind of like and might ask out text me "Hey. I hope you have a great thanksgiving!!! Im absolutely grateful for you!" ok does that mean anything or is she just being nice... lol i know i sound stupid asking this but plz answer

2007-11-21 14:36:54 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

If she's involved with someone else, would he wait around or would he just give up? I'm just curious about how guys think and wondering if they pine sometimes for the object of their affection like girls do...

2007-11-21 14:34:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

WELL HE WANTS SEX!were both 15 and i am going to his house in 4 hrs when my parents go to sleep plzzzz help me...i really like him and i think i might LOVE him i need help

2007-11-21 14:33:53 · 3 answers · asked by kiersten r 2

2007-11-21 14:25:12 · 6 answers · asked by Yayooxy 1

I broke up with her telling her it wasnt fair for her because I knew she got upset I didnt have a lot of time to spend with her and that I wasnt sure I felt the same anymore but I wanted to remain friends if she could and maybe things would work out later. Initially she was fine, she was crying but not angry. The next 2 or 3 weeks she continued to get angry because couldnt understand how I loved her one day and not the next, how I seemed not to be affected by it all and kept lashing out/insulted a few times. I finally cut contact and said I hated her. I regret that. I was her first love and first guy she slept with. She was also devastated when she found out 3 weeks post break up I hooked up with some other girl. I want to contact her and apologize. What do I do? I feel so bad.

2007-11-21 14:16:57 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

The girl i like umm well i know she likes me but she doesnt know that I like her back and were to shy to tell eachother that we like eachother. we do talk all the time though but we never get those words out. should i just go up and tell her or tell one of her friends or something like that?

2007-11-21 14:14:49 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like this guy called Danny 20 well i think i do but am always nervous round him and he talks about sex he never replies to my text wheneva i say lets meet him? But his Friend Jamie
texts me often and he tells me stuff like Danny is just after one thing he just users girls and stuff. I asked Danny about Jamie and he said he likes to get one over on him and Danny never texts me and Jamie does and he has a girl friend and Jamie 24 also texts my 14 year old cousin.

2007-11-21 14:10:44 · 16 answers · asked by finding_nemo500s 1

2007-11-21 14:09:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok I like this guy who knows from a friend some imes he acts like helikes me but then he acts like he does not whats up whith that . These are the signs that he shows me he does like me.
1.stares at me
2.toches my hand
3. walks by me allot
4.copys me
5. Makes me laugh
These are the signs that he does not like me
1.teases me
2.like says get out of the way or move it
3.ingores me
4.does not talk to me that much
So do you think he likes me

2007-11-21 14:07:29 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I went out with my ex on/off for 2 years I lost my virginity to him. he made me upset and I wasnt sure if i was even going out with him. I needed space which made him text me about once every week for 2 months he asked me to hang out but i said i was busy after that we didnt talk it and was if we were invisible. i broke the ice by later texting him hey congratulations on winning the game he replied right away saying thanks lol i saw you in the stands the next day i texted him about homework and he told me the homework as well as saying tell your mom i say hi. i thought things were off to a better start and decided to talk to him at school. i said i told my mom you said hi shes wondering how your doing he said oh tell her im doing good.the conversation lasted 5 seconds cause we each had to go opposite ways. i didnt hear from him for 3 days.he texted me about homework and then said he didnt see me at the game and wanted to know if I'll be going to the game this Saturday. Move on?

2007-11-21 14:06:22 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

what do guys talk about at sleepovers?
girls they like? what?!
i'm talking about guys like 11-15.
do they talk about how much they like that one girl,
or how pretty that person is like girls do?
just wondering....

2007-11-21 14:05:18 · 24 answers · asked by Jessica M 2

im 16 and me and my boyfriend want to have sex please dont lecture me but how do i buy condoms without my parents knwing they'd flip...and i would try getting them free but im scared they'd get home before me one day and see the free trojan...any ideas?? thanks

also do you get weird looks if you buy them?????

2007-11-21 14:00:21 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've lied to my boyfriend about so many private, personal things, been caught, I promised him i wouldn't ever again, but i did again .. sorry i can't go into detail what they were.

but he can't hardly speak to me, i dont know how to explain myself to him, i do it and he doesnt understand.
and he said he hates me right now
and that i should choose what i want, my old life or him.
i told him i wanted him
and he doesn't believe me or something, so i'm extremely upset
he got off the phone with me to talk to some other girl, probably about me, and whats going on
which is only making me feel worse

I'm probably going to get high, I just don't know if i can handle all of this high
but i cant hand it being sober.

I realy have noone to talk to about this
so I don't expect help. I'm kind of just venting I guess

2007-11-21 13:54:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

if a guy was refused sex from a girl twice already like they started then she stopped him what would make him come back for a third time?????

2007-11-21 13:51:17 · 28 answers · asked by Dangerously Gorgeous 2

2007-11-21 13:51:16 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous