2007-09-06 05:00:29 · 26 answers · asked by ♥MiSHEY♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not all...
2007-09-06 05:04:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to assume we are talking boys... Under 18...they don't do it on purpose. They don't even know the meaning of love.. Girls mature at 13 whereas boys don't really get there until 18-19. And during this "stage" or "phase" they try to keep up with friends.. One friend says oh, shes not for you, and unfortunately more oftn then not... You get left for the next girl. The thing is most boys Don't know.. They have no clue and honestly are out for sex...
For those over 18 - - If you haven't told them they don't know and if you did, then they: A.) aren't ready for it B.) Don't want it C.) don't care D.) are just another example of the supposed playa's.
It gets better with time..
2007-09-06 12:09:52 · answer #2 · answered by Stefanie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are many very good answers here already, so there's only a little bit that I can add to this mix. Boys will only go as far as YOU let them. If you say you're not ready for anything beyond friendship, they'll move on, and you'll have saved yourself a lot of grief. Though you'll be sad because he left (even though he was VERY cute), you'll have saved yourself the humiliation of allowing him to have what you allowed him to have, then splitting. Giving boys what they want is never in your best interests, or theirs either. If they truly wanted to be your friend, they wouldn't pressure you into an intimate relationship that neither one of you are ready for. I agree with the one gal who says that that kind of intimacy should be reserved for marriage. The only thing that you should be concerned with (if you're still in school) is getting good grades, having friendships, having fun, and being a responsible young person. Having sex outside of the bounds of marriage is irresponsible behavior, with dangerous and lasting consequences. Besides, do you want to be one of those girls who comes to school crying her eyes out because her boyfriend (flavor of the week) has dumped her for her best friend? Don't you get tired of all the drama that goes on around you every day, in the school hallways? Why bring that on yourself? You deserve much better than that. Hold out for what's good, wholesome, healthy and lasting. Wait for marriage...you'll not regret it. Plus, you'll never have to wonder if you're pregnant or have a disease. You also won't end up on YahooAnswers asking if your symptoms mean you're pregnant, and have a bunch of strangers judge you and call you horrible names. Too much drama for me, kiddo. Be safe. Guard your heart. <*)))><
2007-09-06 13:13:12 · answer #3 · answered by Sandylynn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all men you are looking for love in all the wrong places. i am 26 years old and still have not found the right one. just take some time step back and find yourself. i just got out of hurtful relationship number 3 and he did nothing but cheat, stole from me and my son. i dumped his *** after 6 years. just hold tight don't get sertious again for a while. my next relationship i am going to do a backround check. be single for a while it is the greatest opportunity
2007-09-06 12:16:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that they make you want to fall in love, it's that they are trying to make love (to get in ur pants basically) and the minute they got what they wanted they could leave and never talk to you again. It can be very painful emotionally. That is why you're supposed to wait until marriage, so you dont have to deal with the pain.
2007-09-06 12:08:04 · answer #5 · answered by April 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
probably becasue they dont want a real relationship and just want someone to have fun with and haves sex with. I mean not many guys really want to get married and are not thinking about that in the beginning of the relatioship. If you fall in love so quickly just make sure the guys you date are worth your time and not just there to have a good time. Good luck
2007-09-06 12:12:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are trying to have sex with you, and once they do, they want to have sex with a different girl. Over time they have found that the most successful technique is to make a girl fall in love with them, and also to get her to believe that they love her too. You're not the first girl who fell for that one...wait till you're older and someday you really will find love.
2007-09-06 12:05:48 · answer #7 · answered by fizzygurrl1980 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because that feeling of love you get, allows them into your pants.
Once they get the milk for free, they can move onto another cow anytime with no repercussions. Commitment to a woman is a frightening thing, they tel you how perfect and wonderful you are, then spend the rest of their lives trying to change you.
2007-09-06 12:07:04 · answer #8 · answered by btceng64 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They don't want to fall in love, or have you fall in love -- they just want you to fall into bed.
And not all guys are like that. The ones who are are the losers out there. You need to find a nice guy who respects you for who you are -- not just for your body. Yeah - he may not be the stud athlete, or the best looking guy, but he will truly love YOU! Don't just go for their looks and charm -- go for the nice, polite, respectful guy. You will be much happier!
2007-09-06 12:08:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Boys like a challenge.
When they get what they want...they're on to the next girl. They usually grow up by the time they hit their mid to late 40's.
2007-09-06 12:08:21 · answer #10 · answered by ANewLife 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As soon as you let on that they have you, they lose interest. The trick is to never let on how much you care. Just enough to keep them around. They like pursuing women, if they know that they have her they don't need to pursue her anymore> Crazy but oh so true! It's just the way males work! :)
2007-09-06 12:06:08 · answer #11 · answered by laura_lovely_sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋