sorry bad english , not american.
so the girl i like is my bestfriend...she is dating a "bad boy" and always comes to me crying and complaining about him...i always tell her : get another one..he is not worth it.. and she doesnt listen to me. so yesterday she was talking about the same *** . and i told her : F*** you and him. and get a F*** brain, you retarded bi** .
and she is mad at me.. i really dont care, but.. did i do the right thing?
2007-11-03 07:20:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she is mad at me, but she kept calling me and telling me to apologize her, so suddenly i become the bad boy?
2007-11-03 07:21:39 · update #1
and i think she likes me now
2007-11-03 07:23:02 · update #2
LOL...she doesn't want to lose you as a friend. You were probably a little crude about what you said but sometimes you've just had enough. Just next time she calls tell her look stop talking to me of the assholes. Take more respect for yourself and stop dating losers. Tell her you will apologize for cursing but not for telling her what you told her she obviously needed to hear it from someone!
2007-11-03 07:25:30 · answer #1 · answered by Sandra R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow My Friend Just Like Her But At Least She Knows How Annoying It Is Lol She Get Over It Dont Worry && The Good Guy Always Get The Girl In The End So Good Look
2007-11-03 14:24:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I dont think you did the right thing and eventhough she's calling you now it's not for the better. If you guys end up going out because of this, is that the boyfriend you want to be to her? making her cry all the time. You should of just told her your feeling for her and maybe it would of made her realize that she doesn't need a stupid **** like her boyfriend. PLEASE dont try to be a bad boy! In reality, there isn't enough nice guys in the world and more girls want the nice guys than the bad boys. Bad boys are just a fun fling but the nice guys are the ones that the girls want to end up with.
2007-11-03 14:30:20 · answer #3 · answered by claudia68 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you did the right thing, but you mave have lost a friend.
Some people don't like the truth. Like Jack Nicholson said in the movie "A Few Good Men," some people can't handle the truth.
Sowing and reaping.....sowing and reaping. If you continue to plant watermelon seeds with the intention of getting roses, then you are delusional.
Stay cool bro and you will find that girl who appreciates you for being you. What your so called friend needed was a yes man and you got tired of telling her yes.
2007-11-03 14:26:54 · answer #4 · answered by The Hard Truth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, saying those things was definitely the wrong thing to do. I realize that you can see that the guy she is with is not right for her, but she just can't right now, I went through something similar about a year and a half ago, I was with a guy who i thought was good, even though all of my friends and family really didn't like him. I know now that you should always listen to your friends and family, but she hasn't quite figured that out yet. My suggestion is to simply apologize to her and give her some time to get it all figured out, eventually she will realize that being with him is probably not the best thing for her.
2007-11-03 14:25:27 · answer #5 · answered by Renee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting strategy...not what I would've done exactly, but you can't argue with results. Was that a frustration move or had you planned that over time? Lots of times "nice guys" desparately seek ways to get off of that treadmill; your solution seems creative and inspired. Maybe WE should be asking YOU the questions. Good luck to you, and let us know how this ultimately turns out.
2007-11-03 14:27:54 · answer #6 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Erm... U'd lost ur cool when she refused to listen to ur advice even though she'd asked for it in the first place. It's alright to lose ur cool. BUT! It was wrong of u to have been rude...
So dude, do apologise and make things right with ur friend. U dun want to spoil ur friendship because of a silly mistake.
U're still a nice guy, coz u weren't indifferent about ur friend's sad plight and reprimanded her for it.
And dude, i think u DO CARE. Otherwise, u wouldn't be posting this.
2007-11-03 14:25:35 · answer #7 · answered by Monatomic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um..wow. No that wasn't the right thing to do. And if this girl suddenly likes you because you called her some pretty bad names, that doesn't sound too good.... Do you really want and insecure headcase like that??
Go back to being who you are..a nice guy. If she's the right girl, she's going to love you for being the guy that you are.
2007-11-03 14:24:58 · answer #8 · answered by saxcat00 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah...I think what you said was wrong. You might have said the same dam thing but should have chosen diff words. Oh, and being a "bad boy", doesn't mean going around calling her a ***** and cussing at her.
2007-11-03 14:25:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, wow well i think that the girl did need to get her Sh*** straight and that it was a good thing that you told her the thing that i do not like is the way that you told her but o well, she will get over it and talk to you later
2007-11-03 14:25:16 · answer #10 · answered by gomez27985 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋