Singles & Dating - 3 November 2007

How would he act around me, or even say if he got the guts.

2007-11-03 12:56:38 · 8 answers · asked by Sinead R 1

I am in my late 20's. I dated a man in his early mid-40's, b ut it ended almost a year ago for many reason.....

A couple months later, we started contacting eachother again...texts, emails, and phone calls. This went on for a while. We never got together, we only talked.

Then that fizzled b/c he wanted to try and date again. I refused to do that, mainly because he always blamed me 100% for the last breakup. I admit, I was part to blame......but so was he! He was a real jerk towards the end. Had he admitted to me that he was a jerk, I may have gone out with him again. But nope, it was allll my fault.
If we got back together, I want to be able to communicate with him (or any partner). I try to communicate with him and he completely disregards my feelings about so many things.

So now that I told him that I DON'T want to get back with him, and my reasons why....he is completely ignoring me. The silent treatment. What is up with that at hos age? Has he completely moved on?

2007-11-03 12:49:14 · 20 answers · asked by sephia 1

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i have made an improvement

i know have her msn. got it off her friend.

should i start a msn conversation with her and talk to her about what?

2007-11-03 12:35:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Am I?
Because I'm afraid to kiss my boyfriend.
It's just because I don't want to kiss someone who's not worth it. You know?

2007-11-03 12:34:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

you felt bad about yourself because in someway you felt you needed to change when in actually you were fine just the way you were even better than fine???I have learned from dating many guys in the past 2 years that I will always be myself take me or leave me hehehe Even the men I thought highly were selfish and had egos as one friend said to me LOVE YOURSELF FIRST!!!

2007-11-03 12:31:27 · 12 answers · asked by Rita 6

He lives with me and my parents and my 2 kids ..Everything i do i get the third degree like everynight its turn the tv down or o if i'm on the net i must be cheating ...He treats me good or so he says when he gets paid he give my mom rent and me 25 bucks a wek cause things are touch and i;m looking for work ..But he trows in my face when he gets me things we argue all the time i feel like i can't breath without permission ..He says he does alot but everyday after work he cares less what time he gets home he goes straight to the bar ..He was supposed to work today and come stragiht of if he didn't i told him not to bother he knows i am hungry cause i haven't got my check yet to go food shopping i mean yeah the kids eat ...first and formost so here i am like a dumb *** waiting i said screw it and locked the door course he'll come home in the front door and make up so lame excuse what should i do i need advice some please give me some advice?

2007-11-03 12:25:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's driving me crazy!! Every where I go there is always guys talking and looking at me up and down. I mean one time after volleyball practice I ran into the hallway to get some water. Well as I bended don to drink some water a group of guys just come over. This one guy comes right behind me and slaps my butt! I could not believe that he didi that! Then when I turned around the guys just started laughing and saying "Man she is all that and a bag of chips." And stuff like that. Then one time in class my teacher told me to right a problem on the board. So I went up and i did the problem. So leaned over to get the earaser when all of a sudden 5 guys fell out of their chairs! I knew they were looking at my boobs when I leaned over. It is getting annoying now. I mean I can't help that my body is very attractive but I just want the guys to stop looking very hard. I liked the attention at first butt now it is just perverted an duiscusting. I need major advice.

2007-11-03 12:23:15 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

What can I do to make you carrrrrrrre?

What can I say to make you feel this?

What can I do to get you there?

2007-11-03 12:21:16 · 11 answers · asked by Perfectwings 3

Ok I live in a majority white area( Not by choice) and I am an 18 year male high school senior ( black). I don't dress thuggish, I speak correct english, and I make good grades and run track for my school. Every time I go somewhere where there are a majority of whites, people just seem afraid of me. People get nervous when I walk in elavator's, go into stores with expensive items, and just normal sisuation's. I am used to being followed around in stores containing expensive items. One person even said to my face " your nicer then I would have expected" wtf is that supposed to mean? I have medium brown skin, I am almost 6'5, and have a natural athletic look with broad shoulders, is this why people are afraid of me? Things that I cannot change? I went into a store one time to buy some food items, an old white cashier said to my face without asking me I thought you were going to use food stamps and just sayed lighten up its a joke, wtf are serious? I can't take this **** anymore.

2007-11-03 12:11:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

im burning too

2007-11-03 12:10:54 · 59 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3

Ok so there had been a rumor going around school and my boyfriend had already told me that he hasn't started it. So my best friend tells me that she had been hearing that he was the one that has been starting it. So i called him saying i already know that you told that you haven't been starting the rumor but somebody has been saying you have. My intentions was not to start anything at all I really just wanted him to watch his back because it could be a scandolous friend saying it. All of a sudden he went off on me. Telling me not to call his phone saying something like that. I just want to know am I wrong for telling him or is he wrong for going off on me and hanging up in my face?

2007-11-03 11:41:45 · 13 answers · asked by starburyindagame 2

how are guys constantly "arroused" when they don't have an errection?

2007-11-03 11:33:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dont want to injure him, or do something horrible. I just want something that will really annoy him, but will make otehr and myself laugh. A good idea i heard was sneaking into his house and spreading grass seeds over his carpet and soiling and watering it =D What else can i do?

2007-11-03 11:32:40 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous

How To Tell Him?

Ok help please!!!!

I've been talking to this guy i meet for like 3 monthsalready we live like 30m away and he comes to see me like every weekend and we talk everyday things are getting veryserious we are both 18 now he is a virgin and im not
i never told him before cause we were just friends but now that things are gettiing serious i need him to knw i have try to bring up the conversetion saying" so have you sleept with any bode are you a virgin" hoping that when he answers me he ask me the same but it dosent happen so i have also tried this "is there anything you want to know about me like my past or someting but he never askes me if im a virginn so how do i tell him i am afraid we stop talking when he finds out im not.so whats teh best way tosay it and how?i really need help on this people please.i love him and i dont want to lose him and it was my past i was 14 so i was stupid back then i had no idea what i was doing the guy was even older than me help

2007-11-03 11:26:42 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-03 11:18:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Like when he c me he cums to me and starts huggin and kissin me! When he hugs me he starts lliken and kisken my neck!And i don't get time to spend wit my other friends! I luv him to death! He is HOT & SEXY!!! But he is too much....though he asked me to sleep wit him! should i say yes? help me here...

2007-11-03 11:14:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I went on a date with this guy I liked last month. I think he was kinda intimidated by the fact that unlike most girls he dated, I was career-oriented and was not going to just have sex with him. He's also suffering from the 'since I broke up with the only girlfriend I ever had,I've decided to just fool around' kinda guy. For that reason, I kinda stopped talking to him and a part of him was hoping he'd make an effort because I am a good girl. After a month, and him totally ignoring me since he seems to have a fan club of chicks, I erased him from my msn and my facebook friends. My friends say I was wrong and should have just been more aggressive and he would have decided to me be with me. Was I wrong to think that if he liked me, he'd have made an effort? Was I wrong to completely cut him off? Will it make me look like a fool?

2007-11-03 10:49:56 · 3 answers · asked by Coming_home 2

My son asked me this question and I don't know how to answer him. Do you?

2007-11-03 10:47:44 · 12 answers · asked by Heralda 5

when you had your first kiss? what was it like?? did you like it?

2007-11-03 10:45:15 · 17 answers · asked by Kimberlee 5

Okay so I was really drunk and this guy starts making out with me and keeps telling me to do stuff like take my clothes off, give him a bj, or handjob, etc... so i kept constantly saying no over and over and i can't really do anything physically to stop what was going on, i could only say no. but then he kept like pushing my head down to his c0ck. thankfully i was sober enough to not let him do anything, however, even though nothing sexual happened, is this still sexual assault? or what?

2007-11-03 10:41:10 · 21 answers · asked by Ana Erikson 3

just watched boys 2 men live there was 3 i pretty sure there wa 4 last time i saw them what happened

2007-11-03 10:35:45 · 2 answers · asked by andrewthart 1

2007-11-03 10:34:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

so me and my ex boyfriend broke up but we are still cool.. so last night he got with him cousin.. but i dont think he knew she was my cousin.. i still miss him and im gonna see him tomorrow .. should i email him tonight and tell him how i feel and give him an option to talk to me tomorrow or should i talk to him tomorrow

2007-11-03 10:23:36 · 1 answers · asked by complicated 1

shes a girl i like a lot

2007-11-03 10:19:51 · 4 answers · asked by austin l 1

My boyfriend told me that I can flirt with anyone I want, and do drugs, and that I can make out with girls (even my ex-girlfriend, who I had a super serious relationship with and YES, I am a girl).

By saying that, is he just giving HIMSELF room to do s**t like that?

Like "oh well if I say she can do that, then she can't get mad at me for doing it" .

Or does he just really not care about our relationship at all?

Or could it just not matter?

2007-11-03 10:19:44 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

which i stated in my last question. i pulled no punches. i told her how i felt. i told her i feel very unhappy & that changes need to be made. she said she would try & make those changes. she never gave me a reason why she blew all that money. about the kids she told me that the kids ( they are nt my kids they are 4 & 7. i have no kids) shouldn't have a bedtime on the weekends that i am just overeacting. about the discipline, she said that she would try but says the kids won't listen to her & she's the parent!!! i wac told i can't discipline the kids. one day later her mom calls her up & tells her that her co worker is married to a guy that works w/ my gf. she says her husband told her that my gf was flirting w/ him. my gf denies this & told me she would talk to him the next day about this & her supervisor. she never did & gave me some bs excuse. i'm just tired of this crap!!! i'm starting to think that i was a wallet & i'm pissed. i may nt date another girl that has kids. help me???

2007-11-03 10:15:25 · 1 answers · asked by petey 1

I talk to his girl on AIM whenever i send her a message she never responds

2007-11-03 10:07:20 · 4 answers · asked by metalheadmortal 3

to have backdoor sex? my b/f really wants to do it to me....obsessively talking about it.

2007-11-03 10:06:05 · 1 answers · asked by carolcarolcarol80 1

What kind of perfume do you like her to wear?
Sweet smelling? Musky and sensual? Or a scent of a million dollars like Chanel 5?

2007-11-03 10:01:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im only 16, but I act and look so much older. I've always hung around people so much older than me. But if im still a virgin and plan to stay that way till marriage, is it wrong to be talking to a 24yr old guy?

2007-11-03 10:00:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous