2007-11-21 12:09:25 · 32 answers · asked by Thugish 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
are u sure that he is not into u?
2007-11-21 12:12:08 · answer #1 · answered by I♥eDwArd 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
A word of advice - Don't ever get involved with a co-worker. The relationship typically ends with someone getting hurt and then it makes working together pretty awkward.
2007-11-21 12:12:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. Not such a good idea getting involved with a co worker in the first place. If things don't work out then it will be tense to work with that person.
2007-11-21 12:13:34 · answer #3 · answered by Mamamia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you want to be "seconds" far a while--I would absolutely move on. There are so many good people out there looking for the right person --rather than get involved in a triangle---move on.--Also--Never get involved with a co-worker. I worked on the 72nd floor of the former WTC in NYC--got involved in that triangle with someone working on the 16th floor--and it became a nightmare when we broke up--for whatever reason--All 55,000 people working in the WTC knew about our relationship--something you don't want to happen to you in the workplace--move on--trust me--remember those words?? good luck.
2007-11-21 12:19:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forget it.
Romances with co-workers always turn out badly. Just steer clear of it.
2007-11-21 12:15:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may have to ease your way into this situation. If you get it wrong, you have two people mad at you. Find away to get close to him, lunch or what ever you can and just talk . you could ask if he has been clubbing, or whatever you think of and try to get the information about him and the other person as innocently as you can, be subtle.
2007-11-21 12:20:10 · answer #6 · answered by redd headd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the relationship with the other co-worker is a casual thing -- go for it.
2007-11-21 12:12:59 · answer #7 · answered by Failing ECO 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Be a friend. (How close are you to him and the person he likes? BTW, how do you know that he "digs" this person?) Keep it simple. Be yourself. Ask them to lunch every so often and see how things progress -or not. I always prefer to keep my end casual. I really enjoy guys coming after me vs. the other way around. But that's just me.
Also, ask yourself "would I date me?" If not.....there might be some things you should work on......
2007-11-21 12:15:49 · answer #8 · answered by caeli 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you know for a FACT he's into someone else, wait it out. If that doesn't work out then pursue him. But he wont give you the attention you want or deserve if his focus is on someone else.
2007-11-21 12:13:02 · answer #9 · answered by Thirty-five 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The co-worker is not emotionally available.
Don't pursue this interest.
2007-11-21 12:12:00 · answer #10 · answered by Stuart 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Great, you go for it, it ends and who is going to leave your workplace, you? Be sure before you start anything with this person.
2007-11-21 12:24:16 · answer #11 · answered by femkim62 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋