Singles & Dating - 3 November 2007

About 2 months ago, a guy approached me, gave me his number, and called/texted me a lot. He would hang out with me on campus and give me these extra long hugs. I also heard that he was telling his friends that he was interested in me. His friends even asked me about him, called me his girl, etc. These past 2 weeks have been weird. One day while eating lunch, we were flirting like usual and he goes flirting with another girl and leaves me alone. Pissed that he might be a player, I still give him a hug goodbye and leave. I avoid him for a whole week but during that week is when I found out he was interested in me. So, I figured I'd give him another chance. I saw him last week, he flirted with me like usual and asked me to give him a massage. BUT he doesn't call anymore, only replies to my texts when I text him first, and hasn't replied to my facebook message when he does to everyone else. I don't want to play games & am very confused. I think I just want to move on completely. Thoughts?

2007-11-03 06:41:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-03 06:35:22 · 9 answers · asked by alexanter t 1

He tells me he likes me and then tells me to go on breaks. I told him this one day because he seriously pissed me off "all I have to say is that im tired of you being a jerk to me. I don't deserve it. So if thats how its gonna be go find someone else and make them feel like ****." He was like "idk u called me a jerk and id prolly am ..u prolly wont want to speak 2 me again and thats fine ... only thing is dat if u thing i was playing with u thiz whole time well i wasnt ok .,... and u wonder y i was testin u , well beacuse i wanted thiz relationship to be perfect and i wanted to know how ur reactions will be and ya.. well ima watch tv cuz i feel very badd and im sry again" What does it mean. I really like him but I seriously don't know what to do anymore.

2007-11-03 06:34:33 · 2 answers · asked by Pwizzle 2

I will not kiss my lover since I received dentures as I feel that his tounge will feel the hard plastic in my mouth and turn him off. What tips can you give me on keeping my sex life confident. He says he loves me with our without my own teeth but I've only had them a couple of weeks and am scared to have him put his tounge in my mouth.

2007-11-03 06:34:02 · 6 answers · asked by Ms. Pretty P 2

I was nice to him like i treated him like a normal person. other peple are mean to him or treat him like a baby. so now he likes me and he follows me around. the truth is he really creeps me out because he looks physically scary and i don't even like to talk to him because there's not much you can talk about with him. i just talked to him in the beginning because i felt kind of bad for him. well now he won't leave me alone and i try to avoid him but somehow he manages to find me.

i don't know what to do. i don't want to hurt his feelings, but i really do not like to be around him.

why does this always happen to me? these guys i'm just nice to start stalking me. and i dont know how to get them to stop. so could you please tell me????

2007-11-03 06:32:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Sorry this is going to be kind of long. Well first off I like this one guy named Drew & he even told me he likes me alot. Well I use to be best friends with his ex but now she hates my guts. Well yesterday he said he wants to go out with me but he doesn't want Ashlee (his ex) to find out cause he still wants to be friends with her. She cheated on him almost 3 times and when he found that out he said he didn't want to be friends with her at all but now he's saying he wants to be friends with her. I told him she's eventually going to find out if him & I go out. I'm just afraid if him & I start going out he's going to be cheating on me with her. And another thing is when we're in 2nd period he's all up on me like hugging me & stuff but in 4th period he acts like I'm not even alive. So what should I do? One more thing... I like this other guy Edmin who is friends with my friend Crystal.

2007-11-03 06:31:57 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi... Im a 23 year old female. I was dating a guy for about a year. We had lots of fun together and really enjoyed spending time together. He was nice.. but sometimes he would just change out of nowhere and act weird or just stop calling like the usual. He would get cold feet. I told him many times that I couldnt be with a person like that. I wanted someone stable. He always apologozed and came back to me. but the last break up we had was because I told him I wouldnt tolerate his behavior and that its not gonna work out. So we both promised eachother that we wouldnt call one another... two weeks after that I left for a vacation for a month. When I came back he called me right away telling me he missed me and that he's going on a vacation. lol.... He then called me from the vacation a couple of times and i told him to stop calling. So he txted me a week ago saying I was on his mind and that he loves me and wants what makes me happy.. I have no idea what this guy wants !!

2007-11-03 06:29:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

8. What color hair do you like better on girls?
a. Blonde
b. Brunette
c. Red
d. Black

9. What color eyes do you like the best?
a. Blue
b. Green
c. Hazel
d. Brown

10. Would you rather have a girlfriend who is…
a. Five pounds over weight
b. Five pounds under weight

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2007-11-03 06:24:35 · 7 answers · asked by Susan G 1

I have been using Answers for a longtime now and I just can't believe they do not have a answer section for SEX questions. Anybody else wonder this?. Really with it being one of the most talked about subjects you figure it would be on this.

2007-11-03 06:24:22 · 1 answers · asked by Livinrawguy 7

Me and my boyfriend started dating 3 weeks after he broke up with his ex girlfriend. We have been together 2 months. I know it seems childish but considering him and his ex are not friends, I would like him to remove their photos from public view (facebook and myspace) Pictures of her laying on him and on his lap are just uneccessary now that me and him are together. Am I overreacting? What bothers me is ive seen him look at them so he clearly knows their still there. Ive asked him and he says he doesnt feel like removing them but I feel like if he cared about me he'd have no issue with it

2007-11-03 06:21:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok I love my old girl and think she's hot. When we are intimate I begin kissing her legs all the way up and skip the obvious and begin kissing her tummy, torso etc. And she gets really upset after cause she wants me to tame Toni the tiger with my ice cream cone taster. I'm not being a tease I love kissing her, but I can never bring myself to delve into the jungles of Panama. Can we work past this? What do I do?

2007-11-03 06:18:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok I've been wronged by others so many times in the past. Its not only friends but relatives as well. We don't know what happens tomorrow. SO if I ever become successful I know those people will try to contact me again and stuff... Everyone keeps telling me to forgive them but I can't, they'll just hurt me again. So why do a bunch of you guys online keep telling people to forgive? Do you know how hard it is? You ever been thru the same situations?!

No matter how many times your gonna tell me to forgive my past friends and relatives, I'm not. I just want to know why everyone is being hypocritical to tell me to be the nice guy again. Its like telling me to suicide.

Thanks for reading.

2007-11-03 06:13:08 · 40 answers · asked by Closed 5

I'm so in love with my boyfriend, and when we're together we're always happy. We have so much in common too, he's like my best friend and lover rolled into one.
But the only problem is that he's 19 years older than me..is this wrong?

2007-11-03 06:09:58 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok I saw a question about when did you first have sex.
And I saw people that said they first had sex at 11 and 12.
Do you feel cool doing it at that age..its not cool its gross.

2007-11-03 06:05:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

i resently met an 18 yr old senoir at school i am a freshman and he keep calling me and he walks me to my bus, i was wondering if you think this is an appropeate thing. cause i dk if i should trust an 18 yr old i mewan y would he have interest in me? please get back to me, he is really nice and sweet tlkin me i just dont know if he wants me just for sex or wants me for me.

2007-11-03 05:58:13 · 36 answers · asked by Sarah 1

appearence. what would you do to change it?

2007-11-03 05:57:59 · 30 answers · asked by louise d 6

So we broke up about almost three weeks ago after 2yr dating. My ex bf wasn't satisfied our relationship. He wanted to live for himself right now. I respect what he feels for his life, and so we broke up. He said I am the only one he can be honest. So we care each other, and met three times so far. Last time, he said he misses me, esp my smile, which actually made me satisfied. It might sound stupid, but that satisfaction made me think I should move on, and I was until last night.

I went to music show with my ex bf last night, and I am so depressed now. Reasons is he looked like he is completely got over me now, and ready for new life. I am a foreigner here, and told him that I might go back to my country for work, and he said nicely, "that sounds a good idea." That's it. I didn't reply anything. You know even friends would say they would miss me if I tell them I go back to my country. But he didn't and it hurt my feeling terribly.

Do men get over ex gf that easily?

2007-11-03 05:55:20 · 10 answers · asked by lime 1

My mom is a good person but she's starting to head down the wrong path. My mom and her boyfriend of 4yrs broke up about 6mths ago and ever since then she's been a single mother with just me. She is broke. She's also been dwelling about her ex and now she's trying to meet a new guy. So, far all she seems to meet are alcoholics and scums. She seems to feel desperate about meeting a guy that she doesn't care who shes meeting anymore. Now, she is dating losers and drinking and I dont know what to do. I pray for her and I try to encourage her but its not working. I mean she is not that out of control but soon she might be out of control. What should I do? Help please....

2007-11-03 05:52:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have just seen a profile on situk(sex in the uk) it was my boyfriends. I guessed the password and signed in. I seen a box he had ticked for one2one sex and an inbox full of unread messages dating bk from june this year. The profile only says his willing to travel, he has no photo and nothing typed on it. Im guessing he does not use it as the messages would be read. but the point is it hurts cos you think you know someone and when you see them on a site thats not really friendly i think and feel different about him. I dont wanna get involved with somone whos got dirty secrets and not to mention his on some other swinger/adult site saying his in to older women to have sex with to fill his fantasy, these profiles may well be from a long time ago, but what does that say about him, if his joined sites like that i think whats he doing now. Im not going to tell him i have seen this info, but im starting to question my trust for him and wonder about his hidden side i dont know about.

2007-11-03 05:52:26 · 9 answers · asked by ice_castles 2

I have been dating this guy for a while now, and he just asked me to be his girlfriend officially yesterday. I'm 21, he's 24 and he's very mature and everything I could ever ask for in a man.
I know it's incredibly shallow, but he's not very good looking. I feel like I should date someone "better" looking.... I know that sounds awful but it's true.
Is this a stupid reason to break up with someone? Am I a complete *****? He's even told me that he doesn't know what a girl like me is doing with him.
The final thing that's bothering me about this, is that I date to find a future husband. If I ever married him and had children, it scares me to think about what they may look like...

2007-11-03 05:49:03 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

There is this guy i like but i don't know if he likes me back. He stares at me sometimes and he pokes and plays around with me. He is friends with my ex (who apparently still likes me) and my ex was staring at me. The he told the guy i like something and the guy i like plus my ex were both staring at me. He talks to me and whenever he is looking at me and i look at him he looks away really fast and then looks at me again. And he sits next to me alot.

2007-11-03 05:47:37 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 16 havent lost it but my best friend did last weekend..... how old was your partner and did you regret it later??
<3

2007-11-03 05:46:47 · 36 answers · asked by coachxovuitton 3

It feels like there are lots of boys that are interested in me but are too intimidated or scared of rejection that they never ask me out directly. How can I make them be more...confident? I guess...
ps. I would never ask out a boy.

2007-11-03 05:46:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i'm just curious which one would be more "polite", or whatever to do. and, what would count as "making a move"?

2007-11-03 05:42:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like this girl and she is frfiendly towords me but how do i get her to like me like a boyfriend or something

2007-11-03 05:40:09 · 23 answers · asked by Joe M 1

Its a big problem in texas but for some reason i find myself always giving. There was this one guy that had a sign that said "i need a beer why lie" and i gave him money. I felt he was being honest and i liked that. Also when i give i feel like im going to get a blessing in return. Most of them but drubs a n boos so really i just im making the problem worst. What do you think about this?

2007-11-03 05:38:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay this girl likes me but i like another girl

i cant get with that girl yet so i want to try this one

how can i tell her we cant show our relationship at school and we can have fun afterschool?

also my friend liked her and talks alot of trash about her being dirty so i dont want him to see me with her

shes really hot but ive heard things abotu her from my friend that made me look at her a different way

2007-11-03 05:35:14 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am used to dating guys that are at least 6ft tall and well I feel like this huge giant with size 9 feet...oh gosh my feet may be the same size but hes like the nicest gentleman ever!!!

2007-11-03 05:30:04 · 52 answers · asked by Bella 1

2007-11-03 05:28:21 · 25 answers · asked by lab_rat 3

Homecoming tonight...freaking out because I'm a terrible dancer.

2007-11-03 05:23:29 · 12 answers · asked by Joe 1