experienced?

Question

Hi guys, well my bf and I have have been going out for close to a month now, and seriously i assumed he was a virgin. But the other day I asked him if he was, he told me he wasn't and he hadn't had sex since. It seems like he has been hurt by girls in the past. But now I feel so jealous or upset by the fact he isn't a virgin. I mean there is a four year difference so I can understand and everything. I don't know why i feel this way. We all have a past and everything and I hate how I have such strong feelings for him. He's a great guy and I'm really confused has ne1 else felt this way. When I told him i was a virgin he said that he completely respected me and told me it was a good thing. Help???

Answer 1

He respects you and he is a gentlemen...its ok..CHILL....and he obviously hurt someone or someone hurt him and he feels the same way about u as u do to him and NEVER wants to do anything to hurt you...

DOn't let this one go

Answer 2

Lets see. He's only had sex once before, and not since then and that was four years ago, so you can't verify that it happened. Congratulations, it'll be a first time for both of you.

Don't sweat it. No guy wants to come off as inexperienced, especially not in front of a younger girl. Relax in the knowledge, that years from now, when he's telling the story of how great his first time was, you'll be the girl he's talking about.

Answer 3

Four years is a big difference when you're young.
If he's been hurt, and is now chasing a younger girl,
I'd watch out.
As to his being "experienced", if he had sex once,
and hasn't since, ..... thats not experience, just a
past mistake, probably the first of many.

Answer 4

you shouldnt feel jealous about his past.....that's his past and you were not involved. just concentrate on the future with him. i think its great that you are a virgin....try to keep your inocense as long as you can. if he understands and completely respects that....then he is a very understanding guy.