My best friend thinks my B-f is ugly, she told me if I don't break up with him she will not be my friend any more but I like going out with him and being friends with her.
HELP
2007-11-21 12:19:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should probably settle on a happy medium. Break up with the boyfriend (cuz he's ugly) and dump your friend (cuz she's judgemental). Don't judge me cuz I spell "cuz" c-u-z.
2007-11-21 12:24:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, she is stupid. Sorry about that, but she can't decide that someone isn't good by looks. She's not a very good friend. If you love being with this person, then it's up to you if you wanted to break up with him. I had to deal with the same thing. I hated to break up with someone because of their looks. He didn't deserve it. Good luck with your friend and your boyfriend.
Hint: If your friend's doing this to you she is NOT a good FRIEND!!
2007-11-21 12:25:53 · answer #2 · answered by crazymama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend is telling you to break up wit him becuz of appearance then she is not a true friend. Now, if there was something going on in your relationship that is hurting one of you then, yes, she can say something. But if its just becuz of his appearance then shes being really unreasonable. tell her its your bf and your life. If she wants to miss out on a friend then thats her problem. Do wat you feel is right. Not your friends. It only makes the problems worse.
Good luck! trust your heart!... but also use your head.
2007-11-21 12:24:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out if there is another reason that she doesn't like him. If it is purely because she believes he is unattractive, then you do not want a friend like her. If she acts offended when you ask her if there is another reason, then there is probably something else going on there. Try and find out what. Then talk to her about it and ask her to reconsider, unless she genuinely has a good reason to dislike him.
2007-11-21 12:24:50 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go with your best friend because bf's change very quickly when your best friend can be your friend for the rest of your life. Unless you really like ur bf.
2007-11-21 12:24:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell ur friend to get over it or dont tlk to u . y should u have to chose between ur bf and ur friend. thats stupid if that person was realy ur friend it woulndt matter how ugly ur bf is lol shes still b there for u that aint a tru friend.
2007-11-21 12:26:09 · answer #6 · answered by katie h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was really a true friend she wouldn't mind who you were dating as long as you liked him and he treated you well. Who does she think she is dictating who you date and who you don't?. I would say stay with him as long as he keeps you happy and tell your "best friend" that if she can't respect your decisions, she's not worth calling a friend.
2007-11-21 12:24:55 · answer #7 · answered by Andy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK woowowowowwow thats soo gay..never do that thats sooo wrong ..someone else telling you that u cant date a guy u like ..nahh f*ck tht ,, forget about her date the guy!<3
2007-11-21 12:25:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's hiding a secret about him or about her and him. Dig.
If she's normally very controlling like that, you need to find a better friend.
2007-11-21 12:27:33 · answer #9 · answered by metalnobody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not really ur friend if shes going to make you choose over her or him. thats childish of her. hes your boyfriend and there to make YOU happy. hes not dating her so who cares what she thinks. if she wants to stop being your friend because of that then let her go, shes not a good friend if she doesnt see happiness he brings you.
2007-11-21 12:23:56 · answer #10 · answered by Fit 4 A King 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋