Singles & Dating - 6 September 2007

My boyfriend of 1yr 5months+ wants to buy me an expensive gift and I turn it down. The thing is, i feel if i accept it, i owe him something. Or that he's keeping score and one day ask for something saying "remember when I got you this~". Or that if we break up, I'd feel like i owe it to him to get something in return. I have never accepted anything he wanted to buy me. It makes him sad, but I feel weird. I also don't accept things from others, just not him.

Is it wrong of me? Should I open up more and let people buy me gifts? Or am i right to not accept gifts?

Anyone else like that also? Advice?

2007-09-06 07:12:09 · 17 answers · asked by i.sere 1

ok, what is more important to you, a car or a girlfriend? which interests you more?

2007-09-06 07:04:14 · 24 answers · asked by wendy 3

I asked a question earlier about getting back with my girlfriend of 16 months. She said she misses me an dstill has my picture up and cries to it everynight, but she also said she was hanging out with this guy that was her "friend" who just happens to like her from previous years. I already found this out, but I was going to ask how she felt about him??? Does it matter if I ask the question over the phone or face to face. which would be better, since she still is a little hurt by me? face to face or phone?????

2007-09-06 07:00:29 · 14 answers · asked by Still_going 1

I have a nice body but I don't feel the need to do this. As a matter of fact, I think it's not appropriate. I find alot of women think they have to dress this way in order to get men attracted to them.

This is not true, men go for personality over looks.

What do you guys think about this?

2007-09-06 06:53:02 · 18 answers · asked by Purple Vengeance 2

2007-09-06 06:48:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

hateful when talking to you whether they are just talking about whatever it may be or answering you. If so, how do you deal with this situation? Does it improve the longer you are together, and do you just ignore it IF it's not really bad? I really need some advice on this one.Thanks.

2007-09-06 06:46:37 · 9 answers · asked by starchild4485 2

just want to know how did you kiss your girl friend for the first time? what do you say before you kiss or what kind of situations did you create to be able to do that? to give me more ways to be able to kiss the girl i like and maybe even more :)

2007-09-06 06:46:12 · 8 answers · asked by Ya..Bru 3

I was v v good friends with a guy, until I passed out from drink one nite (I dunno where), and woke up naked on my living room floor with this guys fingers in my crotch. I hate him now and I want him dead. I'm not reporting him, dont ask why and don't tell me too. When I woke up all I did was pushed him away and calmly told him to leave (think I was shocked). I've told him i want nothing to do with him, and he hasnt contacted me and has shown remorse but i'm STILL so angry. I wished i'd punched him and kicked him and clawed at his fat ugly face. I so, so badly wanna email him telling him I wanna kill the fact b*stard.

It happened 4 months ago tho, so I dont know if I should. Plus our mutual friends might think i'm stupid. I've got SO much anger, what do i do?

2007-09-06 06:45:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

...even your actual girlfriend or wife or..one of your EX's!!!

2007-09-06 06:45:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

my ex wanted to ask me smthn yesterday and he asked bout wat i thought bout the concept of friends with benefits .... and i said i thought it was cool. he was pretty shocked by my answer. then he said he wanted to tell me smthn...hes still sexually attracted to me . hes rlly confusing me and this is 4 days after the break up ....is he thinking of doing this with me?

2007-09-06 06:44:48 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-06 06:37:05 · 10 answers · asked by Women Pleaser 2

Okay, so i've been reading these relationship questions &in the end they say they are between 10-15 years of age crying and over reacting about breaking up with their "love of their life" and assuming that its the end of the world if they dont find a way to hook back up with them or do something cruel to them after a bad break up, is it that serious? Dont get me wrong, i do respect their relationships but did i miss something here? They haven't even expericed Life after high school for goodness sakes & yet there crying a river. 0_o
& for the ones who says that your parents dont agree with this situation or that situation....well hello its for your own good! they are only trying to avoid having you making a mistake that you just might regret later.

& why do these "youngin's" always claim their boyfriend or girlfriend as their "hubby" or "wifey" when they are only less then the age of 16?

2007-09-06 06:30:05 · 16 answers · asked by Mz. L 2

My best friend and her boyfriend who's also a very good friend of mine just broke up. I was ofcourse planning to invite them both. Now that they broke up and she no longer wants to be his friend or know him at all should I not invite him for her sake? But he's a good friend of mine who was there for me before and I wanted him to be in my wedding.. my fiance doesnt like him that much either so I'm just really confused!! what do I do?

2007-09-06 06:22:32 · 37 answers · asked by I Am Jack's Wasted Life 5

I need some now..
I wont be able to see at school.
I will get head aches
And my mum is going to go mad when she finds out.
What should i do.
To get some new ones it might take a week.

2007-09-06 05:44:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to give my love to a guy but don't see any guys to like. I want to cover him w/a blanket when it's cold, cook for him when he's hungry and even listen to him talk about sports. Has anyone ever cried b/c their heart wants to love but no one to give it to?

2007-09-06 05:40:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 17 years old and im dating this guy who is 24 almost 25..and the age thing works for us.. my mo s ok with it before anyone says anthing. Anyways, we have decided to wait to have sex until I'm 18 to prove my mom that we can wait that long and plus to make sure im ready... the thing is.. How will i know when im ready... I by the way we've been datin for almost a year now( Sept. 16th = 1year!)

2007-09-06 05:33:52 · 28 answers · asked by angela w 2

Ok, here's the deal...I started talking to this guy abt a month ago and we hit it off..everyday for the last month we stayed on the phone for hours and hours...so we both agreed that we were going to pursue something...ok, i visited him this past weekend and we slept together and now it seems he has withdrawn...he can no longer stay on the phone cos he's to "tired" and he was supposed to visit me this weekend, but he just sent me a text saying that he has to work...I guess I shd be smart enough to read b/w the lines but I just wanted to get other people's thoughts...shd i confront him on his suddenly weird behavior or should I just let it be...I must admit that it really hurts b/cos this is the first time in 4 years that i have genuinely liked someone and opened up again...I feel like crap and a bit stupid....

2007-09-06 05:17:34 · 29 answers · asked by Anya 2

we seem to be in love with each other. we both play an online game and met through that. we started saying "i love you" after a month or so. we talk everyday, we webcam and we seem to be very compatible.

he is single, he was seeing a girl this summer but that girl dumped him cause he told her about "us." the girl didn't want to wait around for him to chose which girl he liked better.

anyway, i'm 24 and he is 28. i am suppose to fly out tomorrow for six days. he still lives w/ his mother and i've spoken to his mother.

also, i don't think he'll go back to that other girl after he meets me eventhough that other girl was his first.

2007-09-06 05:08:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-06 05:00:29 · 26 answers · asked by ♥MiSHEY♥ 1

I weigh 161 Im 5-5 22 and a female..........Ill be going to the gym three times a week. My goal is to get fit for next summer...let me know

2007-09-06 04:58:20 · 17 answers · asked by Sweetheart 1

and I am not harrasing her everyday, as she is even back to calling me sometimes to see how i am doing. Question... There is this guy she knows from 4 years ago and just reunited with in college class. My friend saw them at the store with some other people and told me. I confronted her very little just to ask who he was. She said he was a friend and I believe her, as she does have some guy friends and not a slut. So, I asked her, is that all, she said " he said that he liked me" and " I told him that we were together" ( this 2 weeks ago when we were still together) I know I am suppose to back off and give her space, but I just have to know a few more things about it. She says she misses me and I wont pursue it unless I ask her:: So the guy, whats his name? you didnt say if you liked him at all? does he know that you just want to be friends and dont like him any other way? How often do you talk to him? Can I ask these questions to see if she gets offended?

2007-09-06 04:51:52 · 4 answers · asked by Still_going 1

i mean with me?

2007-09-06 04:28:45 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am european and not in India at the moment. For me it is not a problem. I look at his pictures very often and it is very difficult but i can easily wait to meet him again.

2007-09-06 04:21:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I found it to be pretty common for a girl to be loud, but I have found along with screaming, scratching and biting are also in turn with that... and how many of you are hard scratchers... not favorable by the way, (have scar from that ish)...

ok the real question(s)
how common are these three attributes in a woman during sex??
what is your guilt in these actions??

2007-09-06 04:15:10 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

And then my girlfriend got totally angry and quit me. I thought it should have been OK. How can I explain it to her?

2007-09-06 04:14:04 · 15 answers · asked by Michael 1

Y do u think so also? I just want to know a guy's thought process vs a girl's. HEre's the situation. I was at my hubbys' aunt's place, and he called. We talked a bit and me spending the night came up and I said I didn't have any clothes. He was like, what do u mean u haVe no clothes? Then I clarified that I don't any clean clothes to wear the next day. It came across to me that with the initial comment, he thought i was standing there nude, that's why he asked the follow up question. This happened once before too, but i don't remember the situation. serious answers please. trying to figure out minds here. thanks.

2007-09-06 04:13:45 · 31 answers · asked by Uncertain Soul 6

Ive been dating this women for a while and i really like her and probably the other L word too, but who do you think should say I Love You first, the guy or girl? I realize it doesnt matter and i should just go wiht what i feel but...

2007-09-06 03:54:23 · 13 answers · asked by packman 3

i have a problem . i can't find a girlfriend and each time i ask a girl out she refuses. it has been 5 years since i had a girlfriend. Is something wrong with me i don't know each time i see a boy and a girl toghether i feel so lonely and i wonder if the coming days will bring me my true love? Please help me.

2007-09-06 03:53:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

People said he seemed interested in me:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ak6R.GFyxpEsf8G9u7Chy.3ty6IX?qid=20070904124348AA8vGv2
(thats my last qs)
He started the playful teasing thing again a couple of days ago but i ignored it because i was too shy since there was a ton of guys with him
and now he has ignored me and not even looked at me, and i feel terrible and i feel as if he hates me?
What should i do, i'm so shy, should i look at him lots to show i'm interested....(did he seem interested in the 1st place? -see qs link above)
Thanks

2007-09-06 03:50:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

but this guy dont want to leave me, but i love me so much and he also love me too. pls help

2007-09-06 03:48:22 · 4 answers · asked by sweetg 1