Singles & Dating - 3 November 2007

Hi guys, well my bf and I have have been going out for close to a month now, and seriously i assumed he was a virgin. But the other day I asked him if he was, he told me he wasn't and he hadn't had sex since. It seems like he has been hurt by girls in the past. But now I feel so jealous or upset by the fact he isn't a virgin. I mean there is a four year difference so I can understand and everything. I don't know why i feel this way. We all have a past and everything and I hate how I have such strong feelings for him. He's a great guy and I'm really confused has ne1 else felt this way. When I told him i was a virgin he said that he completely respected me and told me it was a good thing. Help???

2007-11-03 20:18:04 · 4 answers · asked by Samiwa! 2

I’ve always had a special thing for MUCH older men. I’m 25 and really find men in their 40's to late 60's, attractive. It's almost like a fetish, except I don't NEED the man to be much older- it's just a special touch or thrill. Most of the men I find myself attracted to fall into this category. It’s really upsetting me because I am always attracted to these men & they are never attracted to me. It’s so frustrating to have this unfulfilled desire for so many years. I don’t like many people- period- and when I do, they are usually older, and they either find it taboo to be with me or they just don’t want me for some other reason. I thought older men were normally attracted to younger women, but the only ones who appear to be attracted to me are horribly sleazy. Aren’t there any older men who are decent guys, but are attracted to younger- but legally adult- women? I am starting to think the problem is me. Maybe I’m just so unattractive that at 25, I can’t attract men who are 65. *Sighs*

2007-11-03 19:33:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

it sure sums up my life.

2007-11-03 19:28:46 · 9 answers · asked by deliriousgrl89 1

I've heard some conflicting things about how men feel about sex. Men are supposedly good at separating emotion from sex and can have sex - and GREAT sex- without emotion or love, with someone they can't even stand. But then I hear stuff like that guys are bad at communicating their emotions or love for a girl, so they do it through sex to show their affection and adoration (I'm not making this up, I read it in Cosmo, a very reliable source of course! hah). Which is it? Can you really not feel any emotions for the person you're having sex with while doing it? Men are so good at separating sex from emotion, but are you good at combining them too? How does that work? Forgive me, I'm a lady who can't imagine having "hollow" sex, maybe it's just hormonal? lol. Just trying to understand men a little better. =)

2007-11-03 19:27:30 · 11 answers · asked by nightmare hippie girl 3

2007-11-03 19:26:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi I have a daughter and she has a crash on this boy in school and I was wondering ( for all those GIRL teenagers out there ) if anybody had any flirting info. Fell free to e-mail me at divadream14@yahoo.com just put Flirting info in the subjest line and thanks again.

Ashley S.

2007-11-03 19:20:51 · 2 answers · asked by Ashley S 1

2007-11-03 19:12:04 · 21 answers · asked by innocent 1

2007-11-03 19:08:39 · 10 answers · asked by Mariah 1

I sure have! Nothing more to this secret.

2007-11-03 18:48:29 · 6 answers · asked by genghis1947 4

is it something in the air/energy between two people or is it a hormone thing?

2007-11-03 18:40:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love her with everything but acording to Michigan law I am wrong in being with her. IS it wrong. What should I do?

2007-11-03 18:35:12 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

he said he loves me and is still not over her though but that this doesnt affect us.. meanwhile it does, its affecting my feelings and our relationship. he said shes messed up, a wh0re and that he doesn't want her back, but hes still in love with her. he said he just wants to be honest so its either hide it from me or let me know about this. his exact words were" but u gotta know that there was a girl before you and i dont think ill ever be over her" im like crying i really love him and i don't wanna leave him but i know hes gonna have feelings for her always. he said hes sorry he put me though this and that he didnt ask for it and i just have no idea of anything my heads too jumbled if that makes sense so someone please make sense of this situation and point me in the right direction..? <3thanks.

2007-11-03 18:31:47 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-03 18:27:26 · 21 answers · asked by helpless 1

So for the past 6 months, I'll be really obsessed with a guy, but as soon as I get together with him, I don't want him anymore
like, ovr the summer I had this guy and once I got him, we did all the physical stuff and then I was just done. he got all attached to me or whatever, and he was such a great guy, perfect all around, but I just wanted to run from him! and move on to other people.
also the guy before him, same thing. as soon as i kissed him, i was done. i wanted to move on.

why does this keep on happening? I'm afraid that it's going to eventually ruin my relationships later on. i'm already hesitant getting in a relationship now, because i'll probably fall into the same situation!
heeelllp

2007-11-03 18:19:34 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

and by one of the guys i mean someone who makes lewd jokes and can hang with the boys.

2007-11-03 18:12:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

What's the deal with that... i thought that was when you were 22 trying to get it on

2007-11-03 18:11:43 · 7 answers · asked by PurpleUmbrella 1

1.) A guy who put himself through college and works for a living and earns his own money. He is nice & polite and tries to be a good person and treats people with respect. Is into yoga, and Buddah. He is very responsible. He is intelligent and together lifewise and financially. Drives a nice car. Has a nice apartment. Doesn't drink or smoke or do drugs.

2.) A spoiled rotten brat who gets everything handed to him. He nevr really works for a living. He is irresponsible and wrecks cars a lot. His parents buy him a new one after he wrecks one. He was raised to beleive that he is better than evryone else and let's them know it. He is not very responsible with money his parents & grandmother buy him everything. He is violent and cruel to family members.

2007-11-03 18:08:30 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My guy friend does not live near me anymore because he moved. I have known him since I was two years old and i'm 16 now. We write letters to each other because seeing each other is kinda hard since he is too far away. I sent him some pictures just so that he would have them. He said that I look beautiful and that I am beautiful. He calls me baby-girl and other sweet names. Now he is always asking for more pictures. Why?

2007-11-03 18:06:38 · 1 answers · asked by *My_Oh_My* 2

I have kind of a dumb question can you be in love at a young age? and if the person tells you that they love you should you believe them?

2007-11-03 18:06:08 · 1 answers · asked by rockin_my_rattail 2

fights with her cos' he thinks she should pay for them too as they are so expensive

2007-11-03 17:58:56 · 24 answers · asked by PurpleUmbrella 1

example white skin blue eyes blonde hair

2007-11-03 17:56:33 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have alot of friends. I love having friends. They're all wonderful. But i have a dilemma. It seems as though every time a guy is interested, somehow it gets turned into friendship. They're always interested at first and then I'm a buddy. I'm like one of the guys. I feel as though if I come across too sexual, maybe I'll look like a tramp. I also think I'm afraid to get close because I don't want to get hurt. This may sound odd, but is there something I'm not doing right? Am I giving off the wrong vibe? I got out of a 5 year relationship last year and it's almost as though I've forgotten how to act in a flirtatious way. Any advice appreciated : ) I'm in my 20s btw. I'm not a teenager

2007-11-03 17:45:36 · 8 answers · asked by Answer me this 3

they always get caught. Then they lie even more saying things aren't good at home . They make people feel bad for then and its all her fault.

2007-11-03 17:45:32 · 4 answers · asked by inyourwilddreamzz 1

like something that would make you think twice about him.

And what do you expect that the guy should do but is unsure how you would react to it? from experience of course, if that made any sence.

2007-11-03 17:44:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok, I reallly like this guy I sit by in math class and he is sooo sweet. He usually flirts with me showing that he likes me but he hasent asked me out. I want him to know that I like him and that i want him to ask me out but without telling him.

How do I hint to him that i really want him to ask me out!!!

HELP!!!,
PLEASE!!!

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2007-11-03 17:42:35 · 4 answers · asked by blue eyed beautyy. 1

2007-11-03 17:42:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

ok i'm new at skool and i met a guy who i have a class with. i think about him all the time and juss wish i was with him.i always wonder what he is doin and what other girls he is talkin to.we talk all the time but we juss arent goin out.but its werid becuz everyone is saying that we would make the perfect couple and that we should get together.im ready but wen "my friends" asked him out 4 me he said he wasnt ready 4 a girl,but we are 4ever flirtin.but other days we go the whole dat without talkin and act like we dont noe each other.it is so confusing between us.some days i like him so much and other days i juss wanna get over him.but i dont noe if he likes me.is ery confusing...i need sum advice....

2007-11-03 17:39:36 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm sure somone in your family is of the larger size and is a very nice person so why shouldnt they have love too?

2007-11-03 17:39:03 · 35 answers · asked by mcdonaldsnuggetaustin 4

2007-11-03 17:37:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

Men, would you dare wear any Van Halen type of outfits such as tight spandex jumpsuits???

2007-11-03 17:37:50 · 11 answers · asked by SaberToothCali 4