Singles & Dating - 3 November 2007

My 36-year old bf vanishes w/o a trace every few weeks, then always contacts me again. He has admitted to depression issues but never goes into detail. He is the silent type, very quiet, few friends, hates holidays, social gatherings, smokes weed daily, obsessed with skating, hates pretty much everybody and everything. Always pissed at something or the other, some days he is happy and not pissed, very rare tho, obsessed with sex.

Me: 27 years old, missing him since he moved to Cali for work 2 months ago, love him but getting fed up with his vanishing acts. Got tipsy from wine, texted him I am done with his push n pull and want an answer either way if he wants to be in this relationship or not (i am supposed to move to him at the end of January). No response from him. I apologized via voicemail the next day about my rudeness but that I meant what i said. No response. Been 14 days since I last heard from him.

2007-11-03 08:14:47 · 23 answers · asked by Sad Girl 1

somehow I made my boyfriend mad. Don't have a clue of what I did wrong. He said I was disrespectful, but looking back on the time together I didn't do anything that was disrespectful. So I tried calling him when he left and he didn't answer.. he kept sending my call to voicemail so I texted him and that is when he told me I was disrespectful and wouldn't talk to me. Now do I try to keep talking to him or do I let him have his space and wait for him to talk to me? See if I was mad I would want the person to keep trying. So guys help me out here... what would you want a girl to do in this situation?

2007-11-03 08:08:25 · 14 answers · asked by Panda23 2

2007-11-03 08:03:43 · 13 answers · asked by jerbear914 1

2007-11-03 08:00:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

So a guy is handsome, muscular, kind, funny, has a job, and he's asked you out. But you know for a fact that he has a hairy back. Does this break the deal?

2007-11-03 07:55:37 · 15 answers · asked by Andrew 1

2007-11-03 07:54:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

this is me http://profiles.yahoo.com/hocoloco1

2007-11-03 07:53:43 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous

Guys will you sleep with a girl or let her go down on you if you think she is ugly, fat and unattractive?

2007-11-03 07:44:10 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

My roommates girlfriend(or atleast someone he sleeps with) is visiting him for a few days. My roommate asked to borrow a dvd, so him and his girl can watch. I loaned them my DVD books, and forgot that it had a Girls Gone Wild in there, and a Hustler video. They are into rock or punk or something will they care? Do you think, they think I masturbate? I hope not. Should I be ashamed?

2007-11-03 07:37:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-03 07:23:55 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just curious if you will have sex with a girl you DO not find attractive.

2007-11-03 07:22:37 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

sorry bad english , not american.

so the girl i like is my bestfriend...she is dating a "bad boy" and always comes to me crying and complaining about him...i always tell her : get another one..he is not worth it.. and she doesnt listen to me. so yesterday she was talking about the same *** . and i told her : F*** you and him. and get a F*** brain, you retarded bi** .

and she is mad at me.. i really dont care, but.. did i do the right thing?

2007-11-03 07:20:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am seeing my ex for the first time in about 3 weeks. we HAD to break up because we go to different school and live in different parts of town. we never saw eachother. but when we did i was head over heels about him. and i loved kissing him. should i do it again?

2007-11-03 07:19:34 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

She has had a pretty crappy past and because of that does not trust anyone. I have lied to her a couple times, but only about small things. I know that is terrible, but we have gotten through that. Her friends and her are in like competition with each other, trying to be the best looking or what ever. On halloween, one of her friends dressed like a real slutt and she thinks that I enjoyed it, when in reality i just thought i was disgusting and i the only one i care for is her. She thinks i am just saying that and that if i really did like her or something that i wouldnt tell her. but in reality, i love my girlfriend and only her. thanks for the help.

2007-11-03 07:18:09 · 18 answers · asked by brunzy23 1

and STILL have a girlfriend?

2007-11-03 07:17:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-03 07:17:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've recently found out that two people 'like' me through other people, although I pretty much knew it in the first place anyway.
But now I've actually been TOLD, I seem to not want to talk to them, I try to avoid them and give them short answers when I'm pretty much forced to talk to them and I can't look them in the eye.

Its not that I was great friends with these two people in the first place anyway, but I talked to them as friends...but now I come across mean and when I look back on it I think what an idiot I'd been to them.

Why do I do this?
What is wrong with me? No, I don't 'want' to date either of them, but why can't I just carry on like before?

2007-11-03 07:15:50 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-03 07:14:40 · 22 answers · asked by SuperOverDrive 2

I'm in a very new and very intense relationship. Usually I'm a take it slow kinda person, but this guy totally swept me off my feet. I met him 4 weeks ago through a mutual friend, he told me he loved me within hours of meeting me. Told me he wanted to marry me/live with me/kids with me. I've met his kids from his previous marriage. He's 16 years older than me, which is not unusual as I prefer older guys. Things is, he is more intense than I am and more sure about 'us'. When I spoke about having doubts early on and if I ever say anything remotely hurtful (even without intending to) he tends to be very sensitive and take it to heart and then get cross/upset/not talk to me for a couple of days. On the last occasion where he was ignoring me, I couldn't stand it, and travelled down to see him (2 hour train journey) without telling him and basically I was snubbed by him, he treated me as though he did't want me at all even after I'd made the effort to come down to see him (continued below..)

2007-11-03 07:10:25 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

when have you hurt someone ?? and why did you hurt them ??

2007-11-03 07:06:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so I like him. I really like him. I want to tell him but the problem is I don't want it to be akward, as I have my Chemistry class with him.
How do I let him know? Without making it akward..

2007-11-03 07:04:18 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

I haven't seen this side of him come out and wasn't sure if he was capable of it, but recently he has been more touchy/feely, gives me a kiss on my cheek when I least expect it and hugs me before he leaves me. He does a lot more caressing too, which I like, because they are gentle caresses. Why all of a sudden? He's not the kind of guy who is going to verbally express himself. He's been very secretive with his feelings for me too. I just sense it and I know he cares. I don't need to ask him.

2007-11-03 06:59:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

but he is addicted to meth and gambiling how can I get him to quit using?

2007-11-03 06:58:07 · 26 answers · asked by KCS 1

We're not dating.

First she goes into a story about this horrible class she took and how she had go through alot to drop the class.

Then she says that the last time she went to the class this classmate of hers suddenly started asking her like 50 questions about herself (that's not why she withdrew.) Then the next class session she doesn't show up and this guy emails her to see if she's okay. The day she drops, the guy chases her down in the hallway to find out why she wasn't in class and why she hasn't responded to his emails. She tells him she's withdrawing. He looks disappointed, then sends her an email a few minutes later saying he's sorry she's not going to be in the class because he looked forward to getting to know her better, and saying that he wants to hear about her experiences at her field internship.

What would you think and what would you say??

2007-11-03 06:56:07 · 2 answers · asked by Jane T 2

He found out I like him. He rejected me, but what is it with him looking at me now constantly? Someone explain whats going on here?

2007-11-03 06:51:28 · 16 answers · asked by Dreamer 4

all my bf i had the black ones are more true and nice and people say the oppiste !!!!!1 what do yall think and also what dose freaky mean sexy or wierd

2007-11-03 06:47:23 · 7 answers · asked by suri G 1

2007-11-03 06:46:33 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

-ever flirt in front of a girl he likes, with another girl. Why? Is it to make her jealous?

2007-11-03 06:46:05 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

im rily depress wenever i take a look at the pictures of my boyfriend'crushes.they're so pretty that sometimes i think they wil b treated lyk princess if they're my bf's gf..im rily inconfident and rily duno how to fight with ds terible feeling..

2007-11-03 06:44:29 · 4 answers · asked by its katie!! 1

I got back with my boyfriend 4 weeks ago after a 2 month break up. He wanted to try again and go SLOW. I am very emotionally attached to him, but it seems that he isn't where I am just yet. He knows that I am a few steps ahead of him. He claims he is working on it. He told me hes half way there to committing 100% to me. We are in a relationship and I didn't think its suppose to be this complicated. I was advised to back off a little bit, but what does that mean? Does it mean not calling/texting, not asking him to come over? I try to step back emotionally, but its so hard because I am in love with him. I don't want to lose him again. Please help.

2007-11-03 06:42:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous